Is there an education method that can be used to predict a child\’s future success, or even wealth? It turns out that I don’t think there is such a thing. If there is, OMG, isn’t this just fortune telling? However, the pedantic Maodou Mom collected educational materials at home these two days and discovered many valuable conclusions. Most likely, it does. This is: the way parents talk to their children. …
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
How much impact do these details of life have on children in kindergarten?
On March 31st, I was fortunate enough to participate in the life teacher experience activity organized by my child’s kindergarten. On this day, I put on my teacher\’s uniform and apron and stayed in the kindergarten for a full 10 hours. To be honest, I used to be quite careless about my children going to kindergarten. I felt that my children enjoyed kindergarten every day and there were no problems, so I didn’t communicate much with teachers and other parents. yesterday…
My child, even if you will eventually be mediocre, please don’t be willing to be mediocre.
Whether we admit it or not, most of us will live an ordinary life. No matter how much expectations we have for our children, most of them will eventually embark on an ordinary road and live an ordinary life. . This is not negativity, this is facing up to it. Except for those very few people who are gifted with extraordinary intelligence or born with a golden key, the rest have mediocre qualifications, ordinary appearance,…
Does your child have a bad temper? Congratulations, he may become a general
A few days ago, a reader left a message for me: My daughter is three years old and has a very bad temper. She will cry and yell when her demands are not met. I told her to keep her voice down, but it didn\’t work very well. For example, when we go downstairs together, her dad thinks she is slow, so he hugs her. She will be very angry, cry and yell, and will hit her dad and kick her legs to protest…R…
Mom, I can only save you in this way
Believe it or not, children are sometimes driven by a special power to do something unconsciously to save their parents? First, let’s take a look at what “family system sorting” is. Family system sorting is a new family therapy method in the field of psychological counseling and psychotherapy, developed by the German psychotherapy master Bert Hellinger…
I was scolded by my 3-year-old child, but I couldn’t reply
\”You\’re a bad dad, I hate you!\” \”I\’m not a bad dad, I\’m a good dad!\” \”I don\’t want you to be my dad, hum.\” \”Hey, little bastard. I just confiscated your toys, actually. I disown my relatives.\” The father and son argued endlessly in the living room, and the father was defeated and went to the study angrily. Seeing this scene, I couldn\’t help but want to laugh. How could this be an adult…
Child, if you are not Bill Gates, don’t read Mi Meng’s article
A few days ago, Mimeng, a well-known public account blogger, pushed the article \”Why I support interns taking a leave of absence from school\”, which aroused heated discussion. After reading this article, my first reaction was to be very angry. As the \”number one Internet celebrity in the universe\”, Mi Meng has eight to nine million fans on her official account. We don\’t know the exact number of reads of this article. We only saw 100,000+ and had more than 14,000 likes. I don\’t know if there is…
Let your trust live in your child’s heart
Recently there is a very popular Indian movie \”Dangal!\” dad\”. The movie tells the story of a wrestling champion father who accidentally discovers his daughter\’s talents and shining points. In a society that values boys over girls, he withstands all pressure. When everyone thinks it is impossible, his daughter finally stands out. On the highest podium. The movie is very inspiring. Many friends who have watched this movie…
Domestic violence: If you can’t even control your emotions, everything will be ruined sooner or later
In the past two days, a person named Liu Zhoucheng has dominated Weibo\’s hot searches. This person became instantly popular and became famous overnight. Who is this person? Never heard of it before. But the Supreme Lihe group is still known, and he is one of its members. He became famous because his wife issued a divorce statement on Weibo on the morning of the 17th, which directly pointed at Liu Zhou…
I am so patient with my children, do you know where that comes from?
There must be some people who think I\’m pretentious about raising children, but they just don\’t say it to my face, and I know that. Take the child who wants to be hugged as an example. When he was about two years old, he said, \”Mom, please hug me. I\’m so tired.\” I picked him up. Now four years old, sometimes he says: \”Mom, hug me, I\’m so tired.\” I still open my arms. He said he was tired, I was really…