During the weekend, Lele was doing homework. Dad came over and took a look. He thought his writing was too sloppy, so he tore it up and asked him to rewrite it. It was almost finished, and Lele was obviously very unhappy, but intimidated by his father\’s majesty, he obediently started writing again. After not writing a few words, my father was still dissatisfied, so he rewrote it twice. Lele cried anxiously, and my father became even more angry…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
Didn’t expect you to be such a kindergarten teacher? For the sake of your child, please communicate with the teacher like this
Today I would like to share two things with you. The first thing: 3-year-old Qiqi went to kindergarten for the first time. Mother sent Qiqi away with great reluctance, and finally stopped Qiqi\’s anxiety for the time being, and then turned back uneasily. When she picked up Qiqi in the evening, her mother got angry – Qiqi peed on two pairs of pants, cried and threw herself into her mother\’s arms, saying that she was hungry and had no food to eat. Mother…
My face hurts after becoming a mother
A few days ago, I took Dingdang to an early childhood education class. The teacher sang English songs in rhythm. The other children danced and danced with the teacher, but he was the only one who walked around and played by himself. Although the teacher repeatedly emphasized that children can move around and play freely, I thought about the hundreds of dollars a class and couldn\’t help but bring Dingdang to the teacher\’s side, hoping that he could feel the joy of singing and dancing with the children…
When you secretly admit that your child is not that good…
Every pair of parents will have ardent hopes for their children: The first time he went swimming, the father had already begun to imagine that his children would grow up to become good swimmers and dominate the pool. The child hears the unconscious rhythm of the music, and the mother has already imagined a huge stage. Under the spotlight, the child\’s figure jumps and nimbly moves. The child turned over for the first time and danced with joy; for the first time…
Isn\’t it a good thing to be a weak mother?
It is said that a mother is strong and a mother is strong. As an unqualified mother of two children, I am slowly trying to show weakness to my children, and I am gradually realizing the sweetness of it. Going to sleep every night is a sweet and painful moment. Often I would lie on the bed with my sister Xiaowanzi, and I would close my eyes and fall asleep, quietly opening a crack with one eye to look at her, for fear of being discovered by her. She rolled around for a while…
The saddest thing in the world is that even your parents don’t believe you
On National Day last year, our family went to visit Beijiushui, Qingdao. The gate of the scenic spot is far away from the parking lot. After getting off the shuttle bus, you still have to walk a kilometer or two. Finally, we entered the scenic spot. Two hundred meters from the gate, there was a small lake with many stone benches. My mother said: \”Let\’s sit here and watch the children for you.\” I said: \”We just entered the scenic spot. The children came with great difficulty. Let her…
Does your child hit others at home? Maybe you did something wrong
Doudou\’s mother was very distressed some time ago. She said that the 2-year-old little Doudou was lively and cute, but he had a problem that was difficult to change despite repeated education, that is, he loved to hit others. Anyone? No, only to family members. They would attack if they disagreed. Sometimes, even if they were having a good time, they would come over with a playful smile and slap them in the face. Pulling hair, pinching arms, scratching face, these are Doudou\’s common methods. As we get older,…
Opportunism is the core of Chinese wisdom
When I was a kid, I couldn\’t understand my dad\’s three iron rules the most. First, you are not allowed to throw dirty things into any water source; second, you are not allowed to trample and kill new lives; third, you are not allowed to speak ill of others behind their backs. I once stood by the river to urinate, and a charity dad slapped me in the face without saying a word. He looked very scary when he was angry. Dad was silent for a while, then turned around and scolded me: They are all like you…
Children, please don’t be clever. Keeping promises is a kind of ability.
How to break love entanglement? A mother of a sixth grader came to me for consultation. According to this mother\’s description, the thing that troubles her the most is that her children like to make stringent demands, are impatient, and do not keep their promises. They often conflict with their mothers over trivial matters in life. Mom often fails to argue with him, so she will lose her temper to suppress him. Mom knows that this hurts the parent-child relationship, but she also…
Please respect your child’s friction, it’s a secret that most parents don’t know
A few days ago, a mother got \”hot\” early in the morning. This is how it was posted in the circle of friends: \”I slept in and woke up for dozens of minutes in the morning. I couldn\’t finish eating for half an hour and kept dragging my feet! I told him that he could play after eating, but he didn\’t listen at all! I was distressed and painful! Angry! But I can\’t help but seem to have gotten him used to this! After beating him, he returned to his original state after a while, what should I do?\” The child…