The rise of psychology suddenly made \”original family\” a high-frequency vocabulary. Many people attribute all their current unidealities to their \”original family\” at many times. It was my \”original family\” that created my wrong way of thinking, wrong behavior patterns, wrong ideas about mate selection, wrong personality and temper, and all the wrong things about me that I am unwilling to accept from the bottom of my heart. …
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
Commit suicide if you don’t let them play with your mobile phone: Finally, you’ve got used to your child’s “glass heart”
If you spoil your child\’s \”glass heart\”, one day it will shatter into pieces. Recently, two topics have been trending on Weibo. Viewed separately, they are two different news items, but viewed together, it is not that simple: The first one was on the night of September 2nd, somewhere in Anhui Province, firefighters rescued a young girl from a river. According to the firefighter, the girl loved playing with her mobile phone too much…
Be careful, don’t wear these clothes on your children!
In September, another large number of children entered the kindergarten. When a child is born, when we become mothers for the first time, we are a little at a loss. When facing a child entering kindergarten for the first time, some friends are also a little confused about how the child will adapt and how to communicate with the teacher more easily and effectively. It\’s the first time that my baby has left my sight. I can understand the concern, and I hope that my experience and that of those around me can help my family…
Children always cannot afford to lose, so comfort is effective
Two days ago, I saw a message like this in the background, which really touched me. The problem this mother mentioned is actually a problem I often hear when communicating with my friends. The mothers around me feel quite distressed. I myself have even encountered conflicts that broke out directly in front of me because my children refused to admit defeat. That scene left a deep impression on me. That time, my father and I…
Will it really be easier to take care of my children when they grow older?
When their children are very young, many people comfort themselves or others and say, \”It will be easier to take care of the child when he grows up.\” The basic meaning is: \”When the child is young, it is difficult to communicate in language, and he can\’t say anything.\” I understand what you mean, so it is difficult to take care of them; when children are young, their eating and sleeping rhythms have not yet been formed, and they have to rely on their mothers to coax them, so it is difficult to take care of them;…\” Wait, wait, etc.,…
What happened to those spoiled children?
In August this year, a 26-year-old unemployed man in Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province, drank pesticide and threatened to die because his father asked for 5,000 yuan for living expenses and was rejected. At the age of 26, he has reached the age to support his parents, but not only is this man unable to solve the most basic problems of food and clothing on his own, he also needs living expenses from his father, who has a low income. As soon as the news came out, people were calling this man \”…
The shadow of your parents is deeply hidden in your marriage
In \”The Unbearable Lightness of Being\”, there are many descriptions of the influence of parents on their children\’s marriage that is difficult to detect. When Franz first met Sabina, he said to her in a solemn tone as if Columbus had just seen the American coast: \”Sabina, you are a woman.\” He emphasized the word \”woman\” and said to him The word is not used to refer to the two genders of human beings…
Stop punishing your kids because it doesn\’t work! What you need is this 5-step action guide…
Children are children and they will always do wrong things. Do they need to be punished? How to give children a chance to self-reflect and correct? In life, we tell our children a lot of “no’s”: don’t lie on the floor, don’t say bad words, don’t yell… Or we say a lot of “musts”: be polite, take breaks on time, do your homework on time… …
Strong mothers are a taboo in family education
Two days ago, my cousin came to my house and looked aggrieved when talking about her children\’s education. She complained to me that since her son entered elementary school, he has found it increasingly difficult to manage him, his grades are not satisfactory, and his homework is often not completed. She asked me: \”What is the problem? I can\’t wait to stare at him 24 hours a day, why is this still happening?\” I said to my cousin: \”The reason is not the child, but you. …
Which one should I choose, whether my child no longer wants to live or my child has poor grades?
A little girl was sent to the emergency room who had drunk pesticide. It turned out that the little girl\’s mid-term exam results were not satisfactory, and her mother criticized her a few times. As a result, the child drank pesticide in a fit of anger. Despite the doctors\’ best efforts and two hemoperfusions, the blood drug concentration has not been able to drop, and multiple organs have begun to fail. He still has a month to live at most. Doctors advise parents to take care of their children…