How to keep children away from bullying

In recent years, bullying incidents in primary and secondary schools have occurred frequently, with bad social impact and serious legal consequences. They usually cause trauma and distortion to the victim\’s mind, low academic achievement, interpersonal alienation, and may even force the victim to engage in retaliatory aggressive behavior. . As parents, we don’t want our children to be bullied often, so we can often say these four sentences to our children to keep them away from…

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The 20 minutes before going to bed is the baby’s golden period. Parents must remember this knowledge!

(Picture by Tam Meiyi) Why is it most effective to chat with your baby before going to bed? Many parents know that if you tell your baby a story before going to bed, the baby will still clearly remember the plot of the story the next day. Therefore, 20 minutes before going to bed is the \”golden period\” for the baby to absorb knowledge and be active in thinking. Parents can seize this critical time to tell stories to their babies…

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What to do after losing your temper with your child

At around ten o\’clock in the evening, I was lying in bed scrolling through my phone when I suddenly received a WeChat message from my best friend: \”I just lost my temper with my child. I regret it so much now! What should I do?\” I asked her what was going on. ? It turns out that my best friend has been very busy at work recently and works overtime until very late every day. Today she finally got home early to help her child study, but she found that her child had made all the mistakes in her homework. \”…

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How to protect children when they go out

Long Yingtai wrote in \”Watching Off\”: \”The so-called scene between parents and children just means that your fate with him is that you will continue to watch his back fade away in this life. You are standing in this section of the path. , watching him gradually disappear at the bend of the path, and his back silently tells you: there is no need to chase.\” When children grow up, they will gradually leave home, or…

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I always want my children to be good at all kinds of martial arts, but what do you know?

It was summer vacation, and Xiaoli said that the topics of conversation among the mothers in the hot mom group began to revolve around how to spend their children\’s summer vacation. In addition to traveling and reading, it is hard for Chinese parents to let their children learn things. From piano, violin, accordion, to swimming, taekwondo, ballet; from English, Mathematical Olympiad, robotics, to Chinese studies, drama, oil painting, photography…

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Will beating and scolding children make them stupid?

A few days ago, I hit her again. I was washing dishes at the sink, and my daughter was one meter away, holding a ballpoint pen and scratching the millet in the grocery bag on the cabinet. I watched the grains of millet falling on the floor, and the words \”wasting food\” and \”cleaning up trouble\” were all complained to me. Suddenly, I was angry from my chest and angry from my forehead. I stepped forward, picked up her hand, and snapped Slap hard…

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Today you protect your children from cruelty, but who will pay for them tomorrow?

A few days ago, I went to the hospital to visit a teacher, surnamed Liu, who is in his early 60s and has Parkinson\’s disease. At first, the symptoms were only mild, but later developed to the point where he would fall down if he accidentally stepped on a small stone while walking, and his life entered a stage where he could no longer take care of himself. She was admitted to the hospital one night when the nurse was not around. She wanted to go to the toilet but was reluctant to wake up her 27-year-old daughter, so she fell down in the living room. When I went there…

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How can your child make reading a habit?

This is a question that many mothers are concerned about. Why don’t their children have the habit of reading? What are the families of children with reading habits like? Have our parents ever thought about it? What will happen to the future of children who have a habit of reading? Parents all want their children to love reading, enjoy reading, and have the habit of reading. If the child, just as we think…

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The secret that the older the child gets, the closer he becomes to his mother

A mother complained to me that her daughter, who was clingy when she was young, stopped being close to her at all after she entered adolescence. Except for eating together in the morning and evening, I rarely see my daughter. She always shuts herself in her room at home. My daughter was chatting and laughing with her classmates on her cell phone in the room, but when she came out, she seemed like a different person, silent, cold, and silent. Ask and answer…

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