There is a topic on Weibo: Your excessive expectations for your children are actually a kind of harm. This sentence resonated with many people, who all recounted their experiences of being overwhelmed by their parents’ expectations. One netizen’s experience is heartbreaking. She said: \”Neither of her parents are highly educated, so they put all their regrets on her.\” Since she was in elementary school, her mother has been doing…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
15 essential abilities for primary and secondary school students
The first type: Brainpower: Let children see more, listen more, contact more, and meet more people to increase brain synapses. For children in early childhood, one thing is very important: let them have as many experiences as possible to stimulate the five senses. Because during this period, the number of synapses connecting brain nerve cells is rapidly increased. The number of brain cells in humans is basically the same. but…
Tell your children to get close to positive people around them
I wonder if you have heard of it: the catfish effect. In Norway, people like to eat sardines, but because sardines like to swarm and are lazy by nature, it is often not easy to catch live fish. How to read \”The Boxcar Boy\”, a national treasure-level academic adventure story, in English original version pdf + audio. The fishermen try every means to get the sardines to the fishing port alive, but things often backfire. However there is one…
The new labor education concept teaches your children how to spend the May Day holiday?
Today is May Day, a common holiday for working people all over the world. It is also the best time to teach children to love labor. Letting children do housework from an early age not only reduces the burden on parents, but also promotes the overall development of children. By assuming certain housework responsibilities, it will help children form an independent personality and develop a psychological sense of security, and…
How painful is it for children who grow up to see their parents’ faces?
A mother said that her 10-year-old son was very timid and timid all day long. He was often bullied by his classmates at school, and she was worried about this. The relationship between her and her husband was not very good. They often quarreled, and the children were very depressed living in this environment. Not only that, the husband will beat the child whenever he is angry. As time goes by, the child becomes very \”obedient\”. …
Be wary of the seven types of mothers who specialize in cheating babies!
The first type: working too hard and living too tiringly. What my mother often talks about is \”Is it easy for me to pull you up so big?\” The word \”pull\” vividly expresses the hard work of raising children. I wake up early for my children at night, buy groceries and cook at dawn, send my children to school, help them with homework after class, and do laundry in the middle of the night. Diligence and simplicity are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation and a good wife…
Xie Weihe: \”Mother\’s education\” is the key to family education
Family education plays a very critical role in a person\’s growth, and mother\’s education is the most core factor in family education. In my thinking and research on family education, I often think of my mother. Her image in my eyes and her influence on my life and academic career are irreplaceable. My mother\’s words and deeds made me deeply understand that \”mother…
Li Meijin: When educating children, emotions must come first and restraint come last!
When we discuss a child\’s behavior, we often trace it back to the child\’s family of origin. In the end, we find that no matter whether the child\’s behavior is good or bad, it is inseparable from the influence of parents\’ education. Children\’s problems are all parents\’ problems, and children\’s excellence is all the fault of parents. Education starts from the moment a child is born. It doesn’t only happen when children are taught serious lessons…
How to make your child become a self-disciplined person
I heard a friend talk about her parenting experience, which was about \”tolerance\”. When most mothers are busy urging their children to get up on time to complete their summer homework every day; complain that their children are neglected and can\’t remember the things they need for interest classes; and complain to each other about their children\’s performance during the holidays in the parent group every day, I A friend who always looks much more elegant and calm. Being a parent forever…
The consequences of losing control of your emotions are terrible, parents must know
Mother lost control of her emotions and killed her child. A few days ago, I saw a piece of news that was both sad and angry. A 6-year-old boy in Fujian tried to go to bed without washing himself. When his mother saw this, she became angry, rushed to his room, and kicked the boy in the abdomen. Later, after the boy washed up and went to bed, he suddenly felt cold all over in the early morning, and his family immediately sent him to the hospital. After doctor…