After deciding to sign an agreement with his child, his changes were astonishing!

When it comes to signing agreements, it seems that it is not something that should happen at home. However, as children become more and more accepting of this method, many forward-thinking parents have begun to sign agreements with their children at home. Mr. Zheng’s family has such an agreement, and the two parties signing the agreement are parents and children. According to the agreement, Party A is the parents who are about 40 years old, and Party B is their 11-year-old son Xiaohan…

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How to cultivate children’s self-confidence and independence

Recently, a mother left a message in the background. She said that her child has entered the kindergarten class at the age of 6 this year, and she gives up whenever she encounters something slightly difficult. They also lack independent opinions on weekdays. They have to ask their parents about everything: \”Mom, what clothes should I wear today?\” \”Which shoes should I wear?\” \”Which color should I paint?\” Children are used to asking others about everything they do. meaning…

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The most advanced help is to make children feel happy in the process of doing things

Recently, I have been watching \”Little Separation\”, which is quite heart-wrenching. Three families started a tough battle over the future of three children who were about to take their high school entrance exams. Parents try their best to find solutions if they have money, time, and methods. Nothing is impossible, only imaginable. Although my children are still young and it is too early to talk about the pressure of entering higher education, every time I see…

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10 strong signs of a smart baby

As babies grow up, parents want their children to be smart and lively. But how to judge whether the baby\’s intellectual development is normal? Here are 10 strong signs that your baby is smart. 1. Strong curiosity. Smart babies usually have strong curiosity. They are full of desire to explore the things around them and like to touch, disassemble and study various objects…

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A joke planted the seeds of resentment in my daughter\’s heart

The elder sister is 9 years old and the younger brother is 5 years old. They often quarrel, but now they quarreled again. The two siblings each hugged one of my arms, raised their faces and asked, \”Mom, whose mother are you?\” I replied angrily and funny, \”Do you even need to ask? Of course she is your mother.\” The younger brother argued, \”No, you are my own mother.\” The older sister burst into tears. \”…

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Please, please stop invading your children\’s territory, okay?

I often hear others say that they hope to have free space. This kind of space is not only reflected in objective space, such as a room, a house, an open space, etc., but also in an independent space of thought. Adults have a certain understanding of the above. These pursuits and yearnings for self-space are the same for children. Giving children free space to grow can help them learn tolerance, humility, and understanding. Thinking…

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No comparison, no harm!

Often inappropriate comparisons will always bring more or less harm, whether to others or to yourself. Parents like to compare their children with other people\’s children. Although the original motive may be that they hope that their children can receive a certain degree of \”stimulation\” and strive to improve themselves, the reality is that comparisons not only easily make themselves \”unsatisfied\”, He also has a heart for the weak children…

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Don\’t rush to scold your children, because there are many things you don\’t know.

Dingdang Mom Naodao Indeed, a child’s willingness to take the risk of being scolded by his mother and reaching out to help others is not only a good deed by the child, but also a success in family education. We can imagine that the little girl’s parents are also enthusiastic and kind people, so they can educate such kind people. children. However, from a parent\’s point of view, sometimes we can be a little more patient and a little more patient with our children…

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The mother threw away the toy in front of her, but her daughter was convinced

During this time, the girls in Xiaomiao\’s class were particularly popular in knitting a kind of colorful thin plastic ropes. Because Xiaomiao was more meticulous, she said she was the best in her class at knitting, and she was the best in the class at knitting the first few words. One of the three classmates who took the step (which is said to be very difficult). So, forget about her complacency. When I saw her having fun, I reminded her several times: \”There are thousands of things to do in class…

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Wisdom and virtue are indispensable for families and society

The divorce rate is relatively high in the world now. Why? What causes it? There are many reasons. 1. From the family, parents are concerned with the education of their children. They cultivate selfishness, vanity, over-willfulness, and laziness in their children from an early age. 2. Moreover, marriage nowadays has become an economic transaction, that is to say, marriage is bought and sold. The main causes caused by these various methods…

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