I once saw a joke on the Internet: The ideal image of a parent\’s child – healthy and sunny +5 points; self-discipline and diligence +5 points; making parents look good +10086 points. It is precisely because of this that many children are \”forced\” to look good to their parents since childhood. In some clients, I often see the bad effects of doing so: For example, in order to make their parents…
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Parenting knowledge
Children raised by mothers who love to dress up have obvious advantages 20 years later
A few days ago, my best friend wrote in the circle of friends late at night: \”Being a mother is so tiring, and life seems to be quite boring! I am busy with my children every day, and I am not willing to spend money on dressing up and maintenance, but what I get in exchange is… The child finds it annoying, but the husband doesn’t understand…\” Looking at her Moments, I didn’t comment, but immediately sent her a message. Only then did I learn that she had already…
After taking such a long break from school, the child has not changed at all?
Compromising for the sake of change means no change. Some parents will give me feedback and say: \”I suspended my child from school, but a few months have passed, and the child has not changed at all. Is this acceptance useful? Will it delay the child?\” ” This is a fantasy drama created by the minds of typical parents: imagining that they compromise with their children, and the children will be grateful to their parents, thank their parents for their tender care,…
Li Meijin: If your child is emotionally unstable, master 3 skills to cultivate an emotionally stable child
A mother discussed a question with me: \”How to raise emotionally stable children.\” She recently discovered that her son has great mood swings. One night, my son lost his temper because his favorite TV show was canceled. He angrily slammed the door into his room and refused to communicate with his family. She also felt very helpless and tried to communicate with her son, but the child was still very emotional. second…
Li Meijin: When children ask for pocket money, parents should abide by \”three don\’ts and two do\’s\” to establish a correct concept of money for their children.
A mother discussed a question with me: \”How to teach children to use pocket money correctly?\” Professor Li Meijin, a famous education expert, proposed: When children ask for pocket money, parents should follow the \”three don\’ts and two do\’s\” to establish a correct view of money for their children. . What exactly are the “three don’ts”? 1. Don’t give just as you ask. This will easily make children…
A boy was scalded and beaten by his classmates with 11 basins of \”boiling water\”! Parents: Why does school bullying continue to be banned?
Why does campus bullying continue to be banned? 1 Recently, a shocking video went viral on the Internet. The video showed a female teacher openly instructing 26 students to take turns beating a boy in class. This incident quickly aroused widespread attention and heated discussion from all walks of life. The boy who was beaten tried to escape, but the teacher grabbed him by his sleeve. The child kept complaining about stomachache, headache, and leg…
Li Meijin: If a child is not confident, if parents master 6 golden rules, he will become more confident day by day.
A mother and I discussed a question: \”How to make children more confident?\” This mother has a daughter named Xiaofang. She found that her daughter was always reticent and lacked self-confidence in school. To help Xiaofang, she began to encourage Xiaofang to participate in family decisions, such as choosing weekend outdoor activities. Whenever Xiaofang makes suggestions, her mother always listens carefully and gives affirmation…
Be sure to seize the golden 3 hours of study
In the pursuit of academic success and career advancement, time management is key. Arranging study time scientifically can significantly improve efficiency. The \”golden 3 hours\” usually refers to the time of day when a person is most focused and most efficient in learning. This time period varies from person to person, but most people\’s golden time is within a few hours after waking up in the morning, about…
If you don’t know how to praise your children, just memorize these 5 sentences
The Spring Festival Gala sketch \”Can\’t Open My Mouth\” resonated with many people. The son in the show has just been admitted to college, and his father is very happy and proud. In front of reporters, relatives and friends, he proudly said that his children are independent, studious and capable, and have never let their parents worry. But as soon as the child appeared, he immediately put away his smile and switched to reproachful language. After a while, he said that the child was \”…
Enjoy money and love, no discipline, kid, how is that possible? This logic does not hold
Yesterday, the two children had a great time eating the KFC bought by their father. Before I wiped off the oil on my little mouth, I started to complain about my father: \”When we watched Running Man on Saturday, Dad took care of us and didn\’t let us make any noise.\” Me: \”When you watched Running Man, you laughed for a while and then laughed for a while. You can dance, but your mother still finds it noisy at home. Isn’t it normal for your father to control you?” Daughter: “We want to be free and let go…”