Mom and dad, I\’m going to heaven, there are no quarrels there

Mom and Dad, you are quarreling again. I am so scared. Dad, the veins on your forehead are bulging, your eyes are so scary, your voice is so loud, my legs can’t help but shake. I\’m so afraid that you\’ll hit my mother. I\’m afraid that I\’ll never see my mother again. You can just hit me, but don\’t hit your mother, okay? Mom, you don’t look good at all with your hair disheveled. I want to go and help you tidy up your hair…

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Children \”lead the sheep\”, smart parents do this

On Saturday, Xiaomei took her 2-year-old daughter Qianqian to a classmate\’s house. The classmate also had a boy named Liangliang who was about the same age as Qianqian. Throughout the day, the two children of similar age played together very much. happy. When Xiaomei returned home in the evening, when she was packing Qianqian\’s schoolbag, she discovered that there was a children\’s picture book inside. In Xiaomei\’s memory, she and her husband had never bought this book for their daughter…

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Son, it took me 40 years to understand this truth. The sooner I know it, the better.

Child: School has started, and you feel sad and have serious resistance. Last night I urged you to do your homework, but you were a little annoyed and said, \”Why are you forcing me? Do you know how painful it is to study?\” Of course I know, kid. Mom doesn\’t want to force you to read. Mom just wants to tell you why we should read more. I lived to be forty, and many of the concepts I had when I was twenty were completely overturned, but \”…

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When you tell your child about the difficulty of making money, his childhood is over

Recently, my dad came to Guangzhou for a short stay. In his free time, he went to the vegetable market. After shopping, he lamented that the food in our community is so expensive. Sometimes I even start talking about how hard it was to raise us sisters and how difficult it was to make money. Usually at this time, I start to feel empty, my eyes are dull, my ears are numb, and my soul wanders out of my body and wanders into another world. Once on Zhihu…

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Fire left 40 children missing: It’s these “little things” that threaten children’s lives

A few days ago, a heartbreaking thing happened in a shopping mall in Russia. On the 25th local time, a fire broke out in a shopping mall in Russia. A spokesman for the local fire department said that the fire killed at least 37 people and about 69 people are missing, including 40 children. Reports show that the fire started in the children\’s play area on the top floor, and then the fire quickly spread to nearby areas on the same floor…

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With these three gifts, your child\’s life will be much smoother

From my initial exposure to children’s books, to studying child psychology, to creating this public account; from having no children, to when Dingdang was over two years old, I have read at least forty or fifty parenting books. The more I researched, the more I discovered that in fact, the so-called good education consists of just those few things. As long as we grasp the main direction and try our best to do what we should do, the children will…

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How important is a simple and happy mother to her children?

A few days ago, a mother left a message saying that her eight-year-old son had written something in his diary: \”I feel like I\’m not happy at all. My mother is too cruel and only likes my sister. I feel like she doesn\’t love me anymore.\” , I’m scared.” When she saw this sentence, she said she felt very sad. She said that her son was taken care of by her grandma until he was 3 years old. In recent years, the old man\’s health was not good, so she quit her job and stayed at home…

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The calmer the parents are, the better the children will be

As a parent, it is difficult to calmly read the news on the Internet: \”Writing homework with your children will cause a heart attack\”, \”30,000 yuan can\’t afford a summer vacation\”, \”The election of the parent committee is comparable to the company\’s CEO election\”… This is a matter of national anxiety. In this era, the most anxious people are parents. Nowadays, there are more and more Buddhist young people. They can do whatever they want and look down upon everything. But when they have children, they will…

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Sometimes, I just want you to hug me and talk nonsense

3-year-old Doudou has just started kindergarten this year. Recently, he has been crying before going to bed at night: \”Don\’t go to kindergarten tomorrow!\” Doudou\’s mother has to coax him for a long time before he will fall asleep. When she opened her eyes in the morning, the first thing Doudou did was to ask: \”Are you going to kindergarten today?\” After receiving a positive answer, Doudou covered her head with a quilt and cried: \”I haven\’t slept enough! Not today.\” ..

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What should I do if my children are addicted to games? The solution can be solved in half an hour with the magic weapon of \”family meeting\”

What should I do if Chengzi loves to play games? We had a family meeting. One afternoon, when I was picking up Chengzi from school, Chengzi said, \”Mom, let\’s have a family meeting tonight.\” I asked, \”Okay, what\’s the issue?\” \”I always want to solve it. Problems with looking at mobile phones and wanting to play games.\” I was a little curious: \”Why do you suddenly want to solve this problem?\”…

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