Mom and Dad, it’s okay! I have become accustomed to you not being around. The truth is heartbreaking…

A few days ago, in a variety show, Huang Shengyi and his son Andy participated in a question session. He was asked, \”Does Andy feel lonely when his parents are busy at work?\” Huang Shengyi said guiltily that his son \”should be lonely.\” But the son\’s answer was: \”I\’m not alone, I\’m used to it.\” When he said this, he still had a cute smile on his face…

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My child was bullied by his classmates, how did I teach him to \”fight back\”?

A few days ago, when chatting with a friend, she mentioned that her son, who is in the first grade, is always missing a ruler today and a pencil tomorrow. I asked him and he said he lost it. Although my friend wondered why the child kept losing things, he didn\’t say anything. Until one time, she found that the cover of her child\’s exercise book had been torn off. After her repeated questioning, the child said that it was his deskmate who tore it up. This is somewhat…

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The doctor’s words frightened the parents! How does a child develop precocious puberty?

Which of today’s children, no matter boys or girls, doesn’t have several specialties and hobbies? And dance types such as ethnic, ballet, Latin, jazz, and hip-hop are very popular among parents and children. But recently, Latin dance has collided with precocious puberty. It turns out that an article titled \”Regret!\” A 7-year-old girl from Hangzhou has breast growth that can’t be suppressed even with medicine! The doctor asked: Should I dance Latin dance? \”of…

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Children without \”attack power\” also have no vitality

Two days ago, I went to the hospital for acupuncture, and after that I randomly found a restaurant for lunch. Not far from the seats, a group of mothers were having a dinner with their children, laughing and laughing. The two or three-year-old children had already finished eating and were gathering around, chirping and playing. Suddenly, the two little boys turned red and started to grab a car like they were in a tug-of-war. …

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Raising children, in the final analysis, means fighting for the mother

When I hold parent-teacher conferences for my children, I find an interesting phenomenon. Most of the people who come to the parent-teacher conferences are mothers, and few fathers. Another time while watching \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”, my daughter asked: Why is this show called \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”? It\’s obviously \”Where\’s Mom?\” Later I realized that in most families, the mother takes care of the children, which is nothing unusual. Only by letting the father take care of the children…

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Do you think your child is listening to you? wrong! He\’s listening to your subtext.

When we went out to eat a few days ago, a mother and her son were sitting next to us. The child, who looked about three or four years old, was pouring water from the kettle into a cup to drink. In less than two minutes, my mother\’s mouth almost never stopped: Pour slowly, don\’t burn your hands. Okay, okay, don\’t fall again. Hold on tight and don\’t spill it. Drink in small sips, be careful of scalding… Every movement of the child…

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Mom, this is the longest 8 minutes of my life…

I packed up and went out in the morning. As I was walking on the road, my cell phone rang. It was my son’s father. \”I knew he would urge me…\” I couldn\’t help feeling upset and pressed the phone. Soon, the phone rang again, and I answered it angrily: \”Why are you urging me? I\’ll be there soon!\” Before I finished speaking, I heard Zai\’s father\’s anxious voice on the phone: \”You took Zai\’s book when you went out. …

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Can children be cured of their carelessness? able!

I sat in on a history class on the subway the other day. In order to explain to her children the dangers of carelessness, a mother actually talked about the Central Plains War between Feng Yuxiang, Yan Xishan and Chiang Kai-shek in the 1930s. . In that war, due to the sloppiness of the staff, the word \”Qin\” was added in the transfer order and \”Qinyang\” was written as \”Biyang\”, which caused Feng Yuxiang to mobilize the army to the wrong place…

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Son, I allow you to be \”shameless\”

Xiaobo\’s mother has been a little worried recently. She found that since her five-year-old niece CC came to the house, four-year-old Xiaobo has become too humble. The day she first arrived home, CC took out Xiaobo\’s toys one by one and played with them all over. After playing for a while, CC suddenly took a fancy to the Lego car beside Xiaobo\’s bed and couldn\’t help but take it out to play with. That was Xiaobo\’s favorite car. Xiaobo grabbed the car and said…

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Using the right methods of criticism and self-criticism, children become more and more confident

At the beginning of this month, at the invitation of the teacher, I went to Xiaopai School to chat about her recent study situation. Unexpectedly, she encountered a small accident. During recess, one of Xiaopai\’s classmates suddenly sat on the floor and burst into tears. No matter how much the teacher and classmates comforted him, he couldn\’t stop crying. He cried for more than half an hour. At first they thought something big had happened, but after the teacher inquired carefully, he roughly understood…

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