\”Wait a minute\” is a very disappointing thing for children

Wait, let the child feel neglected. I was accompanying my daughter downstairs in the community. There were a few children playing here and there, and a few adults sitting nearby. A little boy of three or four years old was running around happily. He seemed to have discovered something curious among the flowers. He ran towards his mother happily: \”Mom, come and see.\” Her mother was chatting with someone, Without even looking at the child, I casually…

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Are children smarter when they write backwards? Is it an IQ problem that can\’t be corrected?

Just one week into school, Tingting\’s mother was already called to the school by her teacher for a talk. Tingting has a lot of problems: she can\’t concentrate in class, often talks to herself, and can\’t understand the teacher\’s instructions. But the most serious problem is that she often writes words backwards, writes b instead of d, can\’t distinguish between p and q, and can\’t distinguish between numbers. Not only can I write wrong letters and numbers backwards, I can also write Chinese characters backwards. The teacher said that the characters I just learned can be written backwards…

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After reading Ruyi\’s Royal Love in the Palace, I realized that cultivating these three qualities of my daughter is more important than raising her rich.

After \”Story of Yanxi Palace\”, the costume drama \”Ruyi\’s Royal Love in the Palace\” became a hit. One of the plots is: After three years of being wronged, Ruyi, played by Zhou Xun, finally got out of the cold palace with the joint efforts of the \”Ruyi Sisters Army\” and made step-by-step plans to become the queen. After reading Ruyi\’s counterattack experience, I admired her, but when I looked at my daughter, I couldn\’t help but think deeply. Raising a girl…

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Those mothers who have children who find it difficult to teach me and want to give up may be doing something wrong.

Before the National Day, Minyi\’s father planned to treat some close friends to a meal at home. When our friends arrived, our two children were busy in and out for their arrival. The eldest brother is helping me serve the food, and the second child is helping them get their slippers. During the meal, Minbao also kept helping Yibao, who was learning how to hold chopsticks, to eat without showing any signs of impatience. Minyi\’s father\’s friend…

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It’s not for nothing that children cry.

We always find some treasures in the works of some great thinkers. After becoming a parent, I understand some things more deeply when I read them. If someone who is not a parent reads it, it should be more of a yearning. And when we read, we seem to read ourselves. I really like this poem \”The Way of Children\” written by Rabindranath Tagore. The translator is Mr. Zheng Zhenduo. …

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Stephen Chow talks about mother: You never know how much love is hidden in your child\’s \”randomness\”

A few days ago, I was made to cry by a piece of news. My mother is a highway toll collector and works a 10-hour night shift at night. As for the child over 1 year old, when he woke up at night and couldn\’t see her, he cried endlessly. One time, the father felt really sorry for his child and drove the child to the toll station to find his mother, but they could not chat at the station. So the father took the child around and around the bridge…

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Du Jiang\’s \”The Way of Father and Son\”: Whether a man is good or not depends on how he treats his wife and children

The Uhm family is always hotly discussed. Last month, when the family celebrated Huo Siyan\’s birthday, the Uhm behind the family photo was blurry. \”It\’s obviously a movie about three people, but Uh-huh can\’t have names.\” In fact, being shown affection by his parents is a daily routine for Uh-huh. ▼Although for Du Jiang and Huo Siyan, Uh-huh is just an accident, the relationship between Du Jiang and Uh-huh father and son…

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With this kind of emotional education for young children, children will never be ruined by being \”sensible\”

A few days ago, I was browsing Weibo and came across a short video. A foreign father is comforting his daughter. The daughter blushed, lowered her head, said nothing, and looked like she had just lost her temper. Faced with such a daughter, what did the father say? Is there any of the things we are used to saying, \”You get angry over this, why are you so petty?\” or \”He didn\’t mean it on purpose.\”? …

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How to educate children when they make mistakes? This kind of criticism is the most effective!

For young children, there are always times when parents need to point out their mistakes and tell their children not to do that. This is the responsibility of the educator. However, many times this kind of critical education does not achieve good results, and the result is that the parents are annoyed and the children are at a loss. The content of what you say is important, but if you say the same content in different ways, it will have completely different effects. Right now…

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How to educate naughty children when they fight? It\’s best for parents to watch around like this

A while ago, I was chatting with a good friend who is a teacher, and she brought up a very interesting topic. Now she teaches third grade primary school students. From time to time in class, a child will raise his hands angrily and say, \”Teacher! So-and-so classmate took my eraser/pencil and refused to give it to me!\” After listening, she replied, then so-and-so you Return the rubber to others quickly. After a while, the child continued to raise his hands angrily…

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