Why are American children neither beaten nor scolded? They are raised liberally and laissez-faire, but there are almost no disruptive naughty children?

There is a type of social news or topic in China that is always eye-catching, called \”naughty kids getting into trouble.\” Every once in a while, an unlucky kid will appear that breaks the limits of cognition and causes an uproar in public opinion: What the hell? Hot pot soup burns people\’s faces; peeing on the elevator; throwing bottles down from the 20th floor; washing the piano with Coke; and even causing various deaths… Yes…

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If you want to rekindle the fine traditions of the state-owned \”State of Ceremonies\”, you must let your children do these things from an early age

A few days ago, it was revealed that Chinese tourists littered the Korean airport in a mess. Although there are also structural problems at the airport and duty-free shops behind why the airport waiting room has turned into a \”garbage dump\”. But no matter what the reason is, we do throw away garbage. Just a few days after the incident, news came out on the 21st that [a woman was reported for taking photos while sitting on a late Qing Dynasty cultural relic, but she responded that it was just for fun]. …

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Tell your children: “Being able to lose” is more important than winning

My daughter Xinxin, who has just entered the kindergarten class, keeps coming home with one word coming out of her mouth recently – \”first place\”! I have never said this word to her. It must have something to do with her kindergarten life. I couldn\’t help \”gossip\”: \”Xinxin, what did you do to get first place in the class? English?\” \”No…\” \”What about shooting the ball?\” I thought of her recent \”shooting frequently\” at home…

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Life is a marathon, so why not go to school a year later?

Recently, a notice issued by the General Office of the Ministry of Education has made a lot of noise – the cut-off date of birth for children in the first grade of primary school will be determined by the provincial education administration department. The media explained this as: The deadline for primary school entrance age will no longer be limited to August 31! When many parents heard this news, they started to get excited: Does this mean that after August 31st, December 31st…

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5 things parents must do before their children turn 7 years old, the last one is especially important

Recently, the Indian movie \”Starting Line\” has become a hit. It tells the story of a pair of middle-class parents who battle with wits and laugh out loud in order to get their daughter into a kindergarten at a prestigious school. There is a sentence in the film that sparked heated discussion: This statement is a bit alarmist, but it reminds me of another documentary \”Seven Years in the Life\”. \”Seven Years in the Life\” records 14 British children over 49 years…

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With these 5 characteristics, children will definitely have great potential in the future! It depends on how many people you have in your home.

As parents, we definitely hope that our children will be successful in the future. What will have the greatest impact on a child’s future are some of his habits when he was a child. As the saying goes: \”You are older when you are 3 years old, and you are older when you are 7 years old.\” This is what it means. Some children will behave differently from ordinary people when they are young, but parents will find problems in their children, looking for faults, wondering if the child…

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Throughout their lives, 5 moments children will remember their parents the most

When the little deer was 2 years old, I decided it was time to teach her how humans wear socks. So, the old mother patiently demonstrated, and the little cub watched carefully. After the demonstration, she looked at me with a smile on her face, as if questioning whether I looked down on her. In fact, it turns out that, huh, stupid cub. The first time, she couldn\’t put all 5 toes in at the same time, so she always had to use…

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How terrible is it for a mother who has lost herself?

For several days, my colleague F told me about a mother and son she saw on the bus on her way to and from get off work. The mother must be less than thirty years old, and the child looks four or five years old and is in kindergarten. They first attracted F\’s attention because of the woman\’s loud voice. That morning, F was listening to music with headphones on in his seat, closing his eyes and relaxing. I was suddenly startled by a shrill female voice…

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A boy kicked someone and was thrown on the shoulder and stamped on the head: How terrible is it for parents to \”not hit back\” for their children?

Yesterday I was shocked by a video: a boy kicked a man on the bus three times on the seat. The man suddenly stood up, threw the boy over his shoulder and threw the boy to the ground, and raised his foot to face him. Stamp the head three times. I believe that most mothers are like me. They feel heartbroken when they see their child\’s head being stepped on so cruelly by a grown man. Little boy…

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Children who have no \”opinion\” are the most terrifying

From childhood to adulthood, our parents have required us to be obedient and sensible, and plan our future step by step. In school, if the teacher feels that a child\’s academic level is not very top-notch, but if the child is well-behaved and obedient, the teacher will think that the child is \”teachable\” and will prefer such a student. But the older I get, the more I realize that blindly \”obedient\” is actually a mixed bag…

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