As a person with very clear childhood memories, Chengzi once swore that I would never remember the bitter and the sweet with my own children. Because my mother loved to do this when I was a child, and she would often tell stories about her bitterness and hatred when she was a child: My parents valued boys over girls since I was a child. I started doing housework at the age of four or five. I carried my younger brothers and sisters on my back when I was six. On weekdays, I had to fetch water and chop firewood. Feed pigs, chickens, wash clothes and cook… OK…
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Parenting knowledge
Mom, did I pay for the phone bill?
Diandian, who is in middle school, is a cheerful and generous little girl with a very sweet mouth. She is really loved by everyone. However, some time ago, many of Diandian\’s behaviors regressed. She became more and more clinging to her mother. She already slept alone and asked her mother to sleep with her. If her mother disagreed, she would keep crying. One time I talked in my sleep in the middle of the night and cried loudly for my mother. Mom patted and coaxed her a few times, then opened her eyes…
Smart parents let their children become themselves
The moment I saw my cousin Yulian during the Spring Festival, I was shocked: Why is my cousin so haggard? My cousin burst into tears before she said anything: Cousin, I have no face to see you. My son has not given me any grandchildren even after ten years of marriage. How do you think I can go out to meet people? People who are about the same age as me often take their grandchildren with them or hold their hands when they go out. What do I have? \”Wouldn\’t it be more comfortable without…
When the child was young, I didn’t have time to accompany you, but when I am old, you should come home often to visit me.
My friend Xiaoxue had a fight with her husband and decided to run away from home. So, he came to stay with me at night. She said angrily that I was determined to get a divorce this time. I knew she was just talking casually, so I deliberately provoked her, \”Where will you go after divorce?\” Xiaoxue said, I will live here with you. I said, please, you are such a troublesome woman, I don’t want to live with you. Then I\’ll rent it alone…
The child wants whatever he sees, and if he doesn\’t buy it, he just messes around? Beware of hidden power struggles between you
Once, Cheng Zi and I went to 798 to play. There are many small shops there selling all kinds of creative gadgets. Once the orange enters the eye, it becomes too busy. After a while, he ran over and said: Mom, buy me this fidget spinner. After a while, she pulled my arm: Mom, I want that sword. Seeing that I was about to fall into a tug-of-war of \”agree – refuse\”, I took out 50…
Children over 1 year old never call mommy, the truth behind it is…
In a week\’s time it will be my colleague\’s child Shuoshuo\’s first birthday. Everyone was discussing what gifts to buy for their children, but they found that Shuoshuo\’s mother (Xiaoya) was not very excited, and even complained a little, muttering \”This child was raised in vain\”, and she seemed to be a bitch. . It turns out that what annoys Xiaoya doesn\’t matter at all in the eyes of people who come here – Shuoshuo has never screamed…
The viral \”sleeping in separate rooms\” age has deceived countless children
I received a request for help from my best friend on WeChat early in the morning: A few days ago, we decided to officially divide the rooms after my son’s fifth birthday. It\’s a pity that the child is crying, throwing around and rolling around all the time. It has been for several days in a row. We have tried all kinds of methods and still insists on sleeping with us… I beg for all kinds of tips! My best friend said: Many experts say that if a child cannot sleep independently before the age of 5, it may…
To raise an organized baby, don’t ignore the order sensitive period
What is the order sensitive period? In Montessori education, according to the characteristics of the baby\’s growth process, several different sensitive periods are subdivided, such as sensory sensitive period (0-5 years old), number sensitive period (4-5 and a half years old), language sensitive period Sensitive period (0-6 years old), social norm sensitive period (2-6 years old), etc. Sensitive periods are often emphasized in Montessori philosophy because they can help us better understand…
Working mothers are sinners: guilty to their children at home, guilty to their bosses at work
Shortly after Women\’s Day on March 8, a friend who gave birth to her second child felt society\’s \”malice\” toward women. She confided to Qinglanjun: It turned out that she was working conscientiously in the core department of the company, and she was still working overtime until two days before giving birth. When I came back from maternity leave after the year, I was immediately transferred to a worse department. When she raised objections, the leader looked embarrassed: \”This…
A single word from a mother can cast a shadow on a child for a lifetime! Don\’t say it again
What saddens me the most is that my mother called me a \”shameless bitch\”… This is a passage I saw in an article on Moments yesterday, and it was said by a girl\’s mother herself. This girl had a boyfriend when she was a sophomore in college. They were in a long-distance relationship, but they had a good relationship with each other. During the holidays, her boyfriend’s mother invited the girl to play at home for a day. The girl was filled with joy and ran…