A mother of two’s nightmare: “Mom, you are partial!”

Yesterday, while waiting for the elevator, I chatted with my neighbor about the recent news that Alyssa Chia had given birth to her third child. We couldn\’t help it. Everyone likes to talk about babies, not to mention becoming a mother. Of course, she is happy to hear about this happy event of giving birth to a baby. However, the neighbor\’s words immediately made the scene jump out of place: \”We fight every day, and I\’m tired. They say I\’m partial. What should I do if there are three of us?\” I…

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Mom, please look at me carefully

When Rooney was 5 years old, I signed him up to practice Taekwondo. After class, he asked me: \”Mom, did you look at me?\” I perfunctoryly said, \”Yes.\” \”Then what did you see?\” \”Uh…\” In fact, I had been watching him while he was in class. Look at your phone. \”You must be looking at your phone again! Mom, don\’t look at your phone anymore, look at me!\” From then on, on his…

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Shock! How you speak to your children can predict their future

Is there an education method that can be used to predict a child\’s future success, or even wealth? It turns out that I don’t think there is such a thing. If there is, OMG, isn’t this just fortune telling? However, the pedantic Maodou Mom collected educational materials at home these two days and discovered many valuable conclusions. Most likely, it does. This is: the way parents talk to their children. …

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How much impact do these details of life have on children in kindergarten?

On March 31st, I was fortunate enough to participate in the life teacher experience activity organized by my child’s kindergarten. On this day, I put on my teacher\’s uniform and apron and stayed in the kindergarten for a full 10 hours. To be honest, I used to be quite careless about my children going to kindergarten. I felt that my children enjoyed kindergarten every day and there were no problems, so I didn’t communicate much with teachers and other parents. yesterday…

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My child, even if you will eventually be mediocre, please don’t be willing to be mediocre.

Whether we admit it or not, most of us will live an ordinary life. No matter how much expectations we have for our children, most of them will eventually embark on an ordinary road and live an ordinary life. . This is not negativity, this is facing up to it. Except for those very few people who are gifted with extraordinary intelligence or born with a golden key, the rest have mediocre qualifications, ordinary appearance,…

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Mom, do we have money?

I grew up with my parents crying about poverty. However, I can’t blame them. My family is indeed poor. Even if they don\’t say it, I can still feel the poverty and bitterness. The extreme lack of material things led me to develop three rules when it came to spending money when I grew up: 1. Passionate about bargains. 2. Keen on buying material things rather than buying experiences. 3. I dare not…

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Why do I allow my children to watch Ultraman?

Ogawa is a huge fan of Ultraman. He couldn\’t remember what kind of coincidence, but after watching \”Ultraman Tega\” for the first time, he fell in love with Ultraman completely. I\’ve been debating whether to ban him from watching Ultraman. In addition to worrying about the bad effects on his eyes if he watches too much, he is also worried about the possible impact of \”violent\” content on him. Later, I didn\’t allow him to contact TV series for a while…

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How the vicious circle of \”prestigious school complex\” limits children\’s possibilities

Recently, I have been thinking about this question – why do I often involuntarily suppress my children\’s nature even though I know deep down in my heart that I should respect their nature? After thinking about it over and over, I suddenly discovered that we were actually locked in a \”circle\”. For example, of my two children, the eldest brother has a typical science student mentality, likes new things, and…

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To the kids: You get to decide which path to take

The first time in my memory that Xiaoduo choked us was last year when she was a little over four years old. The little one was procrastinating at breakfast, and her impatient father was afraid that she would be too late to go to daycare, so he yelled at her to move faster. Xiaoduo said: You yelled at me all day long. I worry about myself. You worry about yourself. …

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20 ways to make children fall in love with reading and use reading to achieve their future

Books are the ladder of human progress. The spiritual realm of a nation depends to a large extent on the reading level of the nation. The nation that reads the most on average in the world is the Jews, and the Jews are a very smart and creative nation. We were once a nation that loved reading. The ancients \”read more than ten thousand volumes\”. The ancients had three ways of reading: on horseback, on pillows, on the toilet,…

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