What hurts children the most is not the divorce of parents, but…

\”After so many years of marriage, his family has always been prejudiced against me. They have never regarded me as a member of their family. Every time they talk, they always hide their opinions. And he has never supported me. I really don\’t know what to do with this kind of marriage. What should I do?\” \”My husband made some money from his business three years ago, and since then he has been having sex with women outside, and I found out…

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When my children act up and don\’t obey the rules, how do I make the little devil behave and become cooperative?

If we had a remote control in our hands that could \”remote\” our children, what function would you like? Anyway, I want to press pause or fast forward when my baby is crying or making trouble…haha! When a mother is sleepy and tired, she will be upset if her child does not cooperate or obey. The key is that we are very contradictory: insisting on it means a \”fierce battle\” that may be endless; compromising,…

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Psychology professor shares how to play with children to make them smarter

Not long ago, I had an afternoon tea party with a child psychology professor in an early childhood education course I took in New York. Because Little D was born prematurely, she would undergo cognitive tests at regular intervals, and the person who conducted the tests was a psychologist. So I took the opportunity to ask a professional question: How can I create a smart preschooler? That professor took off…

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tragedy! The ocean ball pool has turned into a \”murder pool\”. It is dangerous and dirty. I will never let my children play in it again!

I originally thought that the ocean ball was a breath of fresh air in children\’s playgrounds: no plug-in, no strong lights, no harsh music, and relatively little danger… I was really shocked after reading this article by @婷 Sister. I didn\’t expect it. The ocean ball pool actually hides such great dangers: excessive formaldehyde, poor disinfection, contagious hand, foot and mouth disease, and even hidden injection needles endangering children\’s lives… Last week…

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Stop saying this! It will destroy the child and it will destroy you

Before you start reading this article, please take 10 seconds to think about it, do you have such a spoken language? \”If it weren\’t for you, I would have…\” \”If it weren\’t for him, I wouldn\’t…\” This sentence pattern can be transformed into countless sentences: If it weren\’t for you, I would have divorced your dad a long time ago. If I hadn\’t given birth to you and raised you, how could my figure have changed…

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The cultivation of parents determines the level of their children

At the entrance of the kindergarten, a mother was selling second-hand course cards to everyone with a helpless face. There are many people watching, but not many buying. She said this was a piano course card bought for her children. In order to provide their children with artistic influence, they bought a piano worth more than 10,000 yuan and signed up for a piano class worth 8,000 yuan. The child became interested in three minutes and took two lessons. There is no way to survive. I am a piano student, so…

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This innate emotion affects a child’s life-long happiness. How to counterattack?

Yesterday, several girlfriends gathered at my house with their children. Dabao and Xiaoyuer played the piano impromptu. The melodious sound of the piano was unanimously praised by the girlfriends, especially Lin, who applauded warmly and praised her endlessly. People gathered around the piano and asked Xiao Yuer questions about the piano. When the atmosphere was peaceful, suddenly, my best friend Lin\’s child Maomao jumped out…

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How important is eating well to a family?

Before the Mid-Autumn Festival, I guess grandma must have missed us. So when I called over. The old man asked us when we were going there. I said I would go and have lunch. She said happily, \”Okay, okay.\” Now she can no longer cook meals for the family. So they no longer call us over for dinner as often as before. But there are more times to ask for help. But I know she is willing to…

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\”My child can\’t do it!\” – Yes, if you believe that he can\’t do it, he can\’t do it.

\”Look, this child is not good at studying!\” Several times, the father of the child was so angry that his daughter said to him, \”You don\’t follow me at all.\” What\’s the meaning? Do you mean to follow me? Although my child\’s father and I are not outstanding, we have only crossed the single-plank bridge from thousands of troops. What\’s more, we have shown learning potential since we were young. In kindergarten, we still have to surpass Xiaohong…

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As soon as the child was born, the husband died

A widowed marriage begins in the year the child is born. When the husband returns home, he either surfs the Internet on his mobile phone or lies in bed pretending to be dead. He doesn\’t understand how hard it can be to just raise a child. Just as he didn\’t understand what kind of suffering and despair his wife was going through at this time. This month I received a letter from a reader: The reader said that she had thought about dying a hundred times. When it comes to marriage…

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