How important is it for a child to be able to be particular and competent?

I once read an article about a socialite Zheng Nian: Being born well and marrying well can be regarded as the label of her life. Born into a noble family, he married a diplomat and was sent to Australia. He lived in Australia with his husband for 7 years and lived a comfortable life. I thought I would be rich or noble throughout my life, but unexpectedly, the second half of my life took a turn for the worse. husband…

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Children are almost always forced to lie by adults. If they are not handled well, the consequences will be endless.

In a WeChat group, I accidentally saw a mother asking, what problem do you least tolerate in your child? Almost all of the mothers in this group have children who are about to enter elementary school, or have already been in elementary school for two or three years. I thought there would be many mothers who would answer questions about poor grades and weird personalities. One mother replied, \”I can\’t tolerate my children lying and cheating. It hurts my heart so much…

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Letter from dad to daughter: Don’t do it for men

Dear Baby, Recently, your mother and I wanted to search for a question on Google. But before the question was finished, Google listed the most popular searches around the world. Number one on the list is \”How to keep him attracted to me.\” I was shocked. I have read many articles on this issue. Many of them teach girls how to stay sexy and when to give it to their boyfriends or husbands…

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Mothers often say these 5 words, and their children will become better and better every day! Simple and effective

We talk to our children a lot every day, good words, bad words, nonsense… When we speak, we are already educating our children. There are some things that no matter how much parents say, the children won\’t be able to listen, and instead become rebellious; while for some things, even if parents say just one sentence, the effect is much better than nagging 100 sentences. The following 5 sentences should be said by parents every day, no matter…

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As parents, don’t make too many dramas for yourself. Although your child is young, he is not stupid either.

Like many mothers, I also have a group of mothers with babies of the same age. There are more than ten mothers who have been communicating with each other since I was pregnant. Although I have never met in person, my relationship is very good, and I can be regarded as best friends that transcend physical distance. The only time there was some unpleasantness was because of an argument about whether the baby should be encouraged to crawl more or practice walking earlier. Mothers probably divide…

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Just look at Ping\’er and Jiaqing to see how much influence a mother\’s mirror has on her children.

Recently I am watching \”The First Half of My Life\”, in which there are two children of the same age: Ping\’er and Leng Jiaqing. Although the two children are the same age and come from divorced families, their personalities are very different. I like Ping\’er, he is innocent, kind and cute, and has the happiness that children of this age have. If you don\’t like living in a small house, you will cry and make noises. No matter you have to go to school tomorrow, or if you don\’t think about your mother\’s last…

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True enrichment is to give children a sense of security

The day before yesterday, after breakfast, I was reading in my room, and my son shouted to me: \”Mom, I\’m going to the library to return books and borrow them!\” After that, he went out in a hurry. After a while, I stood up and walked around to move my body. I accidentally caught a glimpse of a pile of books on the sofa, which was what my son was going to take back. The library has regulations that allow you to borrow ten books at a time, provided…

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Incest of molesting girls happens one after another. Is this society getting better or worse?

It\’s been a bit rough lately. Over the past few days, I saw several incidents of molesting girls. The one that attracted the most attention was at Nanjing South Railway Station, where a 20-year-old man held a teenage girl in his arms and caressed the girl\’s chest. In full view of everyone, so blatantly. The most irritating thing was that the two adults around him turned a blind eye. Later, it was learned that these two adults were young men…

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If you are reluctant to educate your children, society will educate them hard for you.

Recently, there have been a lot of \”various bear deeds\” about \”naughty children\”. Reminds me of Zhang Xinzhe\’s song, \”How can I bear to blame you for making a mistake? I went too far in giving you freedom\”… Two days ago, I saw a netizen breaking the news that an 11-year-old child was playing with his younger brother in a hotel in Beijing. Peeing on the lobby couch. The staff came out to coordinate, and the child\’s mother shouted loudly: \”My child is 11…

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Even if your child doesn’t want to eat, don’t force him or her with food.

A common scene at the dinner table is that the mother is holding a bowl and a spoon to coax the child to eat: \”Good boy, eat quickly!\” The child tightens his lips and turns his head away. The frustrated mother loses patience and holds the spoon against the child. mouth: \”Eat, how will you grow up if you don\’t eat?\” The child is still stubborn, and the two sides are in a stalemate. Finally, the mother becomes angry and says: \”You don\’t want to eat? Okay, then don\’t play with toys! …

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