I have to believe that children also have sub-health

Most of the winter vacation has passed, and school is about to start next week, but some children have been listless and lazy all day. Parents, don’t believe it: children can also be sub-healthy! The word \”sub-health\” is not unfamiliar to us. It usually appears in adults: Sub-health refers to a state that is neither disease nor healthy. This is a sub-standard health state (sub-meaning sub-standard). Boundary…

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What should I do if my 5-year-old child wets the bed?

Strictly speaking, bedwetting is not a disease. Generally speaking, as age increases, normal children\’s nighttime urine output will gradually decrease, and the nervous system\’s control of the bladder will gradually mature. By the age of 5, 15% to 20% of children will wet the bed; by the age of 7, only 10% will wet the bed; by the age of 10, only 5% will wet the bed, with more boys than girls. However…

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A set of pictures tells you that such communication will make your children better day by day.

The power for children to grow often comes from what their parents say. Recently, these 9 pictures have gone viral on the Internet. They are as simple as only 9 sentences, but they tell us how and what to communicate with our children. It\’s very valuable, let\’s take a look~ I believe in you. Mr. Tao Xingzhi said: \”The whole secret of educating children is to believe in them and liberate them.\” And the words of parents \”…

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You don’t have any requirements for yourself, so why should you ask for your children?

Recently, more than one friend left a message in the background, asking me how I have been diligent recently. They were referring to the fact that my official account has been updated frequently recently. Yesterday, I sorted out the articles in the past two months. There are more than twenty articles, about 50,000 words. This is not a large amount, but compared to the two to three articles I used to update every week or not update for a week in a row, it is indeed A lot more diligent. My answer is: \”Ma…

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Ten characteristics of \”harmful\” children! You must have a few, right?

Loving children is a common trait among parents all over the world, but love alone is not enough. Ten characteristics of \”harmful\” children! Today\’s children receive too much care. Parents and grandparents hold them in the palms of their hands for fear of falling, and hold them in their mouths for fear of melting. The following 10 forms of spoiled parenting are particularly harmful to children. How many of them do you have in your family? 1. Self-centeredness. Children have a superior status in the family and receive special care…

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The child has nightmares every day, but he dares not tell his mother. The reason is…

According to experts, children should sleep in separate beds around the age of 3 and in separate rooms around the age of 5. Otherwise, it will affect the child\’s independence and his mental health when he grows up. I feel that sleeping separately from children in a timely manner can not only cultivate children\’s independence, but also allow parents to get better rest. So I have always been in favor of sleeping in separate rooms with my children. After my son becomes a little wiser, I will slowly make plans…

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Children are heroin, they are long football games, they are expensive commodities that cannot be returned

The vast majority of parents believe that raising children is one of the happiest things in life, but a Harvard University survey made a surprising discovery: people\’s subjective happiness actually drops rapidly after giving birth to children. Raising children may not actually bring you happiness, but may just make you \”feel\” that you are happier. When we think of children, we think of the world…

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Parental anxiety is a curse for children

Photo/Viktoria Sorochinski Chinese parents are more or less anxious, and my sister-in-law is one of the more serious ones. She gave birth to my cousin Ning Ning in 2004. She joined the army of anxious parents and has never looked back. I remember that when my cousin could not walk, if he sneezed a few times or had a runny nose, my sister-in-law would be worried and send her to the hospital immediately…

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Raising a poor child does not mean making the child feel that he or she is too cheap

In Chinese family education, there is a simple and crude logic that boys should be raised poor and girls should be raised rich. The so-called \”poor raising\” is understood by many people to mean spending less money and enduring more hardships. Only by being more demanding materially for children can they have the quality to endure hardships and go further in the future. It’s just that many people don’t know that during the so-called poor upbringing process, because of their wrong educational concepts,…

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In addition to yelling and punishment, you must have a third solution

I like to read \”Awen\’s Little Blanket\” to Xinxin. Not only does she enjoy listening to it, but I can always get encouragement and inspiration from it. The book tells that Awen has a small blanket and he likes it very much. No matter where he goes or what he does, Awen will take it with him. The aunt next door felt that it was not good for Awen to hold a small blanket all the time because he was so old, so she couldn\’t help but give suggestions to Awen\’s parents, so that they and Awen…

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