Recently, there has been a very heated discussion on the topic \”Where are the fathers in China?\” A foreign father picking up his children at the school gate asked the elderly and mothers nearby: \”Why are mothers and elderly accompanying their children in Chinese restaurants, school gates, and playgrounds? Where have the Chinese fathers gone?\” This question is really frustrating. Or embarrassing, the real answers must be diverse. …
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
Treat girls like boys
I once watched \”Where Are We Going, Dad\” and there was a game in which the children were asked to choose one of the gifts they liked and the gift their father liked when their father was not around. The one who impressed me the most was Tian Liang’s son. When he was choosing a gift, he was very entangled and wanted to get both gifts. The village chief then asked him: \”Dad, do you love you?\” The child who was originally laughing and laughing, because of this…
Please, don\’t make such a joke with your children
A few days ago, a mother felt very embarrassed about her child\’s declining grades. Because the reason for the decline in children\’s grades turned out to be that a \”promise\” from the teacher was not fulfilled. The child cried and said, \”Why can the teacher just keep his word?\” It turns out that this child has always wanted to be the monitor, but there can only be one monitor. What should I do? The teacher made a joke with the child, saying that you…
This thing is more terrifying than a child being abandoned by his mother
On the way back from kindergarten with Xiao En, I met Lei Lei and his grandmother from the same community, and we walked together. Lei Lei is a few days older than Xiao En, and they play together occasionally. Lei Lei held Xiao En\’s hand and walked in front. While we adults were talking, I noticed that Lei Lei shook Xiao En\’s hand hard. Later, he actually grabbed Xiao En\’s hand and slapped Xiao En\’s hand over and over again. Body and face, while observing…
A child in captivity, his world is just a circle
Some time ago, there was a report in the American \”Overseas Chinese News\” that many international students were saddened by their inner melancholy and bitterness. Although many people are from well-off families and have no worries about food and clothing, they not only achieve nothing in learning, but also waste a lot of time and youth. They have not learned foreign languages well, but have almost forgotten Chinese. They live in chaos abroad, and they are accompanied by Japanese. Online gaming day after day. Why…
I\’m rich because I have a dad who reads to me
In the world of childcare in Chinese families, fathers are often a marginalized role. When we talk about fathers raising children, we often have images in our minds of grown men who are clumsy and confused, or of fathers who just throw themselves on the sofa when they get home from get off work. Perhaps because of the long-term social division of labor between men and women in the history of human society, many people have the consciousness that men are the masters of outside affairs and women are the masters of domestic affairs…
A family\’s tragedy starts from not talking well!
Yesterday was my grandpa’s birthday, and a large family gathered together to celebrate the old man. My aunt\’s cousin Jiajia had just finished taking the college entrance examination. During the dinner, I asked her: \”Which university are you going to apply for?\” Jiajia said: \”Any school outside the province is good. The farther away from home the better.\” I was surprised to hear this answer. In my impression, Jiajia has always been a well-behaved and sensible girl. I don\’t know…
Whether your child loves reading or watching TV, it’s up to you
Written in front: Today I want to talk to you about reading. The article has 3,300 words, so you can read it slowly. I mentioned my own story of studying later. You are welcome to leave a message for discussion and tell your own story. It is recommended that all parents develop the habit of reading in their children as early as possible. Don\’t wait until your children are older to regret it. These days many parent groups are discussing their children’s summer vacation arrangements. …
Do not lie to you! Many children become uglier and dumber as they grow older, all because of these 5 bad habits
When children are young, they generally cannot tell the difference between beauty and ugliness, they are all cute. But as they grow older, some children become \”outgrown\” or \”disabled\”, and their brains are not as flexible as when they were young. Many parents choose to \”accept their fate\”, thinking that this is the result of genetics and there is nothing anyone can do about it. But, you know what? Some of the children\’s acquired living habits, such as eating, sleeping, walking, and how the child behaves…
Child, please slow down and grow up
At noon in midsummer, I was writing an article in front of the computer. When I turned around, I found that my son had fallen asleep on my bed. He was lying in the middle of the bed in a \”big\” shape, with long arms and legs, head tilted, breathing evenly, quiet and well-behaved. Now, only when he is asleep, such a harmonious and beautiful picture will appear. More often than not, I keep reminding him: put down the phone, go play ball, go write…