When I was a kid, I couldn\’t understand my dad\’s three iron rules the most. First, you are not allowed to throw dirty things into any water source; second, you are not allowed to trample and kill new lives; third, you are not allowed to speak ill of others behind their backs. I once stood by the river to urinate, and a charity dad slapped me in the face without saying a word. He looked very scary when he was angry. Dad was silent for a while, then turned around and scolded me: They are all like you…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
Children, please don’t be clever. Keeping promises is a kind of ability.
How to break love entanglement? A mother of a sixth grader came to me for consultation. According to this mother\’s description, the thing that troubles her the most is that her children like to make stringent demands, are impatient, and do not keep their promises. They often conflict with their mothers over trivial matters in life. Mom often fails to argue with him, so she will lose her temper to suppress him. Mom knows that this hurts the parent-child relationship, but she also…
Please respect your child’s friction, it’s a secret that most parents don’t know
A few days ago, a mother got \”hot\” early in the morning. This is how it was posted in the circle of friends: \”I slept in and woke up for dozens of minutes in the morning. I couldn\’t finish eating for half an hour and kept dragging my feet! I told him that he could play after eating, but he didn\’t listen at all! I was distressed and painful! Angry! But I can\’t help but seem to have gotten him used to this! After beating him, he returned to his original state after a while, what should I do?\” The child…
Mom, are you the nanny?
Years ago, when I was in college, I met a mother and daughter who left a deep impression on me. It was on a cruise ship. Although the scenery on the shore was beautiful, everyone\’s attention was attracted by a little girl. Because this is really a very beautiful little girl. She looks like seven or eight years old, and she is wearing a princess dress that is as beautiful as her. Refined…
A beautiful writer commits suicide. After ten years, she cannot escape the shadow of her childhood… Please be careful in educating yourself in this regard!
Last week, I saw this news for the first time. At that time, I was very shocked and sad. Taiwanese beauty Lin is a beautiful, academic, super talented, and so perfect in the eyes of the outside world that it makes people envious and jealous. Yi Han, after ten years, was still unable to escape the shadow of childhood sexual assault and chose to hang himself at home. Until today on the public account \”show…
A foreign mother writes a letter to teach her 7-year-old son how to \”pick up girls\”: the scale is so big that he is shy
From childhood to adulthood, we have been taught by our parents not to fall in love prematurely. If there is even the slightest hint of trouble, we will fall into \”eternal disaster\”. But the mother I’m going to talk about today, Constance Hall, is the mother of four children, the oldest of which is only 7 years old. Constance Hall and her four children are happily nestled together…
Cultivating children’s reading habits must start from early childhood
A netizen once asked me: \”What should I do if my child doesn\’t like to read?\” I asked: \”How old is your child?\” She said he was 8 years old, and I asked again: \”Have you read picture books to him before he was 6 years old? ?” She said no, she didn’t even know what a picture book was at that time. Before the child is 6 years old, it is the golden period for reading enlightenment. If he has not read any books during this period, after entering elementary school…
41 ways to exercise your child’s brain, making it difficult to think smart or not
Every parent wants their children to be smarter, but according to relevant reports, most people\’s IQs are actually very close. How to make your child stand out among children with similar IQs? The obvious thing is to find the right way to exercise your child\’s brain. Today I recommend 41 ways to exercise your children’s brain. They are simple and easy to do. You can try them with your children~…
The mother is responsible for \”losing herself\”, but the baby will not bear it
Recently, a close friend quit her job and decided to become a stay-at-home mother. The reason is that her child will be promoted from kindergarten to primary school next year. In order to prepare for the private elementary school entrance examination with her child in the last year, she decided to give up her job temporarily and enter the so-called \”chicken baby\” state wholeheartedly. My first reaction after hearing this was, what if my child fails the exam? Wouldn’t that be very disappointing? The burning cauldron…
What is the key step in a child’s reading journey?
A few days ago, a mother came to my place to pick out a few sets of books for her baby. I asked her, after buying so many books, have the children read them? \”I have read a few books, but the children don\’t like some of them, and I don\’t know how to tell them.\” How to tell stories to children? Everything is difficult at the beginning, and the critical first step must be taken well. I think the critical first step often has nothing to do with books and reading itself. and…