There was a news story on TV before: A mother worked hard to raise her son, and his son found a job soon after graduating from college. However, he often resigned after working for less than a month. He always complained that the workload was heavy. He had to get up early in the morning and work overtime at night. It was too hard, too tiring, and he couldn\’t bear it. For two years, my son has been at home with peace of mind, either playing games online or using his mother…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
Whether a child will be successful when he grows up can be known by looking at his childhood.
If you want to ask, which stage of life is the most happy and precious? I believe 90% of people will say, childhood. At that time, even though the mind was ignorant, the sensitive heart could still capture the beauty around him: mother\’s kiss, father\’s arms, sweet candies, boundless joy… Because he had been loved and well taken care of, the child planted hope in his heart. And the seeds of optimism, at the beginning of life…
What are the signs of low self-esteem in children?
A parent asked me, why does the child have low self-esteem at such a young age? In fact, inferiority complex is a manifestation of low self-esteem. He cannot see his own value and is worried that others will not respect him. Low self-esteem is mainly due to frustration or inappropriate family education, which leads to cognitive deviations in children\’s views of themselves. Children with low self-esteem will show signs of language…
Educating children and refusing to listen to reason?
In the process of educating their children, all parents may have tried to reason with their children. Even before the children can speak, some parents started to say to their children, \”What are you going to do in the future? What are the benefits of this?\” But after parents explain the truth to their children, do they really understand it? Did you really do that? Maybe many don\’t. Especially older children, you and…
What are the wrong parenting styles?
On January 1, 2022, the Family Education Promotion Law was officially implemented. This is a great thing and a milestone for improving the family education capabilities of our parents and promoting the healthy growth of children and adolescents. The law particularly emphasizes that family education must respect the laws of physical and mental development of minors. However, many parents are not aware of this, and therefore there are many inappropriate educations…
Is habit-forming education for preschool and primary school students really that important?
I have never liked alarmism because it is unnecessary. However, almost all parenting experts have always emphasized that children should develop good habits as early as possible! But I said good habits are not that important. See it clearly, don’t make excuses, I am saying that good habits are not that important, at least not as important as the experts emphasize, and I am not saying that they are useless at all. Habits are useful. Once you have the blessing of habits, people will…
God hints at home feng shui that the family will be wealthy and prosperous.
\”The Doctrine of the Mean\” says: \”Cultivate oneself with Tao, cultivate Tao with benevolence\”, \”Great virtues will have longevity.\” People, in this world of mortals, struggle and struggle throughout their lives, and their lifelong task is to constantly cultivate themselves; nothing is Ready-made, you will find that all the beautiful things you pursue must have unknown efforts and dedication behind them; similarly, the prosperity of a family is…
How to cultivate the ability of delayed gratification in infants and young children
From 1966 to 1970, Walter Mischel, a psychology professor at Stanford University, designed a famous experiment. The researchers found more than 600 children, aged between 4 and 5 years old, divided into groups of dozens of children. And put them in a small room with only a table and a stool. There are marshmallows on the table that they love to eat. Researchers told them:…
What are the symptoms of mumps
What is mumps? Mumps is a respiratory infectious disease that occurs mostly in children and adolescents, most commonly in winter and spring. It is caused by the mumps virus. It is an acute, systemic infection. It is mainly characterized by swelling and pain of the parotid glands. In sick children, the parotid glands on both sides will be swollen on one side, centered on the earlobe, and they will feel warm to the touch. Sometimes you feel pain. …
How to raise a sober, self-disciplined and motivated child
A few days ago, I saw an interesting piece of news. A boy from Hunan didn\’t study, didn\’t take a shower, and kept watching TV when he came home. He refused to listen to his parents\’ advice. Later, when he got tired of watching and wanted to go back to the house to sleep, his mother pulled him into the living room and \”rewarded\” him for watching TV all night long. His parents took turns supervising him to prevent the baby from falling asleep. During the whole process, the child went from excitement, to confusion, to having his body ripped out…