We don’t want to fight but can’t help ourselves and feel guilty after the fight. What’s wrong with us?

On the day when her son turned three years and five months old, Xiaolan spanked her son for the first time. When she was pregnant, Xiaolan discussed with her husband that the child\’s education should be based on reasoning and try not to be violent. However, Xiaolan still couldn\’t hold it back. Xiaolan\’s family lives on the 15th floor. For her son\’s safety, they not only installed protective screens. Every time her son comes near the window, Xiaolan will tell him that it is dangerous and give him…

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There are some things that don’t need to be said, your children will surprise you on their own

My sister-in-law brought her eldest son back to Taiwan. The 190cm tall 16-year-old boy ran around helping his mother carry things and organize data on the computer. This made a group of relatives and friends envious and asked her how she taught him. \”Not much teaching! They grow up like this on their own.\” My sister-in-law replied with a smile. She was absolutely right, and because of her busy work, she had not even cooked dinner for more than ten years. But every child…

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Children with these four personalities must pay attention to them as they will affect their lives.

It is often said that character determines destiny. What kind of character a person has, what kind of life he will live. As parents, we hope that our children’s lives will be happy and happy, and we strive to raise our children to be positive and popular people. When they find that their children have the following problems in their personality, parents must not ignore them. They must actively intervene and guide them, and pay attention to family education…

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Parents quarreling is more stimulating to children than horror movies

A mother sent me a private message on Weibo, saying that she was feeling very uncomfortable and wanted to talk to someone. She had a big quarrel with her husband, and the trigger was a very small thing: her 5-year-old baby fell ill and had a fever a few days ago, and her husband happened to be on a business trip at that time. She sent the baby to the hospital alone, and took good care of her. The child has improved. But children are children after all, just a little bit…

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Children with these 5 characteristics will definitely have a bright future! Come and see if you have any children?

What kind of children will be successful and promising in the future? I believe that everyone has different standards of measurement in their mind. In Rui’s mother’s view, children with the following qualities will be more likely to be successful and promising in the future. A child with a proud heart We often tell our children to be humble and not to be arrogant. However, many of us have overlooked one point. Children can have modest appearance, but their bones…

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If a child likes to play with \”bad kids\”, should he stop it or should he let it go?

Our backend often receives the following questions. Dear parents, you can also try to think about it. In the following situations, would you interfere with your children\’s friendship? ▼ Situation 1: My daughter is 5 years old and has a cheerful personality. She likes to make friends, and there is a kindergarten classmate who often comes to play with her, but that little girl is very willful and sensitive, crying whenever she disagrees with her. I\’m afraid of women…

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Your child has a cold, are you still giving him medicine?

The weather has been dry and cold recently, and various viruses and bacteria have become active. Clinics and hospitals are crowded with children suffering from colds, fevers and coughs. The doctor reminded that there are more children with colds and coughs this time, and every family must take preventive measures. When it comes to colds in children, the American Academy of Pediatrics offers the following answers. There is actually no cure for colds. Unless you have a high fever and inflammation, you can choose…

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Having a \”short-minded\” child in the family is a blessing that has been cultivated by the parents for several generations.

On the way to pick up Xiaoxi from school two days ago, she told me an interesting incident in the class: After the dictation was over, the class representative felt very good and said, \”I will definitely get 100 points this time. If you don\’t believe me, I\’ll make a bet with you.\” Everyone asked how to bet, and the class representative said: \”If you don\’t get 100 points, you can draw my face however you want.\” N students responded to such an interesting thing. without…

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Love your daughter well, otherwise she will have a rough life.

A friend gave birth to a daughter. She is growing up day by day. She has an angelic smile and a face like rose petals. Wherever she goes, she attracts the attention and praise of people around her, saying, \”This little girl is so beautiful!\” If a girl is not good-looking, her parents will Worried about being rejected by others in the future, parents will be even more worried if they are too beautiful. Another kind of worry. The child’s father said, “Beautiful girls tend to attract…

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Stop wasting money! This is how you should choose toys suitable for children aged 0-3 years old

Toys have always been a large part of a family’s consumption. If you buy the right ones, they can bring joy and education. If you buy the wrong ones, you will be busy and waste money. When I buy toys for Tutou, I never buy them indiscriminately, because as the children grow up, their abilities in all aspects are constantly developing, and their needs will become diversified. So I suggest that different toys are suitable for them to play with at different stages of growth, and they should be divided into different stages…

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