How to raise children to be ordinary people?

Should we train children with outstanding talents, or should we train children to be ordinary people? Is it really difficult for parents to choose? Is it easier said than done? It depends on how we think about what determines a child\’s happiness. Such a view has the potential to cause waves. Because although we all know: plain and ordinary is true, and then when it comes to being parents…

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Psychological analysis of children’s dillydallying, wise parents “urge” like this

\”Dallen\” Every time you use this topic to start a chat in the mom group, you will definitely capture a large group of \”comrades\” immediately. Faced with their children\’s troubles, worried mothers can only urge them over and over again. \”It\’s time to go to school, get up quickly!\” \”It\’s time to go out, quickly put on clothes and shoes!\” \”It\’s already 9 o\’clock in the evening, hurry up and do your homework!\” \”It\’s 10 o\’clock, hurry up and put away the toys…

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If parents accompany their children well, it may change your child\’s life.

\”Yixiang, mom has already sent your birthday gift. I will definitely receive it before your birthday. I bought your favorite Ultraman, Transformers, and dinosaurs…are you happy?\” The other end of the phone Came my mother\’s voice. \”Thank you, Mom, can you come back to celebrate my birthday with me?\” Yixiang happily waited for his mother\’s answer. \”I\’m sorry, honey, mom has been working very hard lately…

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Are children smarter if they become sensible earlier? Parents must see this!

Recently, an incident occurred in Sanhe City, Hebei: A husband and wife had a quarrel over trivial family matters and got into a fight. The wife called the police and reported that her husband was experiencing domestic violence. After the police arrived, their 6-year-old son was afraid that the police would arrest his parents, so he cried and told what happened. It could be seen that the boy was very sad and angry: \”The two of them had a quarrel over a trivial matter. It was the mother who touched her first, and it even bled. …

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What should I do if my baby has a cold, cough and runny nose? You have to learn to identify diseases by the color of your nose…

The weather is getting colder and colder, and many babies cannot bear the cold wind and start to catch colds, coughs and runny noses. Although a runny nose is not a serious illness, its “difficult” nature really gives parents a headache! When parents see their baby\’s runny nose, don\’t think that taking cold medicine will solve the problem, because this colorful nose can contain a lot of knowledge! It can not only initially judge the treasure…

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What age is the key to cultivating children with integrity and self-discipline?

Self-discipline is a word that has been paid more and more attention to in recent years. Some people may ask what it has to do with children. Is it necessary for a child whose nature needs to be liberated to discipline himself? In fact, such worries only see the restrictive side, but ignore the essence of self-discipline. The essence of self-discipline is not to restrain people\’s nature, but only to help a person manage himself. On the contrary, it is conducive to understanding…

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The price for parents not following the rules will be the lingering shadow of their children’s childhood.

I saw a video on Weibo a few days ago. A mother asked her four or five-year-old child to practice hanging rings on the bus. When the bus driver in the middle saw it, he turned his head and said, \”Hey, eh, sit down!\” After the child heard it, he stopped. But the mother said to the child: \”Hang it!\” The driver continued: \”This is not a place for exercise!\” \”It\’s none of your business! Just hang it, my god…

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Harvard professor’s message to Chinese parents: Real education is self-education

The world-famous Harvard University in the United States has been in trouble recently. An Asian who failed to get admitted to Harvard University filed a lawsuit in a U.S. court, claiming that Harvard University treats Asians (East Asians and Southeast Asians) differently, resulting in the enrollment rate of Asians being far lower than that of whites and other mainstream ethnic groups. An internal email from a Harvard employee was presented as evidence in court…

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Many parents are \”sick\” but want their children to \”take medicine\”

Today’s article is for treating “disease”. Please don’t pigeonhole me because we all have some of these conditions, myself included. The only difference is that some parents have discovered it and are working on self-reflection and treatment. Some parents don\’t take it seriously, but feel that they are right and it\’s just their children who are wrong. When a parent becomes a parent, one needs to be brave…

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What do children want most? They are the worst parents!

\”Child, I want to give you the best life!\” This should be the voice of all parents, and it is also an inexhaustible motivation for everyone to work hard in the workplace. However, I have always wondered, what kind of life is best for children? Is it the latest toy? Is it clothes that easily cost thousands? Is it an expensive hobby class? Or a house in a school district that costs a lot of money? …

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