Valentine\’s Day is here. Although the wind is strong and the temperature is very low in New York, it does not affect the lovers holding flowers all over the streets, hugging and kissing sweetly. Maybe love is the best warmth. Today, on the way home with little D on the bus, there was a teenage girl sitting next to her, holding a bouquet of roses, and her eyes were full of sweetness. At that moment, I was in a trance, and suddenly…
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Parenting knowledge
Should you be a strict parent or be your child\’s friend?
Children are of a different \”breed\” from us in terms of physiology, psychology and cognition, which also means that our relationship with them cannot be as simple as friends; every parent also shoulders the important responsibility of education, but too many If we are too strict, will our children become alienated from us? Dealing with children requires strategies and tactics. We must adhere to principles while maintaining close relationships. This…
It would be weird if a child could control his emotions
The day before, I received a message from a mother. Many parents have already mentioned this issue. \”Father Fish, I also have a son at home. He is now two years old and almost three months old. He has always been quite obedient, but recently I found that he seems to be less able to control his emotions, especially when he is happy. For example, it is very lively when people come to the house. , or meet a child you like, or…
Should children be raised poor or rich? I\’ll tell you the answer
Last year, a friend bought a house and after signing the contract, he invited some brothers to have dinner together. We grew up together, we were all born in rural areas, went to the same junior high school and the same high school, and went to university in the same city. Now they have all bought houses one after another and settled in neighboring communities. A friend lamented: I cannot guarantee that I will be able to bring anything else to the next generation in the future, but I can at least…
What kind of children do you want to raise? What kind of person do you want to be first?
At a Chinese New Year dinner, a relative told me about the child he brought up. He said that at a young age he learned to tell people to \”get away\” (which means scolding \”get out\” in Sichuan dialect). Once, the child asked a guest at home to \”get away\”, and the guest faced him. Lu was unhappy, and the relative quickly explained, \”The kid is immature, why do you have a problem with him? I\’ve been taking him for so long, and he often calls me to crawl. Why am I not angry?\” The relative is a child…
Behind disobedient children, there are often ignorant parents.
When children are disobedient, it is often the adults who cannot speak. I still remember a friend complaining to me some time ago, \”My son refuses to go to kindergarten no matter what.\” She said that every time she described the beautiful scene of the kindergarten to her children, there were fun slides, countless toys, and many children playing together. Every time I hear my mother say that, my son\’s eyes light up with the desire to go…