A child psychology research institution once conducted a psychological survey on more than 3,000 school-age children. One of the questions was: \”What are you most afraid of about your parents?\” The most popular answer was: \”I am most afraid of my parents being angry. I\’m afraid they will quarrel.\” One answer sheet wrote very vividly: \”I am most afraid of my father being angry. He looks so fierce when he is angry! It makes my mother cry…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
Does it have any impact on children if parents always cry about poverty?
I saw a sad video not long ago: a father and daughter came to eat at KFC. The father said to his 6-year-old daughter: The meal you eat is the salary I earned after a hard day\’s work. The little girl lowered her head silently and became more and more sensible from then on. When she was 8 years old, she saw a Barbie doll in front of the window and thought to herself: I want it very much, but my parents are working too hard to make money, so I need to be more sensible. 1…
How to raise inner-rich children
Two days ago, I overheard my son talking on the phone with his classmates. In less than a minute, he sighed four times and complained frequently: \”Life is so hard! When will this day end?\” I couldn\’t help but shudder. I remembered that my head teacher had reminded me that my son’s diary was very negative and pessimistic. He didn’t play with his classmates after class. He sighed all day long and felt even more blocked. …
Why is the baby always kicking under the quilt at night even though he is not hot?
\”As soon as the baby falls asleep, he starts to roll all over the bed. When he first goes to sleep, he can still lie down on the pillow. If you wait an hour, he will definitely roll over to the end of the bed. If there is no guardrail, he will fall to the ground. .\” My best friend Xiaoqi complained to us a few days ago that she hasn\’t had a full night\’s sleep since giving birth to her baby. Every night, the baby has to roll all over the bed. In addition to covering the baby for more than ten years…
After reading Zhuangzi 3 times, I finally know how to solve mental internal friction.
\”Zhuangzi\” records such a story. A man was walking on the road and accidentally saw his own shadow and footprints, thinking he had encountered a ghost. He ran quickly. Unexpectedly, the faster he ran, the more footprints he left, and the closer his shadow chased him. So he ran even harder until he died of exhaustion. Many times, the reason why people feel pain is not because of the things themselves…
3 signs of a child’s normal height growth period. Parents, don’t miss this opportunity.
When the topic of children\’s height is mentioned, many parents will pay special attention. Especially parents who are not tall themselves are even more worried that their children will not grow taller. Since genetic factors account for about 70% of a child\’s height, many parents will be particularly disappointed when they see that their child\’s height is not ideal. However, the 30% proportion of the day after tomorrow has a huge impact on the child\’s height…
How children become clever
We often praise children for their \”dexterity\”, but in fact, it is the dexterity that makes them smart. Soviet educational psychologist Kortsova trained the infant\’s hands while measuring and recording the intensity of the brain\’s bioelectric currents and found that the maturity of the cerebral cortex accelerated with the stimulation intensity and time of finger movement. She concluded: Promoting flexible movement of fingers is to improve the cortex of both hemispheres of the brain…
Parents must understand the best time for boys to awaken
The boy\’s enlightenment period refers to the period of time between birth and adolescence, which mainly includes the development and growth of the brain, body and psychology. At this stage, the boy\’s body and mind are in a state of rapid development, so parents need to pay attention to the boy\’s growth and development and provide him with a good environment and support. So when is the best time for a boy to get started? out…
How to help children deal with criticism correctly
Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said: When educating children, criticism is more profound than praise, because criticism must pay attention to methods. This is an art. If you use it well, it will be more effective than praise. For parents, criticizing their children is a downright technical job. If the criticism is not adequate, it will be difficult for children to make corrections if they do not recognize their own problems; but if the criticism is excessive, it will be easy to hit…
4 things to say that will ruin your child. Don’t say them if you can.
Li Si (pseudonym) is in the third grade of elementary school. He is usually unknown in school and has few good friends. When others talk to him, he always lowers his head in embarrassment. In class, the teacher always hesitates when asking questions, and his voice is as low as an ant. For this reason, the teacher found Li Si’s parents through several home visits and said that the child was too unconfident and introverted, which was not conducive to growth. where…