Professor Li Meijin: There are three steps in raising a child: before the age of 6, it is mainly about emotional and character cultivation; between the ages of 6 and 12, after the child enters elementary school, the focus is on the cultivation of learning ability; after the age of 12, the emphasis is on respect for education. Children face tremendous pressure at these three critical ages, which is when they first enter school or jump into another learning stage, namely 6 years old…
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Parenting knowledge
What is the difference between children raised by \”loving\” and \”unloving\” parents? There will be three obvious differences in 20 years
I accidentally came across a post on the Internet that said \”the content of happiness exceeds the standard\”. The title of the post was: My parents really don\’t treat me as an outsider. The post was written by a child, and the ones \”showing affection\” were his parents. From the picture, we can see that the father carried the mother on his shoulders as if no one else was watching, and even made a \”yeah\” gesture. And my mother is also familiar with the road and is familiar with strange things,…
The look of a mother getting angry is the scariest picture for a child!
Many parents lose their temper when raising their children. Sometimes it is because the child makes a mistake, sometimes it is because the child is procrastinating, sometimes it is because the child is acting stupid, sometimes it is because the child is too clingy, and sometimes it is because the child does not sleep. , sometimes it’s because the child gets up, sometimes it’s because the child doesn’t like to study, sometimes it’s because the child breaks things… In short, many of the children’s behaviors are…
\”Mom, what if I don\’t get into a good high school?\” This mother\’s answer is a model
The countdown to the high school entrance examination has entered, and the hearts of parents and children have been tugged. Some people say that the current high school entrance examination is too difficult, even more difficult than the college entrance examination. It is the first big test in a child\’s life, and it is also the first important intersection in a child\’s life. The high school entrance examination is not only a test for children, but also a test for parents. At this critical moment, parents should prepare three assistants…
How do parents relax when they have a child who is lying down and out of school?
It is impossible for parents not to be anxious when their children do not go to school. The cause of anxiety is the unpredictability of consequences. In other words, the feeling of losing control is what causes our anxiety. In this life we are looking for the feeling of control everywhere. Making plans, making items, classifying priorities, concreteness, and visualization are all to make us have more certainty about things and life…
The age of 9 is a miracle, and it is also a hurdle for children. After passing it, it is easy to become a \”student master\”
When a child reaches the age of 9, there will be a very big change. The age of 9 is also a very important and critical period in life. They began to think, \”Why should I do this?\” \”What exactly is this thing?\” \”How do I do it well?\” That is, they began to think about the three final questions of life: Who am I? Where do I go? How do I get to? They began to explore more…
Primary school Chinese teacher: There is a clear 4-point gap between \”literate\” and \”illiterate\” children in kindergarten. Parents should be vigilant
A classmate of mine is a very Buddhist. Not only did her children go to a public kindergarten that didn’t teach any knowledge, they also didn’t go to a kindergarten transitional class before entering elementary school. She believes that learning knowledge is something that happens after elementary school. Children should enjoy their childhood and play freely before elementary school. Therefore, when her children were in elementary school, they could not count smoothly, let alone read. As a result, her son…
No matter how old your child is, if you want your child to become emotionally stable, do these 8 things
In life, we may see that some children have relatively stable emotions, while others may have emotional outbursts at the slightest thing. Each child has a different natural temperament, so their emotional responses to external stimuli are different, which is normal. In addition, no matter adults or children, absolute emotional stability does not exist, because everyone has times when they are emotional or out of control…
Her son is addicted to the Internet. This mother does the opposite: I never stop my child from playing games because I have figured out these things…
Elon Musk once said: The mobile phone has become an organ of the human body. I saw a piece of news online: Shanghai Children’s Hospital has established a separate Internet addiction clinic. Many parents bring their children to see them for depression, anxiety, and more serious children with bipolar disorder, schizophrenia and other mental illnesses. And among these kids…
If you don’t teach your children some things, no one will tell them in their lifetime.
Many parents think that everything will be fine if they send their children to school. In fact, this is not the case. Parents are the most important teachers in their children\’s lives. If you don\’t teach your children some things, no one will tell them in their lifetime. Especially the following three things, you must tell your children some principles of life. Independence and self-care are the capital for a person to travel far away. Many children nowadays are hiding…