Psychologist Eric Byrne believes that a person\’s life script is written before the age of 6, and no matter what efforts he makes in the future, he will follow the set direction. If life is compared to a slowly moving train, then the age of 0-6 is the track-laying period. Although the train shuttles through the track of time, it can improve its abilities bit by bit, so that…
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Parenting knowledge
The biggest task of parents is to let their children understand that they are good enough
I have seen a hot search before, discussing why East Asian children \”feel very guilty\”. Many of them are always cautious and fearful. In fact, it means that I have a low self-evaluation and always feel that I don’t deserve anything. You always feel like you\’re not good enough, whether it\’s rough pores on your face, thick thighs, or an attitude that never relaxes. So, you keep trying. hope…
6 nonsense words before going to bed. If you insist on talking about them for half a year, your child will change amazingly.
A foreign study has proven that if you chat with your children for 20 minutes before going to bed at night, your children\’s language skills will be greatly improved. Child psychologist He Lingfeng said: \”Talking more nonsense with your children is the most important ability for a parent.\” The \”golden hour\” is the hour before your child goes to bed. Seize the golden time. Not only reading before going to bed, but also chatting with your children…
Ten years later, children who are truly promising will often have this ability.
I was chatting with a friend a few days ago, during which she talked about her 5-year-old daughter with a sad look on her face. Ask her what\’s wrong? She said: \”When children encounter difficulties, they want to give up, or even lose their temper and cry, and don\’t know how to guide them.\” For example, when playing with her children with building blocks, because the building blocks are crooked, she throws them away angrily. Said: \”I won\’t play anymore.\” The friend tried to encourage the child…
What should I do if my child has a \”glass heart\” and is afraid of difficulties? Try these 3 tips, simple and effective
My daughter is 11 years old and has been sensitive and delicate since she was a child. When I was little, I would cry and lose my temper when I encountered some difficulties. Despite this, in the eyes of adults, I was still very cute. After going to school, she developed a serious fear of difficulties and could not adapt to setbacks and pressure. When encountering difficulties in study, he gives up and wants to escape. After saying a few words, he became emotional, crying and shouting. This is puberty…
In order for children to have high emotional intelligence and understand human nature, they need to read more classics (Three visits to the thatched cottage to see human nature)
Today\’s society is an era of pluralism. With the rise of the Internet, Western thought respects individual liberalization. The establishment of children\’s values is no longer unidimensional. I used to like reading Western books. I thought they were simple, straightforward and easy to understand. As I read more and more, I found that many books have similar features and are more like reference books. Practical understanding of human nature and personal growth…
When I learned \”Merabin\’s Law\”, my child\’s rebelliousness disappeared
After my son entered fourth grade, he started to become rebellious. No matter what I say, he talks back. I asked him to finish his homework before playing, and he would yell at me: Why are you in such a hurry? It\’s also my fault that I can\’t finish my homework. When I asked him to go out for exercise on weekends, he said, \”You know how to take care of me all day long, why don\’t you go by yourself?\” During the holidays, I stayed at home all day, and if I even said a few words to him, he would really annoy me…
How much literacy is required for kindergarten to meet the standard?
In the process of transition from primary school to primary school, literacy is a concern for many parents. So how many words do kindergarten children need to know to make a smooth transition? There is no absolute standard answer to this, but too little literacy will indeed cause a lot of confusion and trouble for children. I feel it deeply. The confusion caused by insufficient literacy in the transition from kindergarten to primary school When children enter primary school from kindergarten, the environment undergoes huge changes…
How should first graders \”accompany\” their children so that they no longer need to \”accompany\” them gradually? We must pay close attention to these three points
In the blink of an eye, it has been almost two months since Xuan Meier entered the first grade of elementary school. As a mother who firmly believes in the importance of companionship, in the process of accompanying her in study and life, I am also summarizing and reflecting: \”How should we accompany our children in first grade?\” Before answering this question, first ask yourself: \”Why? Accompany? \”In addition to the core of establishing a good parent-child connection,…
It is not difficult for young children to learn to read, but it is important to use the right method
Literacy is an important learning task as a child grows up. Many parents think that literacy for young children is a difficult problem, but in fact, as long as they master the correct methods, literacy for young children can become easy and fun. 1. Why is literacy important for young children? 1. Lay the foundation for reading. Literacy is the prerequisite for reading. Only by knowing enough words can children read independently…