Mr. Fan Zhongyan has had the ambition to save people and save the world since he was a child. He has accumulated meritorious deeds throughout his life and is never tired of it. He often said, \”Be worried about the worries of the world first, and be happy after the joys of the world\”, \”I am old and I am like the old of others, and I am young and I am like the young of others\” – this is his purpose in life. Fan Zhongyan once left a family motto with a hundred-character inscription, which was passed down from generation to generation by his descendants. By the early years of the Republic of China, it had not faded for eight hundred years. We usually…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
Parents should accept the ordinaryness of their children
It’s final exam season again, and anxiety among parents has doubled. Various news about college entrance examinations, high school entrance examinations, final exams, etc. are constantly flooding the screen; a certain top student next to me has been admitted to a certain prestigious school in advance; someone else’s child has ranked first in a mock test before the final… But I Where\’s your baby? No matter how hard you try, you will still be an ordinary kid who is neither good nor bad, unhurried… Everyone hopes…
What to do if a child has poor mobility
I heard a very touching story. Teacher Zheng Yuanjie, who wrote fairy tales, apologized to his young readers and fans 37 years ago. The reason is that there were too many letters from readers back then and it was impossible to reply to them all. However, 37 years later, he found the letter again and wrote a reply, wishing this friend a happy New Year. A complete collection of inspirational stories and great principles [best-selling collector\’s edition] pdf more…
Problem children originate from \”strong mother + invisible father\”
The famous American psychologist Gerdi said that father is a unique existence and has a special power in cultivating children. Gao Xiaosong is known as a \”genius\” of a generation. He has a super high IQ but some weird personalities. At a \”Qi Pa Conference\”, Gao Xiaosong talked about his father. He said emotionally: \”I have never asked my father a question in my life…
What should I do if my children are not focused on their homework?
Children are not engaged in learning, have no status in class, and have difficulty concentrating. No matter what grade they are in, this is a headache for many parents. Especially in elementary schools, teachers may complain every day that their children are not serious in class. If the child is not focused on studying, many teachers and parents may wonder, \”Does this child have ADHD?\” In fact, if there is a problem with the child\’s concentration, parents can…
Reasons why babies talk late
They are both 3 or 4 years old. My friend’s children can’t stop the car with their language and can “annoy people to death” when they talk too much. On the other hand, my own children sit on the sofa all day or stare at the TV. Or play alone with a toy. They are obviously the same age, why is there such a big gap? Some people say that although children talk late now, their future achievements will only be higher or lower…
What is the true growth of a child?
On the road of children\’s growth, the reason why children become outstanding is not because of their parents\’ arrangements, but because of their parents\’ letting go. In the process of raising children, I always feel that loving children means doing everything for them, until the children become lazy and lose their independence. Only then did I realize that I thought I was good to my children, but in fact it did not make my children better themselves, and it also made my children far away from being excellent…
How parents can criticize their children correctly
1. Every child has different temperament and personality. In psychology, there are four types of human temperament, namely: choleric type, sanguine type, phlegmatic type, and depressive type. 1. Choleric type The characteristics of choleric are \”rapid, strong, and lasting emotions, and rapid, strong, and powerful actions.\” People who belong to this type are enthusiastic, straightforward…
How do parents encourage their children to act from the heart?
A few days ago, a friend came to me for help, saying that her child’s academic performance was not very good before, so she thought of many ways to motivate her: If he scored 80 points in the exam, he would take him to a big meal; if he ranked in the top 20, he would be rewarded. Toys; if you get to the top 10, you will be rewarded with a trip to Disneyland. Parents have worked hard, but their children\’s grades have not improved. At first, the children were interested in this reward system…
What to do if a child threatens his parents by crying
Do you often encounter children who cry when they are not given toys, cry when they are not allowed to eat ice cream, cry when they are not allowed to look at their mobile phones, cry when they are not allowed to play with items that cannot be played with, or cry when they are not allowed to eat inappropriate food? In short, as long as they are not satisfied, they will roll on the floor and cry loudly. For this reason, many parents compromise in order to prevent their children from crying. In fact, I used to be like this, but recently I found that if my children are not satisfied…