When I get old, I won’t help my children take care of them either…

There is such a true story around Taotao G: a girlfriend who had not yet been \”weaned\” before becoming a mother (she was not yet able to take care of herself, lived in her parents\’ house, and worked as a pension), after three years of full-time child care, now she is , Career and child care, life has become like \”other people\’s mother\”. She said: Thanks to my mother for not helping me take care of the children, I hit rock bottom…

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Behind every harmonious family there is a smart husband

If a man wants to always fill the 421 family with a harmonious and happy atmosphere, he needs to have a smart mind and the ability to change at any time. This sounds a bit incredible! In fact, it is really not difficult to do this as long as you pay more attention to your life. Scene 1 My daughter has a fever again. Xiaolu and her husband hurriedly grabbed a few bites of rice after work, and were bombarded by their child\’s grandmother…

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The house is rented, but the child’s childhood is not

My friend M was moving, and I sent him a message on WeChat to help him. He said he was just helping me, but he was just looking after the kids. If I remember correctly, this should be M’s fifth move in Shenzhen. M is a colleague I met at my first job in Shenzhen. At that time, the company was in Luohu, so we shared a two-bedroom apartment in an urban village near Laojie. Later, my job changed and I moved out of the shared house. M and other roommates…

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If you accompany your child to do homework, even if you become a Buddha, you will still be a warrior monk!

Near the end of the term, a picture posted by a teacher on WeChat Moments made thousands of parents laugh and cry. This child wearing a helmet while doing homework, what have you experienced? Dear mommies who are doing homework with their babies, are you still alive? The final exam sprint, the time to test the fruits of our labor is coming soon! Are you very excited…

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If these abilities are not developed in children before going to school, it will be too late when the children grow up.

Mian\’s father has a female colleague who has a daughter at home who has just entered elementary school this year. Since the child entered school, the family, including the child himself, has been in \”dire straits\”. Every day, he is either anxious about his schoolwork or about his child\’s life in school. worry. Compared to a kindergarten environment where all the children sit together and there are no fixed seats, the primary school classroom is really like a time for children who have just entered primary school…

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I finally found the antidote to the incurable disease of children watching TV and playing games…

Last summer, when our family was in the United States, Xiaopai went to summer camp in the morning. After taking a nap, he would turn on the TV and watch \”Running Man\”, a popular variety show in China. I was breastfeeding in the room, listening to her laughing from time to time in the living room, but I felt a little anxious. She had been watching for more than an hour, why didn\’t she turn it off unconsciously? ! Because of this mentality,…

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amazing! Reporters pretended to be strangers in the “knock-knock test” and 100% of the children fell into the trap and were deceived

Little rabbit, be good, open the door. Open it quickly. I want to come in. If you can’t open it, I won’t open it. Mommy hasn’t come back. This children’s song that everyone is familiar with is to educate children: “Don’t let strangers in your house when you are alone at home.” \”Open the door\”, however, it is not an easy task to really ingrain this concept into children\’s little minds! No, a few days ago, media reporters…

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Anger: The child had fever and convulsions, and the family believed the rumor and poured boiling water down his throat!

Taotao recently saw a scary piece of news about febrile convulsions. How should we deal with them correctly? I specially invited my good friend @白衣婆. Quickly move the bench and read it carefully~ Don’t forget to share it with your friends after reading it. ~ (The data shared will be the basis for choosing a topic like this next time~) We have heard a lot of \”rumors\”, such as boiling water to scald…

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What about child rebellion?

Educating children is a cliché in itself, especially children in the rebellious period. I would like to share with you the following seven points. I hope every parent who has poor communication with their children will take a careful look at it and find out how to solve the problem of how to communicate with their children now. In fact, after all, the most important thing when communicating with children is to be patient! patience! patience! 1. Communication between parents and children This is the most fundamental, maybe very…

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Learn this, and children will be more likely to be happy

Is it important that a child’s grades are good? important. Does it matter if the child has a good personality? important. Is it important for children to have good moral character? important. Is it important for children to be well-educated? important. However, will a child with good grades definitely be happy in the future? uncertain. Will a child with a good personality be happy in the future? uncertain. Will a child with good moral character be happy in the future? …

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