Yu Minhong once gave a very vivid example in a family education lecture: The family is a copy machine, the parents are the originals, and the children are the copies. If there is a problem with the copy, then we must go back to the original to find the problem. In daily life, every word and deed of parents affects their children in a subtle way. Parents must first set an example for what they want their children to be like…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
4 signs that children will not be filial to their parents in the future. The second one must be corrected immediately
The mantra of many parents nowadays is: My child, all the delicious food in the house is yours! Baby, we can sacrifice everything for you! You are only responsible for studying hard, and let mom take care of everything else! … They think this is for the good of their children, but they don\’t know that if they keep doing this, their children will become more and more arbitrary and will not be considerate at all…
90% of children are dragged down by this bad habit
No different than we did back then, children today have a harder and harder time learning. However, the moral, intellectual, physical, artistic, and physical aspects that should be developed in a balanced manner are mostly subject-mattered in most children. Many parents have neglected labor education and only focused on results, but did not pay attention to the laziness habits that are dragging down their children. How many children have succumbed to laziness? I have talked with many parents about this topic: Do you usually…
The worse the mother is, the better the child will be! It’s so timely to see it now
We are surrounded by good mothers who love their children eagerly, but if this kind of love turns into doting, it will be a sharp knife that destroys the child. A few days ago, my best friend complained to me that her son was 4 years old. She took care of the baby all day long for fear that something would happen. Over the past few years, my best friend has suffered from back pain all day long. She couldn\’t stand it anymore a few days ago, so she went to the hospital for a checkup, and it was said that she had a lumbar disc herniation. …
Be sure to tell your child these 7 secrets, otherwise it will harm him for life
Children\’s growth is inseparable from the correct teachings of their parents. Educating children is a process that accompanies their children\’s growth. Parents need to not only pay attention to their children\’s grades, but also pay attention to the shaping of their children\’s qualities, ideological education and the cultivation of habits. When a child reaches the age of 14, he is in adolescence, which is a critical stage for personality formation. As children change physically and mentally, parents need to communicate more with their children…
A mother’s letter to her son who is tired of studying made countless people cry: Studying is hard, not studying is even harder
Dear son: A few days ago you sent a funny video to your mother, and you couldn’t help shouting their slogan: \”I love learning, and learning makes my mother happy. My mother is happy, and the whole family is happy.\” You said they are too You are awesome, you are shouting out your innermost feelings, your eyes are shining with desire when you say this. I was a child, how could I not see the yearning in your eyes? I also rebelled…
The greatest blessing for a family is to raise excellent children
There is a question on Zhihu: What is the greatest blessing for a person? The highest praise answer is: \”The greatest blessing for a person is to raise excellent children.\” Zeng Guofan also said: \”I do not hope that every generation will be rich, but I hope that every generation will have talents. Scholars are the seeds of reading and the seeds of aristocratic families. It is a signboard and a banner of ethics and education.\” Smart people all know how to cultivate their children with care. Because the child…
36 effective communication skills with children to make your children more willing to listen to you
When it comes to communication, many parents tend to think that they have done a good job. \”I tell my child every day that he must study hard and get into college in the future.\” \”I stay with my child all day long, doing homework with him and preparing schoolbags for him. Isn\’t this communication?\” \”My child is always disobedient. I I have to scold him every day before he sits at his desk and studies.\” ……
Before the age of 6, never force your children to do these 4 things
I was sharing my daughter\’s poem reading check-in in the circle of friends, and saw a message from Yangyang\’s mother: \”I\’m so envious! My Yangyang refuses to read, and his father beat him several times!\” Yangyang is not even 3 years old yet! Yangyang\’s mother said that they saw on TV that some children knew a lot of words and could recite many poems at the age of 3, and some children could express themselves fluently in English at the age of four or five, so they also wanted Yangyang. ..
How to educate children well? Children must be taught these things before they are 6 years old
As the saying goes: there is no rule without rules. If we want to have an orderly life, we must abide by various rules everywhere. Of course, it is also very important to educate children to set rules. Why are there so many \”naughty children\” in society now? It\’s because parents don\’t give them correct examples at the age when they should set rules. The biggest fear is not that naughty children don’t do their homework, but that they don’t have rules. Bear…