How does it feel to yell at your child? A few days ago, a mother left a message saying: Her son is going to school these days, but he has not done his homework during the summer vacation. He is afraid of the teacher’s criticism and does not go to school at home. I got angry just thinking about it, and then I yelled at my child hard. A meal. As a result, he didn\’t say a word and stared at himself. Really don\’t know what to do. …
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
Don\’t let this mentality ruin your child
My classmate Ali has been very busy recently. She wants her child to go to a good kindergarten. However, top kindergartens have strict entrance exams, including English tests. So Ali began to encourage her child to learn English better. She showed him English cartoons such as \”Happy Burger\” and \”SpongeBob SquarePants\” all day long. She also spent a lot of money on him and hired a one-on-one foreign teacher. She told him,…
When a child is least cute, it is when he needs your love the most
I remember one day at noon. I just had to go out to run errands and asked my son to take a nap in his room. Before, I usually slept with him. Because of the holiday, a little aunt was playing with him at our house. So at noon I am usually so excited that I don’t want to sleep. Before I hurriedly went out that day, I went to his room to see if he was asleep. He was sitting on the edge of the bed alone, without…
Be careful with these magical logics, they are quietly harming your children.
If you think about it carefully, we have many such adults. With this kind of divine logic: I think the most effective way to discipline is to scare the child with words or violence. I encountered something outside the kindergarten a few days ago that I have never forgotten. After school that day, I played with my son on the edge of the playground. Outside the railing, a pair of beautiful twin sisters are carrying schoolbags…
Why are more and more children trying to commit suicide? The reason is this…
When we become adults, we are very surprised by the psychological process of children collapsing and even dying when faced with trivial things. However, if you look back on your own childhood, you will understand that adults\’ neglect of children\’s inner feelings is often the source of children\’s pain. In fact, life and death are just a matter of thoughts. On the way to the amusement park with Xiao Yu\’er and his cousin Xiang in the afternoon, the two children were behind the car…
How important is the first \”triangular relationship\” in life to children?
Speaking of \”triangular relationship\”, what relationship do you think of first? Most people think of a triangle in a relationship. In fact, the first triangle relationship in a person\’s life is family relationship. This relationship is the basis for a child\’s understanding of \”social relationships\”. For most families, the baby\’s primary caregiver is the mother, and he will only interact with her at first…
Even if a child reads a lot, he or she may not be able to write a good composition, which is very disturbing.
Some people say that everyone who likes to read has a dream of being a writer. Actually no, many people read simply to enjoy reading and have no urge to write. Just like people who like to watch movies don’t all want to make a movie themselves, they just want to experience the beauty of movies. The meaning of life is nothing more than the word \”experience\”. The beauty of experience is not inferior to creation, and the upstream is not higher than the downstream. I love…
A mother uses a bowl to catch her child\’s urine in a restaurant: Parents are the ones who deserve more education than their children.
Some time ago, a Weibo post went viral on the Internet. Some netizens broke the news: In a hotel in Beijing, a mother actually used the hotel\’s special bowl for children to catch her child\’s urine, and then poured the urine into a large bowl filled with food. It’s true that one kind of rice feeds hundreds of kinds of people, and there is something for everyone. A customer saw this scene and criticized the child\’s mother, but she disapproved and said: The dishes have to be washed anyway…
The reason behind children’s procrastination in going to school turns out to be this
Two years ago, I went to Shanghai to participate in the National Picture Book Curriculum Practical Workshop organized by Picture Book School. When talking about exploring parent-child education resources from picture books, teacher Yang Yi told a story that made me deeply feel that picture books can connect parents and children. important role in relationships. A mother anxiously asked teacher Yang Yi for advice: \”My child goes to school every day and waits until he is sent to kindergarten…
What will a child with low self-esteem look like when he grows up?
I can’t remember when I started having an inferiority complex. I sat in the front row for five years in elementary school. When I graduated, I could only hold my neck up to the shoulders of my deskmate, so I was nicknamed \”Little One.\” After entering junior high school, I still didn\’t escape the bad luck of height. In the lush development atmosphere of adolescence, I seemed to be out of the normal interstellar trajectory, completely forgotten by the body\’s functions…