There are three levels of Chinese parents. Which level are you on?

1. Parents from the bottom: Completely free-wheeling, unable to raise outstanding children. Which is more cruel, forcing children to study or letting children indulge? Hidden in the plan for the child is the pattern of the parents, and the pattern of the parents determines the future of the child. Parents at the bottom have no life but survival. They are busy making a living every day and have no time to think about their children\’s future. Look at the street vendors…

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As a parent, do you want your children to be afraid of me?

I took Ningning around the community and passed by the property management center. Before I had time to react, the girl ran straight into the door where someone else worked. A deep male voice came from the room: \”Children, you are not allowed to come in here!\” I quickly wanted to run to pull Ningning out, but she jumped into my arms and whispered: \”Mom, I\’m afraid .\” He must have been frightened by this strange man…

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Having a son has driven my mother crazy!

How wild is your baby boy? In 2016, I gave birth to my second child, a boy, and my first child was a girl. As a result, I received many praises from my relatives and friends: Congratulations, it all comes together as a good word. Wow, I have a son and a daughter, so perfect! I can\’t tell that you are so good at giving birth… I smiled softly: Men and women are the same everywhere! …

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What happened to those children who cried and refused to go to kindergarten?

A mother\’s question brought back painful memories in me. \”Mom Maodou, my child just doesn\’t want to go to kindergarten, what should I do?\” asked an anxious mother. \”My child went to a kindergarten near our home for a while and adapted well. This kindergarten did not meet our requirements, but we have no other better choice for the time being. We both have to work, and the elderly will not…

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To cultivate children who love reading, first grasp the three critical periods of parent-child reading.

Many mothers ask me, \”How to raise a child who loves to read?\” I began to consciously start parent-child reading when Xiaoyu was more than five months old. Along the way, the little guy developed the habit of reading independently for half an hour every day, and reading together for about 15 minutes before going to bed. Independent reading is when he comes home from school and I will be busy preparing dinner. And he will…

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Parents who refuse to let go will never educate outstanding children.

Yesterday, I saw a piece of news: \”A mother went to Canada to see her 17-year-old son and ran downstairs late at night with a bruised face.\” Binbin, a 17-year-old boy from Hangzhou, comes from a wealthy family. A year ago, when he was a freshman in high school, his family sent him to Canada to attend high school. Because his ability to take care of himself was weak, he stayed in other people\’s homes. Arriving in a new environment, it is always a bit uncomfortable to adapt to it, whether it is him or…

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Having a sense of boundaries is the first lesson of being a parent

Parents should be more mature than their children. In October 2016, Zhang Liangying posted on Weibo to announce that she would marry Feng Ke. Immediately afterwards, her mother Zhang Guiying posted an open letter online. The main idea of ​​the open letter was: Feng Ke tricked my daughter into being a mistress. , and also embezzled the shares of my daughter and her company. This is not a man worthy of being entrusted with life. I am very opposed to it but I can’t persuade my daughter…

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Be careful how you manage your emotions, it can become a disaster in your child\’s life

I was on duty at the school gate that day. As usual, I looked at the cute smiling faces and said \”good morning\” to every child. Dabao and Xiaobao are twin little boys. Their mother sent the two children to the door to prepare to leave. The child lost his temper and rushed towards his mother\’s battery car while crying. Mom bent down and comforted her for a while, but Dabao still didn’t want to enter the campus…

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How to raise honest and self-disciplined children?

A mother asked: \”How to cultivate self-discipline in a two-year-old child? How to teach children to control themselves and use them in moderation, such as watching TV, eating snacks, and playing video games?\” Yoyo is a very self-disciplined child, but if you ask me, How it was cultivated, I really can’t answer for a while. I thought about how to write it for several days, and finally found \”How to cultivate self-discipline in a two-year-old child…\”

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The baby only kisses grandma and not me. How can we win this \”palace battle\”?

Reading a bedtime story on the sofa, I asked my 2-year-old daughter whether she wanted to sleep with her grandma or her mother tonight. The daughter replied in a sweet voice, \”Mom.\” I asked again, do you want to sleep with your mother or grandma? The daughter replied again, grandma. Phew, I couldn\’t help laughing. Every time I ask her this question, I get this answer. I don’t know how difficult it is for her…

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