Zeng Shiqiang’s comprehensive skills in parent-child relationship are 10,000 times more important than education

Ruirui is a child in our kindergarten. He has very poor self-control. Not only can he not sit still, he often yells for no reason. He does not know how to interact with others. If he likes someone, he may slap him in the face. Later he was diagnosed with sensory integration disorder. The left brain was at the level of an eight-year-old child, and the right brain was only at the level of a two-year-old child. Ruirui\’s mother panicked now. She used to ignore her children, but when she got angry…

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The way you treat your child now will determine the kind of partner he will be in the future.

Outside the window, the night rain was pouring, and in the cafe, my best friend, with a sad face, told me about the bloody drama with her boyfriend. All of them were so familiar and typical that I reflexively tried to analyze the causes and consequences behind them. My best friend couldn\’t help but be shocked, saying that everything was right, and lamented that I suddenly had the fortune-telling ability like a charlatan. I smiled bitterly and said: When you become a mother, you will also…

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If you love me, please tell me

In my memory, my parents are both very serious and serious people. Growing up, I have never heard them tell me that they like me, let alone tell me that they love me. In their eyes, \”love\” is like a forbidden word that they are ashamed to speak. In a small town like ours, I have never seen other parents express love to their children. when…

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Participating in a charity sale in my son’s class, I saw three completely different types of parents.

A few days ago, I participated in a charity sale at my son’s school. Because there was something going on in my hometown, I didn’t go home until the day before the event. That night I looked at the items he had prepared for the charity sale. There are five or six books in total, and a few small toys. He chose the books well. \”The Magic School Bus\” and \”You Look Delicious\” were both taken out by him. And toys seem a bit too stingy…

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What should I do if my child shrinks when encountering difficulties? He or she may be suffering from learned helplessness.

My colleague in the office, Sister Zhang, has been yawning all the time recently and complained to us. After her children entered elementary school, they had to do their homework at 10 o\’clock every day, and it was 11 or 12 o\’clock when they finished washing and went to bed, so they felt that they didn\’t get enough sleep every day. . I was very puzzled and asked: \”Primary school students have so much homework? How can the teacher put so much pressure on the children?\” \”It\’s not that there are too many homeworks, but that Yaoyao sees…

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Why don\’t you let your mother-in-law take care of the children? What this mother said is true.

I am the mother of a 2-year-old boy and live with my husband in Guangzhou. When I was pregnant with the child, my parents-in-law hoped that I could leave the child in my hometown and let them take care of it. But this means being separated from the child, so I tend to take care of it myself. However, I still feel a little guilty because my mother-in-law thinks so highly of my grandson. After giving birth to the child, I stayed at my husband\’s house for two…

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\”Dad, is money really more important than me?\” I saw countless people crying…

I was heartbroken by two children today. My tears were not low, but looking at what the children said, I shed tears over and over again. In \”Youth Talk\”, Ouyang Shuangrong, a second-grade girl, wants her parents to spend her birthday with her. She said: \”In my impression, my parents have never spent their birthdays with me. When I see other children\’s birthdays with their parents, I am very…

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During the critical period of baby brain development, do you want to spend sky-high prices on right-brain development training?

While studying in Wuhan last month, I attended a friend\’s party. During the dinner, a friend told me that her sister enrolled her son, who had just entered fifth grade, in a right-brain development class. The cost for two days was 29,800. A friend asked me if right brain development is really so effective? The price scares me a bit. Although there are many cram schools priced at RMB 20,000 to RMB 30,000, the key is only two days! every day…

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A collection of 5 breakfast recipes for children. The first one is the most harmful to your children. Don’t eat it again.

A few days ago, the neighbor\’s child was poisoned! This is no joke. 6-year-old Dongdong went to an interest class. Within a few minutes, he started vomiting and became so dizzy that he could not stand. The teacher rushed him to the hospital. After checking, I found out that Dongdong was suffering from nitrite poisoning. It turns out that Dongdong likes to eat white porridge with pickles for breakfast. That morning he ate a lot of grandma\’s freshly pickled vegetables…

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