A few days ago, a good friend came to me asking for help. Because she needs to go on a business trip for a week recently, her father is still at home to take care of her, but her 7-year-old son Teng Teng refuses to let his mother leave. My friend had no choice but to entrust me to enlighten this little guy. After I asked patiently, Tengteng finally told the truth: \”If mom is not at home, I will be starved to death by dad!\” The little guy…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
The best way to give your child a sense of security
In my 25 years of psychological counseling career, I have found that some people with superior material conditions or high academic qualifications clearly have a lot of external security guarantees, but still lack a sense of security internally. They dare not be true to themselves, and live in constant panic, not knowing what the meaning of life is, and feeling that everything they have now may be lost in an instant. They crave trust, but they don\’t trust…
A sign that your child is gradually getting better
Every parent has a painful experience raising children. Children always seem to have new ways to test our patience. Occasionally they will misbehave, occasionally speak rudely, occasionally break out of your arms and rebel against you… All kinds of problems in children make us anxious and anxious. angry. We hope that our children will get better and better, but this…
What is a good parent-child relationship?
Some people say: \”Parenting is a war.\” The fundamental reason for this situation is that there is a problem in the parent-child relationship. This is not only as simple as rebellion, but also related to the content and method of communication between parents. When there are many communication barriers between you and your child, it means it is time to adjust the content of your interactions. 01 Why do many children feel uncomfortable when parents open their mouths…
What should I do if my child loses his temper and throws things?
Children throwing tantrums and throwing things are common problems that many parents face when their children are growing up. This behavior not only poses a threat to the safety of the child itself, but also has a negative impact on the family and society. Therefore, parents should take appropriate measures to handle the situation and help their children learn to control their emotions. Understand the reasons First, parents should try to understand their children…
10 ancient poems about the Mid-Autumn Festival for children to recite
The Mid-Autumn Festival is one of the important traditional Chinese festivals and a treasure of Chinese culture. Since ancient times, many literati and poets have used their unique talents to create many ancient poems describing the Mid-Autumn Festival. These ancient poems not only show the customs and beauty of the Mid-Autumn Festival, but also contain profound thoughts and emotions. Below, we will introduce ten ancient poems related to the Mid-Autumn Festival to guide you through the Mid-Autumn Festival…
Allow children to have emotions and handle children’s psychological counseling methods smoothly
The rhythm of vacation is always a little unsteady. It must be said that in the continuous flow and changes day after day, growth and shaping are also happening quietly and silently. From the sandbox dynamics of the child during follow-up visits, you can feel all of his recent status. It is not a myth, it really feels like he has a third eye. Especially for visits where parents have complete trust and children sincerely deliver, I don’t know…
It seems like a simple game of house, but why is it one of the most valued abilities in American kindergartens?
You may still remember that this year I took Su Bao to participate in a parent-child experience class in a kindergarten here in New York. Parenting classes are for babies under 3 years old to help children and parents become familiar with the school’s teaching methods and environment so that they can decide whether to apply for admission to the kindergarten in the future. I remember when I visited this kindergarten for the first time, I saw a complete toy kitchen in the classroom, three or four…
Chinese parents’ anxiety about their children’s education
After the implementation of the \”double reduction\” policy, on the one hand, the chaos in off-campus subject training has been significantly cured; on the other hand, the quality of school education and teaching and service levels have been further improved. But it is undeniable that many parents have new anxieties about their children\’s education, and some parents\’ pre-existing anxieties have not been fundamentally relieved. The combination of the two has brought new…
My mother gave such a gift on June 1st, and my daughter, who was originally in high spirits, was instantly heartbroken!
The Children\’s Day gala is going on, and the children on the stage are performing energetic street dances. Parents and children in the audience are enjoying it with relish. As the scheduler of the party, I run between the front desk and the backstage from time to time. When I take the time, I have to see if the parents of the children in the audience have any problems that need to be solved. When I got backstage and saw the next show getting ready…