When a crying boy is not blessed, will you give birth to a boy or a girl? Have you ever thought that our attitudes towards boys and girls crying are completely opposite? If a girl falls while running, even if she just scratches a shallow skin with her palm and starts crying, her parents will come over and ask, \”Oh, does it hurt?\” If it\’s a little boy, the attitude is the opposite: \”No. …
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
Boys react slowly and don’t understand no matter what they say. Is there something wrong with their IQ?
Xingxing is a first-grade primary school student. A few days ago, Xingxing’s mother came to me and asked if I could introduce a professional intelligence testing agency. She planned to take Xingxing for a test. I asked Xingxing’s mother very strangely, how did she come up with the idea of going for this examination? Xingxing’s mother said that since Xingxing entered elementary school, the teacher has visited her countless times. He said that Xingxing didn\’t listen in class and was always distracted. Every time…
You don’t know how terrible “shielded” education is for your children
My friend Xiaoru is a substitute teacher in an elementary school. One time we had dinner together, and she told me that a new classmate was transferred to the school, but this classmate\’s reaction ability and ability to accept new things were very poor. At first, Xiaoru thought this classmate had intellectual problems. When Xiaoru reported the problem to the principal, the other party didn\’t believe it at all because the child was a friend of the principal…
Why can\’t Tihai help children become academic leaders?
There is a famous 10,000-hour theory in psychology: Anyone who practices in any field for more than 10,000 hours can become an expert in this field. Many people were inspired by this theory and began to train continuously. This theory has even become a strong support for the question sea tactics. So, scientifically speaking, does this theory hold up in practice? Why do some children…
Be careful of your \”just be happy\”, it will make your children suffer more in the future
A few days ago, an editor told me about the mainstream tutoring books on the market. Books that are suitable for parents to read are often translated from Europe and America. As many parents read, \”happy education\” comes first. It even formed a bad trend. What is scary now is that many families do not set rules for their children, only encouragement and no punishment. The child can\’t tell…
Behind every \”problem\” child is an unreliable parent
Sometimes, when we talk about raising children, some people will say, \”I don\’t know how to educate children at all.\” And this type of parents often have one of the biggest characteristics: they only see the shortcomings of their children and do not see any advantages. The more shortcomings you see, the more entangled and painful you will be. The reality is that behind every problem child, there is a parent with even more problems. I used to…
A magical tool for taking your baby out in ten minutes. It’s worth watching for every mother.
Every time I take my baby out, it\’s a disaster. My husband is rushing me downstairs, and my baby is crying on the bed… I\’m so confused that I finally prepared the baby supplies, but just as I\’m about to go out, my baby starts to poop again… Ugh, my God! Is it so difficult to take a baby out? When I think of the nervous, anxious and messy expressions of mothers before taking their babies out, TaotaoG can\’t help but want to prepare a \”Bringing a baby out…\”
How do Li Yapeng and Dong Qing deal with their children’s education?
While visiting the park on the weekend, I sat on a bench and rested. Just at this time, a naughty kid came, sat down and started eating grapes and spitting out the grape skins. Just when I was about to speak, my parents were already there and said, \”How many times have I told you not to vomit all over the floor when you eat? This is a park, you can\’t vomit casually.\” As a result, the naughty child said back: \”You vomit all over the floor.\” Spitting, why…
Dad knows how important it is to the family to give mom a holiday.
Every Saturday morning, I take my children to interest classes and I always see such a father. This father is sitting alone outside the door of the small class (3-4 years old) classroom. He either puts the computer on his lap and does his own work for a while, or brings a book and reads quietly by himself. Whenever his son comes out of class, he always holds his hand and asks: \”Where do you want to play later? I…
What should you do if your child loses his temper?
Is it difficult to explain this concept to your children when they lose? It\’s very simple. The story Danma shared today did it easily. I am playing checkers with my dad. \”Dad wins!\” Dad stood up, and the little boy pouted angrily. \”I hate it! Dad!\” Mom said fairly: \”Dad is not cheating! Water, you lose…