Chinese people don\’t abide by the rules, that\’s because we are of a higher rank. In recent years, our parenting methods have become more and more in line with international standards. While we were shopping for maternal and infant products from the United States and Europe, we also picked up their parenting ideas. Under the influence of Western parenting concepts and methods such as \”Montessori Education Method\”, \”Sears Intimacy Parenting\”, \”American Academy of Pediatrics Parenting Encyclopedia\”…
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Parenting knowledge
Chinese father, career is always more important than the growth of his children
Some time ago, the director of the department resigned. It is said that his wife gave him an ultimatum: divorce if he does not return before the end of the year. After graduating from college, this director joined the company\’s branch in Tianjin, where he found a partner, got married, and settled down. Three years later, due to promotion, he was transferred from the Tianjin branch to the Suzhou branch, and then from Suzhou to another branch. Just like that…
Are you still yelling at the naughty kid? Come and learn these magical \”spells\”!
One day not long ago, I was doing some chores in front of the computer. Suddenly I remembered that Xiao Nuo had been silent for a while, so I walked to the living room to see what she was doing. I saw her squatting on the ground, trying hard to scrub with her two little hands. There was a large puddle of white paste on the floor, and next to it was a bottle of baby lotion that she used to apply on her face every day. The cap of the bottle was already broken. Open…
\”Miracle Boy\” When children face difficulties, parents must do these things
There are a lot of good movies recently, so even though the kids were at home for the holidays, I still took the time to watch a few. The last time I watched \”Coco\”, I cried several times in the cinema. In the past few days, \”Miracle Boy\” made me cry like a dog again – from the beginning of the film, the little protagonist started to cry when he told his birth story. , the tears on my face never dried until the end. Your tears after becoming a mother…
When I think about the possibility of raising four grandchildren when I grow old, I simply regret having a second child.
I went back to my hometown during the Spring Festival and had a small gathering with some of my high school classmates. Naturally, we reminisced about the past and talked about the present at the dinner table. My husband and I were high school classmates, and we brought our second child, Xiaonuo, with us, so the topic of the second child soon came up. Will you have a second child? The answers of several female classmates were basically the same: they are too old to take risks. The male students\’ answers were varied, including those who had already given birth…
Hello, kid! I want to say sorry to you
I still remember that winter, I was running up and down the corridors of the hospital as fast as I could. I heard loud cries coming from the delivery room. Then he took over this little life from the nurse\’s hands. I greeted him with joy in my heart: \”Hello! My child, I am your father!\” Of course, he couldn\’t understand me at that time. But I can definitely feel my love for him. \”I will definitely…
Personal experience: Children in Montessori kindergarten are more independent, and the reason can be summarized in one sentence
Su Bao is two years old. Since last year, we have visited more than a dozen kindergartens around New York. Many kindergartens in the United States provide parent-child experience classes called mommy & me for families under 3 years old who are interested in joining the kindergarten. These experience classes are usually twice a week, with adults accompanying the children, allowing parents and children to In this process, the school has…
Planning for children reflects the pattern of parents
My friend Zheng Xin is the CEO of a listed company and a graduate of an Ivy League school. He has very strict requirements for his children. Since childhood, my daughter Yueyue has been required to consider whether everything she does is beneficial to people and society, and then consider the meaning of the matter itself. When Yueyue was very young, they once held a birthday party for Yueyue outside. There is a child\’s mother…
Pour milk into the fish tank? Creativity hidden in baby’s naughtiness
Share a short story. A little girl asked her mother: \”Why do others praise you for being beautiful?\” Her mother said: \”If you drink a bag of milk every day, you will be beautiful and healthy.\” After hearing this, the child poured a bag of milk into the fish tank. The mother lost her temper and yelled at the child: \”This is something for people to drink. How can you pour it into the fish tank? I asked you to give me the water I just changed.\” It\’s dirty, I have to do it again…
Violent education is the most dangerous education
There was once such a video that went viral on the Internet: In Shuyang, Suqian, a man beat a seven-year-old girl in a supermarket. In the video captured by the supermarket surveillance camera, the man grabbed the girl\’s hair, slapped her several times, and then picked up one of the child\’s legs, swinging her around like a rag doll. Throw it on the ground. The girl struggles to…