Which one should I choose, whether my child no longer wants to live or my child has poor grades?

A little girl was sent to the emergency room who had drunk pesticide. It turned out that the little girl\’s mid-term exam results were not satisfactory, and her mother criticized her a few times. As a result, the child drank pesticide in a fit of anger. Despite the doctors\’ best efforts and two hemoperfusions, the blood drug concentration has not been able to drop, and multiple organs have begun to fail. He still has a month to live at most. Doctors advise parents to take care of their children…

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After you have saved enough money for your child, do you still need to force him to study hard?

Some netizens left a message behind the article: What is the purpose of studying well? Is it to find a good job? But my current savings are more than most people can earn in a lifetime of hard work, so why should I force my child? I hope he can learn the principles of life. At first glance, this seems to make sense. But if you think about it carefully, it is far from the case. I really want to…

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These so-called \”polites\” are slowly killing your children

Mian\’s mother has been asked to be a good, sensible and polite child since she was a child, so from a very young age, she listened to her parents talking about how to be polite. Although she didn\’t understand why some \”polites\” must be done, But we also follow this principle conscientiously. But as I get older, I carefully recall some of the details about politeness in my childhood…

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Teaching children to \”speak well\” is a college question

Xiao Li is a business expert in the unit. Not only is his department\’s work \”clear\”, he is often seconded to help with major tasks in the agency. As a result, he was promoted to the head of a certain business department. Unexpectedly, within a few days of taking office, his department was in chaos, causing the leader to frown. It turns out that although Xiao Li has strong business ability, he is not good at dealing with people…

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I will work hard from now on to find a wife for my son

Over the years, I have been hearing people say that the population ratio is unbalanced, with more men and fewer women. I don’t know if there will be any improvement in the next few years. I gave birth to a son, so I was more worried about whether he would be able to marry a wife in the future. I was very anxious when I gave birth to him in the hospital. I don’t know if it was a coincidence. In the same ward, there were people walking on the front foot and people coming on the back foot. There must be six or seven families in total, and these six or seven families all gave birth to…

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No matter how much you love your child, you must let him endure these five kinds of suffering!

Studying is hard: \”Mom, I\’m so tired, can you stop studying?\” Today\’s children\’s living environment and learning conditions are indeed much better than their parents\’ own era, but we have to admit that the pressure that comes with it is also is gradually increasing. Today\’s children are generally much smarter than children of the same age in the previous generation. This is the advantage that the superior living environment brings to children…

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How to help children have appropriate self-esteem?

In a short video, a little boy hit his classmate because he called him a bald boy in a joke. The principal criticized him, and the little man cried and shouted in a tone that changed due to excitement: \”I want dignity. Even if I am beaten to the ground by them and my face is bruised and bruised, I still want dignity…\” The following is The comments overwhelmingly praised the boy for his strong self-esteem and backbone. actually…

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Good parents must be \”obedient\”

I usually communicate with my friends to educate others, but when it comes to my own \”naughty children\”, there is always a standard that everyone likes to use: whether the child is obedient or not. When it comes to saying that one\’s own children are \”obedient\”, they are complacent; if they are \”disobedient\”, they shake their heads repeatedly. In fact, the key to whether a child is obedient or not depends on whether the parents are \”obedient\”. Every weekend, my friend Lao Lin sends his son to interest classes…

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\”Throw it away after you give birth to a daughter!\”

A few years ago, my friend and I went to a poor rural area in the west for inspection. But the first impression that left on me after arriving there was not the poverty, but the severely imbalanced male-female ratio. I could hardly see women walking on the street, and there was not even a girl in the only school. Because the locals have extremely deep-rooted patriarchal beliefs, girls can only stay at home and do housework…

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What does it mean when a teacher says, \”The child is quite smart, but he just doesn\’t study hard\”

Parents’ meeting in the new semester. My friend who used to work with me in publishing was named again, and he posted the teacher\’s words in the group for us to read. Finally, he said that in order to comfort him and lighten the atmosphere, the teacher said to him: \”The child is quite smart, but he just doesn\’t study hard.\” He said that when he heard this sentence, he felt a little dumbfounded and didn\’t know what the teacher meant…

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