Writer Yu Hua once said: A person\’s childhood determines his life, and the best time to determine his destiny is childhood. Although I don\’t completely agree, after all, the ability to shape yourself is as important as environmental and social factors, but I have to admit that mothers have a huge impact on their children\’s growth. Here, I dare not presume to suggest what kind of family education is the best, but I can observe that…
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Please be prepared, children will always embarrass us…
What do you worry about most every time you take your children out? Is the child not eating well, not getting enough sleep, or not having enough fun? If you really think so, I can only say, dear, your child is still too young to be a big monster. Yelling in restaurants, crying in shopping malls, and acting out in playgrounds are the things that really scare us. \”Thanks to him\” became the crowd…
When you learn to love yourself, that is the strongest trump card in education
I once saw a netizen leave a message: \”My brother and I are only more than one year apart. My mother pushed us to grow up. My father is very busy and rarely has time to take care of the family. My mother works very hard every day, but there are also many things to watch. She is used to complaining about her father being homeless, complaining about her family not loving her, complaining about how unsatisfactory life is… She places her hopes in life on my brother and me…
My son is always slapped and cursed by his classmates. This mother’s behavior is thought-provoking
Late one night a few days ago, the mother of my son’s classmate suddenly contacted me: My child told me that there is a classmate in the class who always slaps him, and also slaps your child, and also calls him particularly dirty words… I have reported this to the teacher. …… What? Slap? Swear words? There was a \”buzzing\” sound in my mind, and all kinds of news and videos of \”school bullying\” flashed through my mind. I was heartbroken and angry…
10 ways you educate your children well
It is not enough to only pamper children when raising children. Parents who know how to combine firmness and softness in education are the best guides in their children\’s life. Educator Suhomlinsky said: 15 recommended high-scoring baby education books can be called life textbooks. \”At a certain moment, when you see your child, you also see yourself; when you educate your child, you also educate yourself, and test own personality.\” …
Every undisciplined child lacks such guidance behind him
I have asked many mothers with slightly older children, and everyone nodded in agreement: the most tiring and troublesome thing is not to wait for the baby to eat, drink, poop and sleep, but to make the baby obey the rules! Here, I do not use \”obedient\” but \”obey the rules\” because obedience requires children to passively obey our subjective orders, while obedience requires children to actively comply with objective disciplines. It\’s because of the fundamentals of education…
What should I do if I can’t get into a good high school? This is the best answer I\’ve ever heard
Beijing Normal University conducted a particularly interesting survey before: Many students in northern Qing Dynasty were unknown in primary school and junior high school, but in high school, without exception, they all came from prestigious schools. In fact, whether primary school and junior high school are prestigious schools may not have as big an impact on future success as we think, but high school is very important. I remember when I was in college, my classmates came from all over the world…
Congratulations, your child has started to say \”no\” to you
A few days ago, I received messages from several mothers in my mailbox. A mother said that her child, who was more than 3 years old, suddenly seemed to have changed. The son who used to be obedient and well-behaved is gone. Now, no matter what his mother says, he always likes to say \”no\” to ask him to eat, and he just says, \”I don\’t want to eat.\” I asked him to wear pants, but he just ran around the living room with his butt naked, saying that I don’t wear pants. Asked him to drink water, he also…
What should we do if our adolescent children are rebellious?
Has there ever been a moment like this? One day, I was trying to reason with my child, hoping to correct his behavior. But he seemed to have eaten dynamite. Not only did he refuse to obey, he also spoke rudely and contradicted the adults. I believe that at that moment, parents must have found it unbelievable. Why did their child become \”rebellious\” overnight? Was there something wrong with him? This scene was also played in the TV series \”Rivals\”, no matter…
My child was beaten to death for not pooping in the kindergarten. After learning the truth, I decided to transfer to another school.
Even if the child is beaten to death, he will not poop in the kindergarten. I said: \”If the child has been unhappy for so long because of this incident, then let\’s change it.\” My friend breathed a sigh of relief: \”You are the first person to support me.\” Now, half a month has passed, and my friend\’s house My child has adapted well to the new kindergarten, and the problem of not pooping in the kindergarten has magically improved. I don\’t know my friend…