Every child who “doodles” is perceiving the world with his heart

When Ogawa was just 3 years old, I enrolled him in a painting class. Some friends around me said: \”What can he learn at such a young age? You are just wasting money!\” Indeed, for a long time, from a professional perspective, I really couldn\’t see Ogawa\’s talent in painting. Unique talents and amazing progress. However, I still insist on sending him to class every week. Because he is free and happy…

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Why are there so many \”People\’s Lions\” on the Internet?

Not \”people\’s teachers\”, but \”people\’s teaching lions\”: refers to those preachers who are active on the Internet every day and carry a passionate emotion and sense of honor with them. They have the voice and speed of lions, chattering and running non-stop to different people. In the life channels at different stages, I always look forward to conquering people\’s hearts with words. What they fear most is the disapproval of their prey…

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On behalf of the children, I beg you, please stop saying these 8 mantras.

The word \”mantra\” comes from Zen Buddhism. It originally means not understanding it with your heart, but talking about some ready-made experiences, pretending to have thoughts, and thinking you understand the principles of Zen. It is listed as one of the mistakes of Zen. As parents, we often have various \”mantras\” when dealing with our children. Some of these \”mantras\” are very harmful and damaging to children…

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A children\’s book teaches you to understand the behind-the-scenes of children\’s \”naughty\”…

The picture book I would like to recommend to you today is \”Kai Can Do It!\” 》, maybe you can see the shadow of your own children, and you can also see the shadow of yourself. First look at the little boy on the cover. He has band-aids on his face, hands, and legs. Even his stuffed bear is decorated with colors. His top is buttoned wrongly, his socks are not the same color, and he has only one shoelace. Also loosened. Behind the boy…

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​More effective than Time-Out. To teach children to manage their emotions, just one square meter of space is enough.

I believe that many mothers who have been exposed to European and American early education concepts have heard of the time-out method of discipline. Time-out is mainly for children after the age of two. When they are making trouble unreasonably, parents will order them to stay in a corner for a few minutes without any communication with the child. It is similar to our \”thinking about their faults\”. In fact, Su Bao is also experiencing…

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He committed suicide without being allowed to play with his mobile phone, and even took his mother\’s life. Why is the child so fragile?

Talk about a sad event and an important topic. Yesterday, my WeChat group was discussing the tragedy of a mother and her son committing suicide by jumping off a building one after another because of a trivial incident. The general situation is this: The child is a second-year student in the middle school affiliated to Beijing Institute of Technology. Because his academic performance was not satisfactory, his father confiscated his mobile phone. After asking for the mobile phone to no avail, the child chose…

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Does your child not listen to instructions? Blame yourself for not being firm enough

One day, during dinner, because he was anxious to watch TV, Rooney quickly took two mouthfuls of food and was about to leave the table to turn on the TV. I immediately said to him: \”No! Finish the meal!\” He begged: \”Just let me Just watch for a while.\” I looked into his eyes and said firmly: \”No! You can only watch after eating!\” He looked at me for a few seconds, knowing that I was not with him…

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My niece pinched off my daughter’s finger. My family asked me to be tolerant and understanding, but I couldn’t do it.

Dandan, who was under 6 years old, encountered a very unfortunate thing not long ago. Dandan and his father both live very close to grandma’s house, so the two families go to grandma’s house for dinner together every day. My uncle has a cousin who is one year younger than Dandan and is more naughty. One day after the Spring Festival, Dandan and her cousin were playing in a room at her grandma\’s house. Dandan was thirsty and wanted to go to the kitchen to drink water, but her cousin hadn\’t…

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Your baby will be in trouble if he eats the wrong fruit in summer!

Summer Fruits In summer, various fruits are on the market one after another, which will whet your baby\’s appetite. Eating more fresh fruits can help your baby digest and supplement the vitamins and nutrients needed for physical development, but there are many secrets in how to eat fruits. Only by mastering this knowledge can parents take care of their baby\’s nutrition and health. When eating these fruits, be careful…

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There are no stupid children in this world

01. Your unrestrained words destroy more than just your child\’s self-confidence. At the school gate, a young mother looked eagerly toward the campus. A little boy of seven or eight years old came out. When he saw his mother, he ran over happily and threw himself into her arms. With a smile on his face, his mother helped him take off the heavy schoolbag and put it on her shoulders. Then she asked expectantly: \”Today\’s test…

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