Master Xuecheng once said something that I agree with: \”What you say about life is your destiny.\” When making friends, people who can talk are more likely to gain favor than those who can\’t; in the workplace , people who are good at expressing themselves can have more opportunities than people who are clumsy in speaking; when it comes to love, people who know how to speak well are often more likely to maintain long-term and stable relationships. …
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
The quality of shoes has such a big impact on children [attached to my painful experience]
A few days ago, I was cleaning up the shoe cabinet at home with my mother-in-law, and sorted out a bunch of shoes that Zizai could no longer wear. While sorting them out, my mother-in-law said distressedly: \”Oh, why don\’t we want such good shoes when they are still new?! \”I sighed and said, \”No, Zai Zai\’s feet have grown too fast and he can\’t wear them anymore!\” My mother-in-law said, \”In the future, when you buy shoes for him, don\’t buy shoes that are just right…
These five critical stages are the manifestations of cultivating children with high emotional intelligence.
Emotional intelligence is a combination of self-awareness control, self-motivation, recognition of other people\’s emotions, and handling of relationships. Some research points out: Success = 20% IQ + 80% EQ. Some people believe that emotional intelligence is a product of innateness. People with high emotional intelligence are naturally optimistic and positive, while people with low emotional intelligence are born with low self-esteem, sensitivity, and irritability. actually not. High emotional intelligence and nurture…
Whether a child\’s marriage is good or not depends on the attitude of the parents.
The actress who played Tonya\’s mother in the Oscar-winning movie \”I, Tonya\” won this year\’s Best Supporting Actress crown. She truly demonstrates the negative parenting attitudes of parents. This negative attitude is like a dark cloud covering the sun, making children\’s psychology bleak from an early age. In the movie, Tonya\’s mother accompanies her to skating classes. At the rink, Tony…
How important is it for children to be able to play?
In the eyes of many friends, I am really not a person who knows how to play. So when they have any activities, they often don’t call me. After having children, it became even more so. Because I prefer to be with children. So those social events and parties have become irrelevant to me. Not many people are willing to play with me, a man who always has a baby. They always think that the child is a…
The sad thing is not the divorce itself, but…
Xiao Qiao got divorced, ending a decade-long separation between the two places. She asked me before, is divorce considered a failure? I said, forget it. Marriage is the process of upgrading and fighting monsters, defeating one\’s own limitations, defeating the hardships of life, defeating chicken feathers everywhere, defeating the ghosts and monsters that rush out halfway. When the hair is full, holding hands, sitting on the wicker chair in the yard of one\’s house, looking sideways …
Parents who cannot adhere to the bottom line of being a good person cannot raise children with good conduct.
Some time ago, \”Wang Baoqiang\’s residence was locked\” once again made Ma Rong and her family a hot search topic on Weibo. Two strange men tried to pick the lock at Wang Baoqiang\’s residence, but were discovered by the property owner and called the police. The two confessed that they came to \”break in\” the door with a letter of authorization from Ma Rong\’s father. One man claimed that he had a card and a key, so he came in as a matter of course and with a tough attitude. The property of this community revealed that the house…
When a child makes a mistake, the more he yells, the worse he gets. This is the simplest and most effective way.
A few days ago, I was planning to have an \”art creation (hua)\” with my son at home. I usually pour the paint into the palette and then he paints. Then I received an emergency call due to an unexpected situation. After hanging up the phone, I saw Ding Dong boy imitating me and pouring out paint. Then my face was covered with colorful colors from the sofa to the floor to the crawling mat to his body… .
This hot little video broke the hearts of all parents: The best gift to your children is your health
This short advertising video, hailed as \”the most heart-wrenching in 2018\”, lasted less than 5 minutes, but it touched the hearts of millions of netizens and broke the Internet. Every scene in the advertisement is based on real life experiences. The protagonist of the story is like someone around you, maybe you and me. Did the first half of the video feel familiar to you? While staying up the longest night,…
Children are timid and nervous… This kind of behavior from parents can be so harmful
A friend told a story, and I felt uncomfortable for a long time after hearing it. Her little niece is only a little over 3 years old, but she is very \”well-behaved\”. When eating, only eat the dish in front of you. No matter what she is doing, when adults look at her, she immediately shows her baby teeth and smiles. Her mother has a very bad temper. She wets her clothes when drinking water, sits on the floor, breaks toys, eats too slowly, and doesn’t take naps quickly…