What does a child’s self-care ability include?

Recently, a friend shared a surprising thing with me. She said: \”One of my cousins ​​almost starved to death.\” It seemed like a joke, but behind it was bitterness. It turns out that the city where my friend’s cousin lives was under control due to the epidemic last year, so she had to remain silent. The sudden home quarantine and control confused this little girl who had just graduated. She usually eats everything…

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How to cultivate children’s internal drive

In life, some children must have external supervision to complete whether they are studying or doing other things. Some children do not know how to arrange their study and life independently after being admitted to college, and become lazy or even \”lay flat\”. ”, these are all manifestations of a lack of inner self-driving force. The concept of \”self-drive\” was proposed by the famous psychologist Jung, which refers to the individual\’s ability to interact with the environment…

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My child always says it’s okay, what should I do?

A few days ago, my best friend complained to me: I don’t know what’s going on in today’s children’s heads. When I was a child, I was always surrounded by people chattering and making demands. The older I get, the harder it is to communicate. I actively seek her opinions and always look indifferent. If I ask an urgent question, I will just say to you: \”Forget it, don\’t tell me, you won\’t agree anyway.\” Do you really want to piss people off? I guess many parents have…

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How to cultivate children\’s empathy ability?

Empathy refers to the ability to understand, empathize, care and pay attention to the emotional state of others. It is a very important ability in interpersonal communication and one of the basic elements of social adaptation and personality development. Cultivating children\’s empathy not only helps to form a healthy personality and positive social relationships, but is also one of the key factors for becoming a successful person in the future. This article will start from the following…

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How to cultivate children’s spatial thinking ability, a must-have for young children’s enlightenment mathematics

I know a mother from Tsinghua University. Her eldest son is 6 years old and his math ability has reached the fourth grade level of primary school. The child did not attend a training class, but was taught by the mother herself at home. She does not simply let her children recognize numbers and do addition and subtraction like others, but pays special attention to spatial thinking skills. Some friends may think that people are born with good genes and have good education…

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The value and significance of children’s reading

Reading is an important ability that can help us expand knowledge, enhance language skills, expand imagination, promote thinking development, etc. For children, reading can promote their all-round development. Therefore, today\’s parents attach great importance to cultivating their children\’s reading habits. However, during the reading process, parents also discovered many problems. For example, it is difficult to let their children…

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How to change a child who is too honest

When we teach our children to be honest, we mean that their character must be upright, honest, and trustworthy. In the long run, this is the foundation of how to behave in the world, and they can have deep friendships and be entrusted with important responsibilities. Honesty does not mean being pedantic and allowing others to bully you. Honesty is not synonymous with weakness either and should not be confused. I don\’t know when, when people mention the word \”honest\”, they give people the impression that they are a bit rigid, not very clever, and don\’t know how to adapt…

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How to raise mentally strong children

How to be a good parent? How to raise children better? Today I would like to share 8 educational rules with all parents. Parents who understand some psychology will not suffer any disadvantages when educating their children. 1. Fish Tank Law: Spiritual growth requires freedom: A few small fish have been raised in a fish tank for several years, but they are still very small. People thought that this fish was just small. Until an accident broke the fish tank…

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How to make children conscious and self-disciplined

Some parents complained to me: Their children have no sense of self-consciousness at home after school during the summer vacation. Just waiting for school to start, someone will take over the devil at home. Many parents are confused about how to help their children establish a good routine and develop good living and study habits during the summer vacation. These seven rules for raising children cover many aspects such as children\’s sense of security, learning management, and emotional health…

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How children can achieve a high degree of self-discipline

Some children are very self-disciplined, while other children are very bad and have no self-discipline at all. Many parents will blame their children for not being self-disciplined. They usually look for the reason from their children, but never look for the reason from themselves. Let me reveal the truth to you. Those parents of highly self-disciplined children basically do these five things right. First, the language they use to communicate with their children…

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