During the summer vacation, Chengzi would stay at my grandma\’s house for a while, and I would go back to see him every weekend. Grandma Chengzi found that there were some things that she usually nagged for a long time, coaxed and threatened to get Chengzi to do it, but I would think of a way and just say a few words, and Chengzi would happily do it. Grandma Chengzi saw that this method worked well, so she followed my example. The results of it…
Category: Parenting knowledge
Parenting knowledge
\”If you don\’t even buy me a pen, what use is a mother like you!\”
A mother told me that her seven-year-old son has developed a new bad habit in the past six months. He always asks her for things: to buy pencils, rulers, drinks… The mother rarely agrees to her son\’s requests, and the reasons are very good. : I already have pencils at home, why do I need to buy them? The drinks are junk food and should not be consumed by children. Don’t you have a ruler? As long as it works, why do you have to buy it with your classmates…
When we say, \”Don\’t break it,\” what message are we sending to our children?
When I took Su Bao to visit a Montessori kindergarten for the first time, I found that there were very few plastic toys in the Montessori classroom, and most of the teaching aids were wooden, small and beautiful things. Such as wooden puzzles, sensory boards, and math tools. The \”coin tube\” (a teaching aid for training fine motor skills) that Su Bao likes to play with is also made of wood, and the color is hand-painted by the school teacher. Su Bao’s teacher explained to me…
Happy families are all similar: mothers are loved, fathers are respected, and children are accepted
The opening line of Tolstoy\’s \”Anna Karenina\” is very shocking: \”Happy families are all alike, every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.\” In what ways are happy families similar? Qing Lanjun thought that a happy family should be one where the mother is pampered, the father is respected, and the children are accepted. 1 The mother is pampered and the family is happier. The female writer Whale in the River once…
Parents\’ ignorance will ruin their children\’s lives
It should be the truth that the same kind of children are the same kind of parents. High-quality, high-level, and thoughtful parents will open up a bright road for their children, while parents with poor knowledge and short-term knowledge will limit their children\’s lives, and some short-term knowledge may even destroy their children\’s lives. 1. Lack of knowledge in education and psychology will destroy a child’s sound personality. A few days ago, a piece of news appeared…
Deng Chao: I never enroll my children in cram schools; Netizen: That’s because your children haven’t gone to elementary school yet
Deng Chao, who has been promoting a new movie recently, was asked about the education of his two children at a press conference. He said: \”I will never enroll my children in any cram school. If you lose at the starting line, you will lose at the starting line.\” Go up.\” As soon as these words came out, countless netizens immediately complained: \”That\’s because your child has not yet entered elementary school!\” A best friend of mine was also contemptuous after reading the news…
If you continue like this, your child\’s future will be a replica of you
\”I\’m six years old and you still beat me. How old are you going to beat me?\”; \”If you say something and I don\’t listen, you have to say it properly. You can\’t hit anyone.\”; \”Those words Is it hard to accept it? But you have to accept it too”… A video of a 6-year-old girl crying while “educating” her mother has become popular on the Internet recently. This girl is called Daidai. Generation after generation was lectured for being beaten…
The child is already on the verge of collapse, but the parents forgot to do this
Yesterday, a reader friend said to me on WeChat: \”There is a very popular video on Weibo, but my child is not like this when he is three years old. I am watching it and thinking that it is my child. What should I do?\” Then give it to me Posted this video: In fact, I watched this video a few days ago, and I felt so confused after watching it. Let’s take a look at what kind of message the two-minute video conveys to us:…
Children who have never suffered hardship will not be very happy in the future
When you were in kindergarten, I took you home one day. The heavy snow has just stopped, and you are calling to build a snowman. I said I wanted to go home and put on a down jacket and gloves, but you wouldn\’t, so you rushed into the snow happily. After playing so hard, you got a fever that night and coughed for the next few days. I blame myself very much for not being cruel enough to hold you back that day. We went to see a Chinese medicine doctor and got back several decoctions to drink every day…
Do you know the consequences of always comparing other people’s children?
One night a few years ago, Chengzi had a video chat with his grandma. Across the screen, Chengzi showed grandma the Peking Opera aerobics they had learned, and grandma said: \”It\’s such a great dance, but your mother can\’t…\” I was doing housework nearby and listened to their conversation without a word. After a while, Chengzi showed some actions to grandma again, and grandma said again: \”That\’s great, your mother can\’t do this…\”