A few days ago, I happened to see a story told by Li Songwei, a Ph.D. in psychology from Peking University. He has a 9-year-old daughter. When he sent his daughter to learn how to swim, he found that her daughter was very afraid of water and could not learn how to swim. The more the coach told her not to be afraid, the more it backfired. The most powerful treasure trove of parenting and early education resources in history! He missed it and regretted it for three lifetimes. He was very troubled: How can he make his daughter become…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
What to do if your child lacks internal drive
I have a niece who has been sensible and obedient since she was a child, and has a good relationship with her parents. However, there is a problem, that is, she has never been interested in studying and becomes irritable when it comes to studying. For this reason, the family used all kinds of tricks. For example, if she did well in the exam, she would be rewarded with a certain amount of money. If she still did the same, she would be sent back to her hometown. However, she remained motionless. How to make children…
How to solve children\’s lack of security
Bunuu’s aunt bought her a blue coat, which was quite fashionable, but Bunuu didn’t like wearing it. Every time I took it out and tried to put it on her, she would throw it away: \”Don\’t wear this.\” Why? Mom thinks it looks good. \”Too ugly.\” Bu Niu answered me with these three words every time, neatly and neatly. So which one to wear? Bunniu pointed to the pink in the cabinet without hesitation…
What is the true meaning of education? Never indulge uneducated children
Some time ago, I had dinner with a friend in a restaurant. There were several adults at the next table having a dinner with their children. One of them, a mother, excitedly talked about her travels to a certain place while stuffing her rice. Next to her, a little boy of about seven or eight years old was climbing up and down on the seat. He was complaining to the people dining next door, \”This food is not delicious…
How to deal with a burnt child
Yesterday, I saw a video like this: Somewhere in Henan, a grandmother told reporters with tears in her eyes, \”My son, daughter-in-law, and wife work outside, and I usually take care of my grandson and granddaughter at home. However, I didn\’t take good care of the children. I I was so busy with my crying granddaughter that I didn\’t pay attention to my one-year-old grandson. As a result, something happened. My little grandson knocked over the kettle. The hot water inside…
How to prevent mental health problems in teenagers
Adolescence is an important period for self-exploration and self-development, and it is also a high-risk period for mental illness. In recent years, the tragedies caused by psychological problems among teenagers have been heartbreaking. The Hu Xinyu incident that occurred some time ago has also aroused great concern in society. The causes of these problems are complex, including social environmental factors and family root factors. How to maximize…
Reasons and solutions for timid children
My child is timid, so I have an effective method. I have used this method on my son and the children of several friends around me, and the effect is surprisingly good. I still remember that on the third day after I gave birth to Yuxuan, I took him home from the hospital. On the day I returned home, an unsuspecting neighbor wanted to hang a painting on the wall. There was only a wall between our two families, and the harsh sound of the electric drill disturbed the sleeping person. The children were so frightened that their limbs were shaking…
What does Walden Pond tell us?
In 1833, Thoreau was admitted to Harvard University and became a student in the School of Liberal Arts. He published a few essays when he had nothing to do, but he just did it for fun and didn\’t take it seriously. There is an electronic version for download at the end of the article! He has read a lot of books, but he does not want to follow the old path that has been taken by his predecessors. Rather than arranging a path for life like most people, he prefers to live casually. Thoreau…
The difference between children attending public kindergarten and private kindergarten
When a baby is approaching 3 years old, parents should start worrying about their children going to kindergarten. Many parents even start to learn about surrounding kindergartens when their children are over 2 years old. As parents, we all hope that our children can go to a kindergarten that is good in all aspects. We hope that our children will not be wronged in the kindergarten, the teachers are caring, and the kindergarten facilities are good, so that parents can…
How to tell if a child is good at reading
Almost every parent hopes that their child will be an excellent learner. First of all, excellent grades can bring a clear future and broad career choices to their children, and can also make it easier for them to enter related career fields. Secondly, test scores are an important indicator to evaluate students\’ academic level and knowledge mastery. For parents, their children\’s scores not only represent their own…