Some time ago, my best friend encountered a \”Waterloo\” on Jiwa Road. My best friend has always been very concerned about her son\’s studies, and his grades are also good. Unexpectedly, when I first entered junior high school, I had a problem with my enthusiasm for learning. \”The child who used to be quite obedient, why does he get so angry now when he mentions studying?\” I asked, \”How did you mention it?\” She said, \”How else can I mention it, just let him do his homework well…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
The psychological rules you need to understand when educating your children, collection
To educate their children, parents must not only devote all their love, but also have correct and scientific education methods. Many parents only rely on their own feelings to educate. Although they devote a lot of energy, in many cases the results are counterproductive. In fact, when children have problems, in most cases there are problems with their parents’ education. Instead of correcting their children\’s problems, parents should change themselves first. …
The girl went to the supermarket \”underdressed\” and attracted onlookers, but her mother ignored her
Doudehui saw a news: On a hot summer day, a mother took her daughter to buy things in the supermarket. The mother was well-dressed, but the daughter was half-dressed. We don’t know why this mother kept her daughter undressed. But exposing your daughter to public in this way is really not what a qualified parent should do. Many netizens have questioned this behavior: …
What should parents do if they blame their children wrongly?
Once when I was taking my child out, I met a mother who was scolding her child. People around her said, \”Stop disturbing the child. It\’s not his fault. You didn\’t see it just now, it was xxx…\” The mother refused to give up: \” Regardless of whether it\’s his fault or not, he can\’t escape today\’s beating!\” It\’s really difficult to get parents to apologize to their children. This is difficult. It\’s not that the pronunciation of the three words \”I\’m sorry\” is different…
How to communicate most effectively with children
A few months ago, I was tossing and turning almost every night. The image of my son blushing, staring at me, and roaring hysterically always reappears in my mind. I don’t know when it started, but the communication pattern between my son and I entered a vicious cycle of quarrels, rage, and nothing. No matter what I say, my son will always contradict me point-to-point…
How to effectively accompany your children
Parents can recall whether they had any communication with their children while accompanying them. Have you interacted with children? Have you carefully understood your child\’s mood? In fact, many parents think that they \”accompany\” their children. For example, after work every day, they seem to be with their children, but in fact, all they do is \”no communication\”…
What to do if your baby cries in kindergarten
I would like to ask everyone first: What kind of experience would it be like if a child enters kindergarten without crying or fussing, with stable emotions, strong concentration, and is loved by both teachers and children? Maybe many parents are envious of parents who can have such a \”magic baby\”. After all, they can have a lot less to worry about. My friend Xiaomi is such a \”lucky parent\”, but according to Xiaomi\’s words, when…
How to resolve conflicts between children and adults
\”Every child has the potential to become an outstanding person. It is the different daily education of parents that gives children a different life.\” Being a parent is not easy. Every word we say and everything we do affects our children\’s growth in a subtle way. Before the age of 12, the parents\’ education style determines the child\’s life background; after the age of 12, the parents…
What should I do if my child always cries when something happens?
Crying is a natural way for children to express their emotions, but crying excessively when they encounter difficulties or setbacks may have a negative impact on their physical and mental health and social abilities. Therefore, parents need to take effective measures to help their children reduce excessive crying behavior. Listen to and understand children\’s emotions When a child cries, parents should first stop what they are doing…
How can we help children regain their self-confidence when they are afraid of society?
Social phobia, also known as social anxiety disorder, is a common psychological disorder. With the increase in social activities, more and more children are also found to suffer from social phobia. Not only does this situation have a negative impact on the child\’s personal growth and development, but it can also lead to strained relationships with family, school, and friends. So, when we find that our children are socially…