School is about to start~ Many children leave their parents and home for the first time to go to a strange kindergarten. Feeling uneasy, anxious, and even crying are normal reactions. For such a young child, it is really not easy and difficult to adapt to this process. How can we help him overcome separation anxiety and make him less hurt and more confident and strong? Maybe we can ask the mother raccoon for a…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
Why does Chinese-style parental devotion often end in tragedy?
When you ask a mother if she wants to have a second child. Many mothers will answer \”I don\’t dare to give birth.\” It’s not that I don’t want to, especially mothers who like their children are willing to give their children a sibling. But if you look at these data, you\’ll probably understand. Some time ago, HSBC released a global education expenditure survey report. In terms of education expenses from primary school to university, China…
Why do we work so hard to raise our children, but their children don’t appreciate, appreciate, or understand us?
A rebellious little boy ran away from home after a quarrel with his mother. After walking for a long time, it was getting late and he was tired and hungry. I saw a noodle shop on the roadside and was about to go in to eat some noodles, but I realized I didn’t have any money with me. The noodle shop is run by a kind old woman. Seeing the helpless look on the little boy\’s face, she asked: \”Child, do you want to eat noodles?\” The little boy said: \”Yes, but I don\’t…
When our generation gets older, will we still be willing to help our children take care of them?
I took my baby for a walk in the community and chatted with a mother who was also raising her second baby. Talking about the problem of many people being forced to have a second child, she had a different experience. She and her husband are both only children, and their daughter is eight years old. They could have had a second child a few years earlier, but because both parents were not enthusiastic about the matter, they have been shelved. Her biological mother said: \”Why have a second child?…
How bad can a child be?
Zhihu once had a very popular question and answer called: How bad can people be? The answers are diverse and can be called a collection of evil people in history. Some of the perpetrators are only a few years old or even teenagers. Although they hate naughty children deeply, in most people\’s perception, naughty children only stay in the category of \”naughty\” and cannot be too big of a monster. Because we always put our children…
What happened to the children who were called wimps by their parents?
What does it feel like to be scolded by your parents? I can neither tell my lover nor confide in my friends because others cannot understand my depression. But when I was growing up, the label given by my parents was deeply engraved in my heart, and it didn\’t pop up. Xiaoran is such a girl. After graduating from college, she worked for a foreign company in Shanghai for three years and then chose to be independent…
\”Mom, why is our house not as good as other people\’s houses?\” Your answer is very important.
A few days ago, a mother left a message asking me: \”Fish dad, my child asked why the house we live in is not as good as other children\’s homes. How should I answer?\” My answer at the time was \”Tell your child about the good things about your home.\” , shift this focus.\” Then I thought about it, and I was not satisfied with this answer, because the child asked this question, which shows that he has begun to observe life and…
Child abuse incident in parent-child kindergarten: These things are more important to children than anger
In the past two days, a piece of news about \”child abuse in Ctrip Parent-child Park\” caused an uproar on the Internet. From the video, you can see that the little girl\’s schoolbag was thrown to the ground by a woman in yellow who was suspected to be a teacher. Then the child was pushed hard by the woman in yellow, causing her head to hit the corner of the table. In another video, the child kept shaking his head and shrinking, while the woman in yellow still forced her hand…
\”Everything is for your own good\” is really for the sake of the children?
When I was a child, the thing I was most afraid of was my mother telling me, \”I\’m doing this for your own good.\” When I was in elementary school, if I didn\’t do well in an exam, my mother would pick up the book and hit my palm, \”Who told you to be disobedient, and it wasn\’t for your own good!?\” After my mother and father quarreled, she would always say to me, \”If it wasn\’t for your own good, , we divorced a long time ago.\” When I grow up, no matter…
When I get old, I won’t help my children take care of them either…
There is such a true story around Taotao G: a girlfriend who had not yet been \”weaned\” before becoming a mother (she was not yet able to take care of herself, lived in her parents\’ house, and worked as a pension), after three years of full-time child care, now she is , Career and child care, life has become like \”other people\’s mother\”. She said: Thanks to my mother for not helping me take care of the children, I hit rock bottom…