Why is loving your husband more important than loving your children?

Last weekend, my daughter’s friend Qiqi celebrated her birthday and invited her to be a guest, so I accompanied my daughter to attend. After Qiqi made her birthday wish, she suddenly asked: \”Mom, Dad, who do you love most?\” Her mother replied, \”The one I love most is Qiqi\”, and her father quickly replied, \”Of course it is Qiqi.\” . Qiqi then happily kissed her mother on the left and on the right…

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Sorry baby, after crying, can you forgive me?

Mother C’s mood these days has reached its lowest point of the whole year, even though it has only been a few days this year. Because the body is tired, the mind is even more tired. Recently, I spent the entire morning taking CC to transition classes. The work has not decreased at all, but my time has been squeezed to half of what it used to be. The unfinished parts can only be continued after CC falls asleep. I used to work until late at night, but I can finish it the next day…

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My son is an ordinary kid

From childhood to adulthood, my son has been very well-behaved and sensible, and has performed well in all aspects. Many parents who are familiar with him praise him when they mention him. He seems to be an enviable \”other people\’s child\”. He surprised me again and again, and I took it for granted that he was smart and capable, so I unknowingly raised my requirements for him, hoping that he would develop in an all-round way and perform well. …

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The best parent is to be your child\’s friend

After dinner, my son’s classmate called him and asked him to go downstairs to play. My son asked me for instructions. Although I was reluctant, I agreed. At 7:30 every night, it’s time for the whole family to watch the news together. Without my son by our side, my husband and I would watch the news without a commentator. It\’s like watching a football game without the announcer, the atmosphere is completely complete. I like to watch the news and listen to it…

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Only failed women will use their children as a \”tool\” to maintain their marriage.

For conflicts between adults, just resolve them between the adults. Don\’t involve the children. What\’s the point of using children to vent their anger and use them as a shield! Is it really good for the child to make do with it for the sake of the child? I went back to my hometown a few days ago and saw Xiaomi again. She was no longer the same person I knew when I was young. The once gentle, sweet and innocent girl gradually changed into someone after getting married and having children…

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As parents, why should we work harder?

Some time ago, an old classmate started a WeChat group. He said that he accidentally heard a song that he often listened to while studying. I just wanted to bring in a few friends who are good friends to chat. Someone posted a sentence: \”Where have you been these years?\” This made everyone very sad. \”In the past few years, I have become a father\” \”In the past few years, I have become a mother\” \”How have you been?\” …

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Male and female babies think very differently, you must know

Because of an experience I had when I was a kid, I became interested in brain science. I checked a lot of brain-related information. In the process, I also learned that there are big differences between the brains of boys and girls, and these differences also lead to behaviors. on the difference. With this understanding, when I look at some of OK\’s \”weird\” behaviors, such as not liking to sleep, I feel like they have been validated…

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The higher the level of parents, the less restrictive they are to their children.

A mother said in a message that she felt she was trapped in a strange circle in her children\’s education. The greater her expectations for her children, the greater her disappointment. In order to train her children to become excellent people, this mother gave up all her time, accompanying her children to do homework in the evenings, and accompanying her children to various cram schools on weekends. However, the children\’s grades not only did not improve significantly, but also declined. , and her words are…

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If your baby doesn’t like reading, you must be doing something wrong.

There is already a lot of talk about the benefits of early reading. However, the actual reaction of many mothers is that the benefits are just like a flower, but the baby doesn’t buy it at all, okay? Either he was tearing up the book and chewing it, or he could not sit still for a moment as if he had a thorn in his butt, or he was running away as fast as he could escape after listening to a page. Take our more than 3 years of experience with CC as an example, dear…

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Parents who don’t know how to say no are not good parents

Oscar Wilde once said: \”The best way to make children well-behaved is to make them happy. And most adults in this society are surprisingly stingy when it comes to making children happy.\” Making children happy includes material things Enjoyment and spiritual satisfaction, however, parents born in the 80s and 90s are always happy to meet their children\’s material needs, so that their children never feel…

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