A psychological counselor friend told such a case: A 5-year-old girl did not want to talk to her parents, but often talked to herself in front of a stuffed teddy bear. The parents thought their child was suffering from depression and were so anxious that they sought medical treatment everywhere. After multiple psychological treatments, the girl said something that made her parents burst into tears: \”Because the toy can\’t speak to scold me.\” It turned out that the girl\’s mother…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
Praising your child like this may be hurting him
My daughter Yanyan originally loved dancing. Every time she heard that she was going to dance, she was very excited. All her friends praised her: \”Yanyan, you are so talented and you dance so beautifully.\” However, one day she didn\’t want to dance anymore and they forced her to go. She didn\’t want to stand in the classroom with her head down. move. The family feels that the child may lack self-confidence, so in order to make her more confident…
Child, if you can, please let me be your confidant
Yesterday evening, at the gate of Mizhi No. 3 Middle School in Shaanxi Province, a group of students were attacked with a knife on their way home from school. 19 students (14 women and 5 men) were injured and 9 of them died (7 women and 2 men). The murderer was caught on the spot. He said: When he was a student at Mizhi No. 3 Middle School, he was bullied on campus, so he hated the students. Today he killed someone with a knife in order to vent his hatred and take revenge on society. Even if there are thousands…
Why can\’t we cry \”poor\” to our children? This is the most rational answer I\’ve ever seen…
Mom, is our family very poor? Before going to bed, my son blinked and asked me. I was confused and didn’t know why my 5-year-old son asked this. Grandma said you only have 20 cents. Mom, don’t be sad. I will spend all the money in the piggy belly for you tomorrow. It\’s really killing me, and I have to live to the point where I have to rely on the money in my son\’s piggy bank for relief. Looking at my son with a look of hatred, \”Mom…
Parents who have trouble coaxing them to sleep, do you really know what sleep means to your children?
Little D used to be a bad sleeper. He would sleep with me all night long, as if he had grown up on me. Looking back on those days now, I still have lingering fears. At that time, I learned a lot about sleep and mastered many techniques to induce sleep. Little D\’s sleep has gradually improved since she was 1 year old. She can fall asleep on her own by gently patting her. After 1 and a half years old, she will go to sleep on her own as soon as she completes the sleep routine. I\’ll go back now…
These 7 early childhood education methods may destroy your daughter
Anea Bogue, a famous American educator and self-esteem expert, is also the mother of two girls. Her eldest daughter is in adolescence, and her younger daughter is just 7 years old. Before becoming an educator, she was a middle school teacher with 10 years of education experience. In order for her two daughters to grow up healthily, Anea took the self-study exam and became…
Comparison psychology compromises the happiness that originally belongs to children
Picture: Stars on Earth My cousin’s daughter Miaomiao is in fifth grade and has very good grades. She is ranked first in the class almost every time. He is also very competitive, just like his cousin when he was a child. On November 1, my cousin brought her daughter to my house to play. After half a year, Miaomiao has grown into a tall and graceful girl. Between the eyebrows and eyes, there is an air of youth that cannot be concealed, and I can\’t help but sigh: young…
Son, can I go to the bathroom with dignity?
On Sunday morning, his father finally woke up after his son, who was less than two years old, was hit continuously with a series of invincible palms. \”Dad, sing \”Windmill\”\” The son, who was still lying in bed, sent an invitation to sing to his sleepy father. \”The big windmill is squeaking and spinning, spinning and spinning, oh, it\’s broken, and it won\’t spin anymore.\” The boy\’s father sang with his eyes closed. He didn\’t know which muscle was wrong, maybe…
Poor boys are the most hurtful!
Last weekend, I took my son to the mall to buy him some summer clothes. Various children\’s clothing stores are filled with beautiful clothes. But almost two-thirds of the place was hung with girls\’ clothes. When it comes to finding clothes for boys, there really aren’t many opportunities to choose. \”Why do boys always have so few clothes?\” \”Girls love to be beautiful! If you want to dress beautifully, everyone is willing to give girls…
What is maternal love? Those Chinese children ruined by \”maternal love\”
Recently, a TV series called \”Your Children Are Not Your Children\” caught the attention of Beaver Mom. This film and television drama from Taiwan has attracted a lot of attention and heated discussions since its launch, and its ratings on Douban have also skyrocketed. Out of 10 points, it achieved an impressive score of 8 points, which is relatively rare in domestic dramas. Among them, the one that most arouses concern among Beaver Mom…