Does your child cry as soon as he enters kindergarten? These \”stop crying\” methods shocked me

Yesterday was Goddess\’ Day, and the kindergarten held an open day, inviting parents to play games, do crafts, eat with their children, and experience their children\’s daily life. It was morning exercise time when our parents went in. The children who were doing exercises to the music were very happy when they saw their families coming. They had to keep up with the teacher\’s movements, jumping high and squatting low to show their parents. I am having fun taking photos of Guoguo…

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The first child in my family is a son, and the second child is a son’s father.

These days, my husband has become the laughing stock of their company. One afternoon, my husband asked me to send him a set of materials for a meeting. I just drove downstairs to his company, and he suddenly jumped out from behind the flowers. He originally wanted to scare me, but he accidentally twisted his foot, twisted it there, grinned, and couldn\’t walk. I really couldn\’t laugh or cry. Looking at the watch, it\’s almost time to pick up my son. I can…

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The child insists on wearing sandals in a low temperature of 5 degrees. This mother’s approach is admirable

If your child insists on wearing sandals when the temperature is 5 degrees Celsius, and wears a down jacket with a bunny ears hat in the dog days of summer, would you agree? I\’m afraid the vast majority of mothers would disagree. What did mothers who disagreed miss? Today, I want to talk about something that happened when Edamame was just three years old. In Beijing in mid-March, although the grass has sprouted and the spring flowers have bloomed, it is early…

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Finally there is a little guy who lets us learn to shake hands and make peace with the world

When Jay Chou\’s latest single \”Waiting for You After Class\” was released, he said: \”This song is a gift to myself and to my fans.\” However, attentive fans found that there was a sentence in it that stood out: \”Why didn\’t I study hard in the three years of high school?\” In fans\’ memories, the young man who sang \”I don\’t even know the answers to the test paper, it doesn\’t matter\” has not yet…

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Letting your children finish what they say is the best thing a parent can do

I watched a talent show. A woman started to paint on the talent show. Her brushwork was immature and clumsy. After painting for a long time, she couldn\’t even see the outline. She was impatient and the four judges who didn\’t understand what was going on invariably turned off the lights. But after the woman sprinkled white powder on it, the woman\’s work instantly shocked the audience. Parents in real life are like the judges in the video. Many times, if they have more patience with their children, the children…

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My mother also has a temper

I think everyone must have discovered this pattern: when we feel bad, our children don\’t feel good either. vice versa. That is, in a conflict with a child, you either win or you lose. I don\’t think any father is secretly happy: Look, I beat that kid to tears. No mother will be happy: Look, I finally lost my temper with my daughter. …

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Relatives are cold-blooded than outsiders! Beat the girl until her nose bleeds and she doesn\’t stop beating her

Someone shared a video he took in a supermarket. A little girl about 4 years old was crying loudly, and her nosebleed was all over the floor. A supermarket employee was helping her wipe a nosebleed. Opposite the girl, an adult man stepped forward and slapped her hard. The girl cried even harder… Who was this man? What\’s his relationship with the girl? Why does a girl get a nosebleed? …

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Mom, thank you for not becoming a resentful woman

People often say: If you don’t raise children, you don’t know the kindness of your parents. It was during the hardships of raising children that I suddenly asked: How did my mother survive in the first place? I would collapse after raising one. My mother raised four. How did she try not to go crazy? We brothers and sisters were born one after another. My mother must have suffered a lot in those years. We have an old family photo in our house…

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Don’t be held hostage by your imagination, determine the direction and take steps first

The day before yesterday, when I was listening to the class monitor\’s lecture on the Analects of Confucius, the passage about Ran Qiu struck me immediately. Ran Qiu said: \”It\’s not that I don\’t speak the way of Master, it\’s because I don\’t have enough power.\” Confucius said: \”Those who don\’t have enough power will give up on the middle way. Today\’s female painting.\” Meaning, Ran Qiu said: \”It\’s not that I don\’t like the teacher\’s teachings. , because the ability is not enough.\” Confucius said: \”If the ability is not enough, you will stop when you can\’t walk anymore…

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Stefanie Sun did this immediately after she said to her son, \”I don\’t care if you die.\” Do you dare?

She did this immediately after she choked her son with harsh words. Recently, Stefanie Sun published a long article titled \”Bad Parents\” on Weibo, using more than 1,000 words to describe in detail what happened to her while taking care of her sick son. What happened: Stefanie Sun\’s son \”Na Xiaozi\” was originally very well-behaved and cute, but due to physical discomfort during the illness, his temper became increasingly bad. On the first day of illness…

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