A mother who loses her temper is a good mother

\”My daughter is in middle school. She has been fussy since she got up this morning. It took her more than ten minutes just to put on some clothes. This one is not good and that one is not good. She also refused to brush her teeth for a long time, and she thought the breakfast was not good. No matter how hard I push, I can\’t push her quickly. I\’m in a hurry to go to work, and I yell at her when I\’m in a hurry, making her cry. I usually read parenting books and know that I need to be friends with my children, but I\’ve never sent this to my children before…

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Regarding Sade and Lotte, these things must be explained clearly to children

The incident between Lotte and THAAD has been on the Internet for a long time. Various messages about boycotting Korean products and not traveling to South Korea have been posted over and over in WeChat Moments. I receive advice on \”Don\’t rush to buy when Rakuten has discounts\” almost every day. Although I had talked with Xiaoxi about related incidents as early as early March, I know that many parents still did not pay attention to it, thinking that it was a matter between the country and…

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If you don’t listen even if you tell me a hundred times, then don’t say it anymore.

I was getting ready to go to bed last night when I received a call from my friend L. On the other end of the phone, L excitedly accused her baby Pengpeng of various \”crimes\”: she told him that eating more vegetables would be good for health, but she refused to listen; she told him that watching TV all the time was bad for the eyes, and she refused to listen. Don\’t listen; I tell him that the toys are messy and I want him to clean them up, but he doesn\’t listen no matter what I say… All kinds of things, all in one fell swoop…

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The lower the level of parents, the easier it is to ignore this matter

Is this a small thing? Yesterday I went to the supermarket. There were many children around the supermarket where I bought books. Some were reading with their children, and some were reading independently. Because it was a professional relationship, I couldn\’t help but pay more attention to it. One of them, a mother and daughter, caught my attention. The girl is about six years old, and the mother is also very young. I saw the child holding many, many books in his hands and looking around…

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What mother has never yelled at her child?

One night I was taking a shower. Rooney walked to the door and kept knocking: \”Mom, Mom, come out and play with me.\” \”Wait a minute, Mom will go out to play with you after washing.\” But he still kept knocking on the door. I started to get angry and called him by his name: \”XX, stop knocking!\” However, he didn\’t listen and continued to knock and kept shouting. That day my…

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Important Reminder: As a parent, you are about to expire

On Friday night, I asked my son to accompany me for a walk in the park. He was not very happy. He wanted to paint and do crafts at home. After some hard work on my part and the truth that \”the body is the capital of revolution\” and so on, he reluctantly agreed. I couldn\’t help but feel a little disappointed, thinking of my son when he was a child. At that time, no matter where I went, he would follow me every step of the way, and he would look for me everywhere when I couldn\’t see him for a while…

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Even if the baby belongs to your family, you can’t take care of her like this.

Giving birth to a baby is not easy, and raising a baby is also difficult. Harmonious families are always similar, and families with conflicting parenting have their own conflicts… Scenario 1. – \”The book says that when the baby\’s first tooth emerges, you should brush your baby\’s teeth.\” – \”Look The baby\’s teeth haven\’t all grown yet, so why brush them?\” – \”But the book says so, and don\’t feed the baby after brushing!\”…

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Specially designed to treat the syndrome of \”crying, yelling, acting bad to achieve goals\”

Yesterday, my upstairs neighbor talked to me about her son\’s obsession with video games, and she felt helpless. Of course she knows that she should limit the time and frequency of her children\’s play, but every time she gives up her principles because of her son\’s crying and fussing. \”Every time, when I said that he was not allowed to play games, he immediately started crying and fussing, and even rolled on the floor. I couldn\’t help him, so I had to let him play.\” The neighbor was very bitter…

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Being a stay-at-home mom can also be the most exciting career

Through the omnipotent Internet, I got in touch with a friend I had lost contact with for ten years. Talking about their respective lives after the breakup, my friend said with embarrassment: \”Sister, don\’t look down on me after I told you. I have only been working for a few years and have been taking care of my children at home. I can\’t compare with you office workers, so I I\’m too embarrassed to contact you old friends…\” I can understand my friends\’ feelings…

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Cui Yutao’s baby toilet training, you must know these things

Taking advantage of the May Day holiday, I sorted out the seasonal clothes for OK and sorted out a large pile of seven or eight pairs of brand-new pants that were exactly the same. This pile of new pants was prepared by my mother more than a year ago when she was practicing independent defecation for OK. The old man had already given me various hints that I should practice OK to urinate and defecate on my own, and use less diapers, so I almost didn’t have to pee with OK, so when I told him that I should start to train OK to urinate and defecate on my own…

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