A sense of self-boundary is a life-long armor for children

On one day of our trip to Kenya, we watched flamingos (small flamingos, relatively small) at Lake Bogoria. At the science expedition camp, a senior sister who was a freshman in Canada came up to me and \”complained\”: \”Just now, some mothers next to me were criticizing my clothes, saying why I was dressed like this and so on.\” I pretended. He comforted her easily: \”Don\’t take it to heart, just be happy…

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Don’t hold your baby with a crooked neck! The correct posture for holding a baby should be…

How to hold a baby is actually a very particular matter, especially for babies less than three months old. The neck and spine are not yet fully developed, and the baby\’s neck muscles are unable to control the posture of the head and neck, so The baby may be hurt if the baby is held in the wrong posture. If the baby is held with a crooked neck (that is, the child can tilt his head to both sides, but most of the time it tilts to one side)…

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How to cultivate children\’s self-confidence? Don’t miss these 4 great times

\”What is the most fundamental reason why people are not confident?\” This is a question asked by netizens on Zhihu. Netizen Karen Liu said in her answer: \”A person\’s confidence or lack of confidence is mostly determined by the childhood experiences brought by his family of origin.\” This coincides with what I thought. Feelings of confidence come from thinking that you are loved and accepted. The most important of which is that…

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The American volunteers shouted at the Chinese volunteers: What are you going to do? lay down!

Many people go to poor areas and hand out pens, candies, and money to children when they see them, so that some children stand on the road and stop cars to ask for money. Sometimes \”doing good\” simply and crudely can bring negative consequences. Charity really requires wisdom. The poverty scene in Rwanda may only be imagined by ordinary people. After the Chinese volunteers (volunteers) got off the truck, they saw a skinny…

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What gives children a sense of security? It\’s not just because you stick with your mother.

A few days ago, a friend expressed his bitterness in the group. He said that since his son was born, he has insisted on taking care of him personally. I am afraid that the elderly will not be able to take care of them well, and I am also afraid that the children without their mothers will lack a sense of security. She felt fine before, but since sending her child to kindergarten, she felt confused. On the first day of school, my son hugged his leg and refused to let go. Two kindergarten teachers…

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What should I do if my child goes missing? 14 hours of terror!

In the morning, I turned on my phone and saw that a friend had posted an urgent missing person notice in the circle. It turned out that one of her child\’s classmates had gone missing on the way home after participating in the school\’s coming-of-age ceremony rehearsal. I couldn\’t help but become anxious. This was a child of the same age as Zaizai. From my understanding, although children at this stage have entered pre-adolescence and are more self-seeking, their rebellious spirit is not…

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\”Aren\’t you taking care of your children full-time? Why are your children sick?\”

I am a stay-at-home mother who has been with my child since he was born and has been with him for nearly six years now. Because I am a stay-at-home mom, others have higher expectations of me. This is normal. After all, isn’t taking care of your children full-time just to take care of your children better? Therefore, some questions are always asked directly or indirectly. For example, from the early days: &#82…

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Tracking 11,000 children over 50 years: Children who spend more time with their dads are smarter

\”It turns out that dad is very reliable in raising children!\” I was on a business trip for a month, and the child gave me a big surprise on the first day I came home. At 9 o\’clock in the evening, I snuggled up in bed and finished reading to Tiantian, and was about to accompany her to sleep before leaving like before. Unexpectedly, she said: \”Mom, please go. Dad said I can sleep by myself.\” What? What happened to father and daughter during my absence? …

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What should you eat to nourish your body at the beginning of winter? Eat more of these things to keep your kids healthy throughout the year

After the beginning of winter, we put on thick winter clothes in time, and it is especially important to take supplements and maintain health! So at this stage, how should we supplement? Eat these kinds of foods: Persimmons: Now is the season when persimmons are on the market. Known as the \”sweetest golden fruit\”, it has extremely high nutritional value! Moistens the lungs and promotes body fluids, lowers blood pressure and softens blood vessels, and has many health-preserving effects. The persimmons I bought home…

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What is the best education, is Pindad?

The never-absent father’s education Recently, an essay “Me Hiding in the Corner” written by You Yixuan, a fifth-grade student at Nanjing Lhasa Road Primary School, became popular. In this article, she mentioned her father three times: I feel lonely and helpless, from an open tulip to a closed tulip. When my father saw me like this, he said there was no need to worry unfoundedly, just think about it and it would be fine. Mainly I figured he would…

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