90% of parents have faced the dilemma: Should we spank our children?

The day before yesterday, I took Guoguo to play at a friend\’s house. My friend\’s son Xuanxuan is one year younger than Guoguo, and the two children had a lot of fun chasing each other in the living room. While my friend and I were drinking tea and chatting quietly, I suddenly heard an \”ouch\” coming from outside! It turns out that Xuanxuan and Guoguo fished out the fish in the fish tank with their hands, and the equipment used to circulate water in the fish tank was plugged in. Auntie thought they were in danger…

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Mom, please stop using me as your \”shield\”

A few days ago, I had another argument with my mother. The reason was that when we were visiting the supermarket, she took a nectarine from the fruit section of the supermarket, stuffed it into Tong Bao\’s hand and took it out because Tong Bao wanted to play with it. This is not the first time that she has used the reason of appeasing her children to justify her \”little actions\”. In the past, I often looked back and saw her peeling off peanuts to eat. Several times…

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If these signs appear in your family, you will definitely have talented people and your children will be blessed!

\”Yi Zhuan\” says: \”A house that accumulates good deeds will always be blessed; a house that accumulates bad deeds will have lingering disasters.\” The behavior of each person in the family will affect the entire family. In a person\’s good deeds, there are often blessings for his descendants. In the world of cause and effect, good will be rewarded with good, and evil will be rewarded with evil. It is not that there will be no reward, and the time has not yet come. If the following signs appear in a family, it is destined to have many talented people, and the children will have…

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Can\’t stop yelling at your kids? The real reason may be here

A few days ago, I took Chengzi to extracurricular classes. The teacher called the name before class. When Orange was called, the teacher\’s pronunciation was a little inaccurate. Orange didn\’t realize that he was calling himself. The teacher called again. Chengzi hesitated and agreed in a low voice. The teacher didn\’t hear it and thought the student didn\’t come. I happened to be behind Cheng Zi, patted him, and asked him to raise his hands to tell the teacher that he was here. …

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Do these three things well and you will be the best parent

Raising a child may be one of the hardest things in the world. From the time he or she is born as a small child until he or she grows up, he or she is completely trusted in the hands of his or her parents. This is the greatest gift from heaven to parents, and it is also the greatest test. As the author of \”Little Doudou by the Window\” Tetsuko Kuroyanagi said: \”Education and growth should be a chorus of freedom and innocence.\” Can parents…

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After the long vacation, I faced the children who refused to go to school. What did I do wrong?

Every first day of school after a long holiday, Rooney would make a fuss – not wanting to go to school. Of course, usually he just expresses his emotions, just like getting out of bed. As long as I use the two tactics of \”empathy\” and \”gentle and firm\”, he will definitely go to school in the end, but I didn\’t expect that this time he would be so of determination. Yesterday morning, before half past seven, he was drowsy…

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Self-checklist for unqualified parent behavior: You are too much delaying your children

In this era, \”naughty children\” has become a hot topic almost everywhere, and you can always see information related to it when you open the hot search. On the morning of November 25 last year, Ms. Liu went to the Xuefeng Police Station in Lizhou District, Guangyuan to call the police and said, My child was lost and I couldn’t find him after searching all night. It was learned that Xiao Song was only 13 years old this year. His parents were worried that playing with mobile phones would affect his studies, so they only bought him a…

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Children are smart at home, but why do they become stupid at school?

In the community, there is a child named \”Tailun\”, and everyone who hears this name thinks it is very fashionable. His mother would proudly explain: \”Tailun is a homophone for talent, because his father and I both hope that he will have the potential to be a genius from an early age.\” Tailen began to read when he was one and a half years old, and started learning English at the age of three. At the age of four, he could already do simple math problems. Tai, who just entered elementary school…

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\”No matter how good a teacher is, he can\’t teach students who don\’t want to learn.\” Is this true or is he shirking responsibility?

Education experts ask teachers that \”there are no students who cannot teach well, only teachers who cannot teach.\” The teacher says, \”No matter how good the teacher is, he cannot teach students who don\’t want to learn.\” If you don\’t believe it, please invite experts to the front line, especially in villages and towns. Come give it a try in middle school. \”There are no students who can\’t teach, only teachers who can\’t teach.\” This sentence first came from Mr. Chen Heqin of the Education Bureau. Mr. Chen said…

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