There are no shortcuts in parenting, it’s just that some people are carrying the burden forward

There is a saying that says, \”The greatest misfortune in life is to be indifferent when you should be struggling.\” The same is true for raising children. Many people think that children should be left alone and let their nature take their own course. But you need to know: it is nature, good has good roots, but evil has bad habits. The first few years after a child is born should be the most difficult years for parents. Because facing a new life means that a young couple…

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What should I do if my child has a bad temper? Look at Huang Lei’s trick!

Round 1: Listen and empathize with the child’s emotions. This story happens to be the terrible two (terrible two-year-old rebellious period) in the legend of Duoduo. Huang Lei and his wife picked up Duoduo from school, and the family happily drove on the way home. They passed a McDonald\’s on the way. Every time Duoduo saw a McDonald\’s, he and his father would shout \”McDonald\’s\” several times,…

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Extremely sad! A pair of children were abducted, and the mother waited there for twenty years!

In 1996, Luo Xingzhen\’s 7-year-old daughter and 5-year-old son were abducted in Duyun, Guizhou. In order for her children to be able to find her using their childhood memories when they grew up, Luo Xingzhen continued to set up a shoe repair stall in the place where her children were abducted for 20 years. Although her income was meager and she was getting older, she never gave up hope. Hu Hualan, Hu Huabai, where are you? The picture shows a mother setting up a stall to repair shoes in anticipation of her son’s return. picture…

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If you have a boy at home, please \”speak\” carefully

Many mothers say that talking to their baby boys is too tiring. I feel the same way: For example, when my son is playing with toys and I ask him to eat, he doesn’t hear me the first time, and he still can’t hear me the second time. He may look at you the third time, but he still looks like he can’t hear me. . I used to think that he was pretending not to hear, but later I realized that this is just what boys are like. So I feel much calmer…

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Be careful, what hurts your children more than divorce is it

We all know that divorce can cause serious harm and even shadows to children. However, there is one behavior more lethal than divorce – cold violence between husband and wife! Let’s look at these examples first. 1. I would rather my parents have a big quarrel than be so cold and frosty. A few days ago, my best friend suddenly asked me: Girl, is it convenient to move to your house for a few days? I smiled and said: Convenience is always open to you…

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\”My mother is a psycho!\”

Since last Saturday, Beijing has had five consecutive days of smog, traffic restrictions on odd and even numbers, and school holidays. A friend\’s 4-year-old son had to stay at home. When her husband was playing with the child on the bed, the child landed on the back of his head. Just like Mr. Zhe\’s fall from the bed last time, he was not in good spirits. He went to the hospital to see a doctor late at night and also had a CT scan. Although it was nothing serious, my friend had a psychological shadow: in the next few days, the child just crawled…

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Please \”let go\” of that crying child

A few days ago, I passed by the entrance of a kindergarten. I saw a little boy who probably didn\’t want to go to school. He pulled on his mother\’s clothes and cried, \”I\’m not going, Mom.\” \”Don\’t cry!\” The child pursed his lips and continued to cry. \”Don\’t cry. If you cry again, I\’ll beat you.\” \”Mom, mom…\” Many mothers have zero tolerance for their children\’s crying. As long as their children…

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Why should I raise a child who “doesn’t follow the rules”? Education, don’t forget that you are Chinese

Chinese people don\’t abide by the rules, that\’s because we are of a higher rank. In recent years, our parenting methods have become more and more in line with international standards. While we were shopping for maternal and infant products from the United States and Europe, we also picked up their parenting ideas. Under the influence of Western parenting concepts and methods such as \”Montessori Education Method\”, \”Sears Intimacy Parenting\”, \”American Academy of Pediatrics Parenting Encyclopedia\”…

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Are you still yelling at the naughty kid? Come and learn these magical \”spells\”!

One day not long ago, I was doing some chores in front of the computer. Suddenly I remembered that Xiao Nuo had been silent for a while, so I walked to the living room to see what she was doing. I saw her squatting on the ground, trying hard to scrub with her two little hands. There was a large puddle of white paste on the floor, and next to it was a bottle of baby lotion that she used to apply on her face every day. The cap of the bottle was already broken. Open&#8…

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