\”Just study and don\’t worry about anything else.\” How many children have been harmed by this sentence!

When we train our children, we are preparing them to enter society in the future. Children who can only study will find it difficult to thrive in society. Letting children take more responsibilities, be more independent, and know how to love and give is the best we can give our children. like. \”Just study and don\’t worry about anything else.\” When I was a child, I was very envious of my neighbor\’s children. Even though they both had similar grades, she finished writing…

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As a parent, how long will you go on the road of \”working without a certificate\”?

At first, I thought that all mothers were gifted and would become masters of love without any practice. After many twists and turns, I finally understood that in the exercise book of time, even if every page is painted with the shading of heart to heart, we still need to practice thousands of times before we can catch a glimpse of the truth of love. ——Liu Jirong Before giving birth to a baby, I had never read any parenting books, like what the writer Liu Jirong said…

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After the divorce, I am no longer your husband, but I still want to be the father of your child.

Friend Z got divorced last year, and his daughter is as old as Xiao Fu. Z said that after the divorce, his ex-wife took their daughter back to the Northeast, and they may never interact with her until they die. He thinks about his daughter so much that he can\’t sleep every night, and he sheds tears when he looks at his daughter\’s old stuffed toys. After hearing what he said, I didn\’t know how to comfort myself. Because theoretically speaking, although he and his ex-wife broke up…

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Is your child very introverted? Congratulations, he will have a great future

One weekend not long ago, I took Xiaonuo to play in the community. She was recently obsessed with scooters, spinning around and around in the open space. I sat next to her and watched her. After a while, Grandma Chenchen came with Chenchen. Chenchen was a little over three years old and was fairly familiar with us. Chenchen\’s grandma led him over and said, \”Call Auntie!\” Chenchen didn\’t call and hid behind her a little shyly…

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This is the kind of kid who will be the most hopeless in 10 years! Don\’t blame me for not reminding you

I accidentally offended a cousin-in-law. She first scolded me in front of my mother for being \”unrelative\” and \”looking down on people.\” Then she said something wrong about me in front of relatives back home: \”Grandma is a jerk. She came to my house when she was a child. Come on, I\’ll give her some peach cakes to eat. Now that I\’ve become more capable, I don\’t even do a favor, I just look like a wolf…\” The cause of the matter is that her daughter Xiaohui graduated from college this year…

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It is better to teach your children this ability than to leave them with gold and silver.

My nephew, Xiao Xiong, had excellent grades since childhood. After the college entrance examination, he successfully entered a key northern university. His family was very happy and thought that everything would be worry-free from now on. But not long after entering, a new problem arose. Little Bear discovered that the school is really full of talents. There are many top students with good grades, versatile talents, and popular students. Little Bear is very motivated, but unfortunately he did not get the first place in the results. ,…

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Another child committed suicide because of these 5 words from his parents! Don\’t say it again

Do you still remember that some time ago, a Sichuan boy committed suicide after taking the college entrance examination? He even wrote in his suicide note: Either burn my body or throw it away. Don’t take me home! Why do you have so much hatred for your parents that you don’t want to go home after you die? Rui\’s mother carefully studied Xiaosi\’s suicide note and found that although Xiaosi repeatedly emphasized that he had low emotional intelligence, his parents\’ emotional intelligence was…

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Families with messy rooms cannot raise promising children

My son often throws his schoolbag away after school, and books are scattered everywhere. I was very angry every time I saw it. Once, because the books were scattered everywhere, I couldn\’t find them before going to school. I said angrily: \”Oh, I let you leave it everywhere. I really don\’t know who you learned this bad habit from.\” My son glanced at me and said, \”I didn\’t learn it from you, I just lost it.\” A few books,…

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The reason behind a child’s crying is heartbreaking

The night before yesterday, mother and son went out for a walk together with their younger brother and Rooney. When passing the maternal and child store at the entrance of the community, as usual, Rooney said he wanted to go in and take a look. Since my brother was born, we have become regular customers in the store, but what bothers me is that every time Rooney sees those toys in the store, he doesn’t want to leave. This time, I didn\’t want to go in, but he seemed to have guessed…

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My child, have you ever made money yourself?

In the evening, I was about to go home after a walk in the park. I was suddenly stopped by a six or seven-year-old boy at the entrance of the park. \”Auntie, do you need to buy water?\” The voice was young but loud. Under the streetlight, I discovered that he was holding mineral water in his hand and looking up at me. The park is not far from home, and there is ice-cold mung bean soup at home. Besides, I didn’t bring my wallet. \”Aunt,…

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